50. Heart-to-heart talk
"This matter was originally an action made by the Lin family to make amends for your sins, if you think you can accept it, then promise Lin Boya, if you feel that you can't accept it, your father will tell you. ”
Yun Anbang originally wanted to continue to say that Lin Boya was not, but his wife pulled the corner of his clothes and gave him a look, so he could only silently swallow the unspoken words and change his rhetoric.
My daughter still likes Lin Boya, and if she says too much, it won't be good if her daughter gets angry at that time.
"Thank you, Dad. ”
Yun Qingzhi also knew that her father didn't want her to be embarrassed when he said this, and wanted her to do what she wanted without any burden.
"Since the Lin family said that they would wait until after the Hundred Flowers Banquet to send people to the family temple, then wait until after the Hundred Flowers Banquet, if the Lin family does not have any indication at that time, then it will be bothering Daddy to take a trip. ”
It's okay to postpone the time, but it's impossible to take advantage of it.
Half a month is fleeting, and she wants to see if Lin Boya can find other reasons at that time.
"Come on," Yun Anbang didn't have to think about it to know that it would be the result, "Since you have already thought about it, Dad has nothing to say." ”
"But daughter, what about Dad, I want to marry you because I hope that someone will accompany you instead of us in the future and give you happiness. ”
In his eyes, Yun Qingzhi chose to wait for the Hundred Flowers Banquet to deal with the Wen family this time because of Lin Boya's regression, which was wronged.
Yun Anbang has the heart to explain his inner thoughts to Yun Qingzhi clearly, so that she knows that there is no need for her to wronged herself for a man.
"Daddy and mother will be old, your brothers will also marry wives and have children, and the attention to stay on you will be less in the future, and I hope that you can still live well without us in the future. ”
"Dad doesn't want you to compromise and seek perfection, my daughter should be wanton, even if you stab the sky through a hole, there is a father for you to stand up, Jin Wangfu will always be your backer. ”
Yun Anbang wanted to tell his daughter that no matter when, even if she was married, she was also his Yun Anbang's daughter and his aunt and grandmother in the Jin Palace.
If she is not happy, then it is too much, in this family, there will always be a place for her.
Don't always wronged yourself for a man, the man who can make her wronged is not worthy of her sincere treatment.
"I know. ”
Yun Qingzhi clenched the tea cup in her hand, and there were ripples in her heart.
In her previous life, when she was about to withdraw from her marriage with Lin Boya, her father also said something similar.
It was these words that made her decide that she must divorce Lin Boya, and she must not wronged herself.
But too many things happened later, and the promise her father made to her at the beginning was not fulfilled in the end.
Occasionally, when she is free, she will also think that a Bai Manli really has such ability, and can make the family members who are really good to her all stand on the opposite side of her and become her enemies?
There is no solution to this answer.
Because she knew that her family treated her sincerely, but her family also helped Bai Manli in the end, and the two contradictory practices could magically coexist, which was really unpredictable Why did all this happen?
She thought she could do it without care, but when her father said such a thing to her again, she wanted to go over and ask why.
Since he said that he would give her wholehearted favoritism and love, why didn't he do it in the end?
But at that moment, she remembered that only she knew all this.
If she asked this sentence rashly, probably in the eyes of her father, it was probably something she imagined.
A thousand words in my heart, in the end, only one sentence remained, I know.
Except for her, no one knows how many years have flashed in her heart at that moment.
"It's good that you know. ”
Yun Anbang saw that Yun Qingzhi listened to his words, and nodded with satisfaction.
It's not a good thing for her daughter to like Lin Boya too much, how many times have she wronged herself for Lin Boya.
Well, now, as long as his daughter can listen to his words, she doesn't need to worry about her daughter being wronged for Lin Boya in the future.
When the children are older, sometimes they are not as obedient as when they were young, and sometimes they even come the other way around.
Fortunately, his daughter is obedient, no matter what he says, she will listen carefully.
However, the two families really need to be prepared, and the children are getting older, and it often happens that they go out to play together like now.
If there are many people together, it is nothing, if it is a lonely man and a widow, it is really not like a word.
Wait to find a good day, talk to the people in the Lin Mansion, pick a good day and give the marriage of the two of them, as for getting married, you have to wait for another three years.
His daughter is still young.
On the fifteenth year of this year, if she was born in an ordinary family, Yun Qingzhi, who would have given birth to a child who could walk on her own, said that she was not young anymore, and with the age of her previous life, she was about to catch up with her father.
"Zhi'er, are you sure you recognize Boya?"
Different from Yun Anbang's optimistic attitude, Zhu Lan is the person who Yun Qingzhi went to ask for a signature, but he knew that the two signatures he asked for were signed.
Zhu Lan was able to go to Jing'an Temple to ask for a sign regardless of the distance, which shows that she is actually a person who believes in these gods and ghosts.
Although Lin Boya's child is indeed good, can it be better than his own child?
What's more, today's world is very harsh on women themselves.
If Qingzhi is unhappy in the future, even if she asks for a piece of paper and a divorce, the damage will be caused after all, and it will be even more difficult for a woman who has married once to marry better than the last time.
Zhu Lan still hopes that Yun Qingzhi can think clearly and be rational, so as not to regret it in the future.
"Mother, I've identified Lin Boya now. ”
As for the future, that's uncertain.
Zhu Lan didn't understand Yun Qingzhi's unfinished meaning, but when she recognized Lin Boya now, she could only sigh helplessly in her heart, silently praying that her daughter would be happy after marrying Lin Boya in the future.
The signature is like what the presiding officer of the monastery said, that is, to ask for peace of mind, and it will not really happen.
"Okay, it's getting late, so Zhi'er will go back to sleep. ”
Yun Anbang said that he didn't want to hear his daughter say how firm his feelings for Lin Boya were, so he immediately asked people to go back to sleep.
Then the daughter went back first. ”
Yun Qingzhi got up and said, and left her father's yard with the support of Xiang'er and Yuan'er.