Chapter 183: It's time to change my mother to bathe Luoluo (1/3)
Other people's girlfriends are held in the palm of their hands by their boyfriends when they determine the relationship, but Xia Yu forgets the rights she can enjoy, but actively fulfills the responsibility of a more advanced "mother".
No, Yang Yan took out Luoluo's small clothes from the room to be changed later, and was about to wash the little girl's fragrance and coax her to sleep, but Xia Yu stood up with Luoluo in her arms and took the initiative to say, "I'll bathe her!"
"You want to give Luoluo a bath?" Yang Yan hesitated for a moment, and said with concern, "But you have worked very hard today, why don't you sit down next time and watch TV." ”
Yang Yan is distressed girlfriend, Xia Yu took Luoluo shopping today, and played reasoning games with herself for a long time...... Xia Yu was busy all day without resting.
"I'm not tired. Xia Yu also took Yang Yan's hand seriously, as if to avoid Luoluo, and whispered to Yang Yan, "By the way, Yang Yan, I want to discuss with you, if I have time in the future, let me take a bath for Luoluo!"
Seeing Yang Yan's puzzled eyes, Xia Yu went on to explain: "Because Luoluo is a girl, shouldn't a girl be a mother to bathe her, ......right?
Many reasons, taken together, are actually a matter of gender differences.
In fact, this topic has been studied for a long time, and some scholars have pointed out that children around the age of three already have a vague sense of gender and will understand that men and women are different! From this stage on, it is best not to let parents of the opposite sex help them take a bath and accompany them to the toilet, otherwise, these behaviors will have a negative impact on the children's physical and mental health!
Of course, Xia Yu didn't learn the relevant knowledge, she didn't know that this time node should be three years old instead of one year old, she just vaguely felt that it was inappropriate, so she mentioned it to Yang Yan now.
Yang Yan didn't understand, after listening to Xia Yu's words, he suddenly came to his senses and said with emotion: "Xia Yu, you're right, I haven't thought about this problem before!"
In the past, Luoluo was just a small meat ball, and Yang Yan didn't take into account the gender difference, but now after Xia Yu's reminder, Yang Yan suddenly realized that Luoluo had grown into a beautiful and cute little girl!
Needless to say, Yang Yan handed the fallen clothes to Xia Yu and said gratefully, "Thank you for your hard work!"
"What's the hard work, this is what I should do!" Xia Yu walked to the bathroom with Luoluo in her arms.
"This is the basin for Luoluo to bathe, this is her duckling, she wants to play when she takes a bath, and this ......" Yang Yan followed, and did a "pre-job training" for Xia Yu uneasily.
"Is the water temperature right...... Okay, you can go out!" After Xia Yu flushed Luoluo with a basin of bath water, let Yang Yan touch it, and after he nodded, he pushed him out and closed the bathroom door.
At this time, Luoluo, who was standing obediently on the side, raised his little head in hindsight and looked at the bathroom door in surprise.
"Come, Luoluo, mom will give you a bath!" Xia Yu said, reaching out to take off the little skirt for the little girl.
"Where's Dad?" Luo Luo grabbed her mother's hand, and looked over with her big eyes.
"It's mom who bathes you today. Xia Yu explained, her voice was also very gentle, "Luoluo is good, wait for the bath, you can see Dad!"
The little girl is still very obedient, she doesn't cry or make trouble, but when her mother undresses her and takes off her little pants, Luoluo hugs her mother's neck, still staring at the door.
"Want Daddy?" Xia Yu asked with a smile as she carried the little girl into the warm water and bathed her.
The falling skin is tender, the water vapor is baked, and the pink little face seems to be able to pinch out the water, especially the cheeks with baby fat, which are as ruddy and cute as apples!
She closed her little mouth tightly, and her big eyes seemed to have some indescribable sorrow written in them, and after hearing her mother's question, the little girl reluctantly withdrew her gaze, looked at her mother, and nodded her little head gently.
Xia Yu took a towel and gently wiped her little face, her attention was on the strength of her hand, and she inadvertently used a more straightforward tone: "It's also good for mom to give you a bath! Rub the bubbles on again, well......"
As she spoke, she used her hand to bubble up the baby shower gel, smeared it on the little one's body, and sniffed it.
"It's so fragrant!" Xia Yu said in admiration.
Although Luoluo was still thinking about her father in her heart, she didn't reject her mother, and she was so amused by her mother that she couldn't help but grin when she closed her little mouth, and looked at her mother "giggles".
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Xia Yu bathed Luoluo, and Yang Yan waited outside, but his mobile phone suddenly rang.
It was my sister He Xiaoshi who called!
Family calls, this is not an uncommon thing, it's just that today's day is a bit special, Yang Yan has a kind of illusion of "being a thief", and his heart is pounding when he answers the phone.
Of course, it is impossible for He Xiaoshi to know about him and Xia Yu, and Yang Yan has not mentioned it to his family.
After a long and short greeting at home, He Xiaoshi finally mentioned the matter.
"Xiao Yan, have you started to buy social security after you graduate?" He Xiaoshi asked with concern.
Why would my sister ask herself such a question?
Yang Yan felt strange in his heart, his sister and brother-in-law were in a small business, and when he asked himself this question by his eldest brother He Xiaowen, who was a teacher in the city, Yang Yan still felt that there was no sense of disobedience.
However, although she felt strange and her sister cared, Yang Yan still answered honestly: "I started buying it after graduation, and the company has arranged it." ”
Although "Tao Takeaway" is a start-up company, thanks to Lei Zhentian's stability and the help of professionals from home, it has established a relatively complete personnel and financial system at the beginning of its establishment. The treatment of employees, in addition to the temporary lack of provident fund, all the five insurances, annual physical examination and other benefits are very complete!
Naturally, Yang Yan and Fang Hexu also have corresponding treatment.
"What kind of social security did the company buy for you? Is it a very ordinary kind of pension insurance?" He Xiaoshi said on the phone, "That's right, now your brother-in-law's side has a person who is very capable, and he said that he can get us the kind of pension insurance of civil servants! Civil servants, you know, after retirement, they eat the pension issued by the state finance, a lot of money!"
Yang Yan was stunned for a moment, although he didn't know much about social security-related policies, but ordinary people can enjoy civil servant-level pension insurance? Yang Yan's intuition told him that this was an impossible thing.