Li Wen listened to Shu Yun's introduction, and he understood the history and function of coffee, which sounded good. So I drank a few more sips, but it was still bitter. Shu Yun couldn't help laughing, Li Wen couldn't understand why he was laughing.

Shu Yun called the waiter: "Waiter, come and add some sugar to this cup of coffee, thank you!"

Li Wen was very depressed, it turned out that coffee could be drunk with sugar, Shu Yun must have deliberately played him without sugar. Li Wen was naturally unhappy, pouting and looking out the window. Although it was pitch black outside, Li Wen's eyes could see clearly, which is the benefit of superpowers.

Shu Yun naturally saw Li Wen's emotions, so he explained: "I like bitter coffee, because only bitterness can make me understand that I can't give up." Once you give up, then it's as bitter as bitter coffee. Drinking is not a taste, but a spirit. ”

This naturally attracted Leevin's attention, and it sounded very reasonable. Li Wen replied: "Didn't you give up the investigation now, why do you still need to drink bitter coffee without sugar?"

Shu Yun smiled, shook his head and said, "Don't you need to remind yourself if you give up investigating your life experience, only to find that there are too many things that I have ignored when I enter the society." Now it's salvaging everything, but it still takes time to settle down. But I'm curious about why you always like to run there, and if you're investigating something, too?"

Li Wen hurriedly shook his head, denied Shu Yun's speculation, and continued: "Of course it's not investigating, it's just that I'm interested in seeing what's inside." You also know that once a person discovers a secret, he will not stop if he does not know what the secret is. I'm just curious, and if it weren't for the fact that there were too many questions, I wouldn't have bothered to look at it. ”

Shu Yun's expression was solemn at this time, and she didn't have the cute smile just now, and Li Wen didn't know why she suddenly changed her face. I don't know if I said something wrong or did something bad for her.

Shu Yun deliberately told Li Wen in a heavy tone: "You must know that it is very dangerous there, and if you want to live, it is best not to go again." ”

As soon as Shu Yun spoke, the waiter brought a small box of sugar. Shu Yun smiled again, took a small spoon and put a little sugar in Li Wen's coffee, and said, "Stir it a few times with your spoon, and you can drink it, and you won't drink it bitter anymore." ”

After Li Wen listened to Shu Yun's words, he always felt unhappy in his heart, and it was really uncomfortable to be accused by her like this. Li Wen also understood that Shu Yun was for her good, she had been in that place before, so she naturally knew the situation there very well. Levine had been there a few times and understood how dangerous it was.

Li Wen finally nodded obediently, after all, Shu Yun really helped him speak. Besides, he was saved by Shu Yun twice, so he couldn't disrespect Shu Yun. Shu Yun said to Li Wen: "I read an article recently, which is very suitable for you now!"

The heart is like a pocket, and those who don't pretend to do anything are called the heart, those who pretend to be a little bit are called the eyes, those who pretend to be too much are called scheming, and if they are too much, in the end, those burdens can only be regarded as mental matters. People often care too much about fame and fortune in the world, whether our lives are as dazzling as when we talk about them with friends, and there are many people in real life who are deeply trapped in fruitless love, knowing that they are wrong, but also moving forward in a roundabout way. Those who keep talking about the marriages that they have to continue to maintain for the sake of life and for the sake of their children. Many people can't afford to take it and can't put it down, and let the blank life go on and over again in their eyes, and slowly this burden erodes our body and mind. Try to let go, let go of your tiredness, let go of those fruitless obsessions, and if the future of you and him that you see when you are awake is not ideal, it is better to persuade yourself to let go as soon as possible, and the long pain is better than the short pain. Just like if you have exhausted your efforts to get a promotion on the workplace, and you are about to take office and you are found to be seriously ill, can money be exchanged for health? Can more money be exchanged for your life and vigorous youth? Money is important, but compared with life, family affection, and love, money is really not that important. Tangible wealth cannot be compared with priceless emotions and lives, so how can we choose between them?

People must think clearly about three questions, first, what do you have, second, what do you want, and third, what can you give up. For most people: what is there, we tend to evaluate our current situation very easily, what to want, most people have a clear idea in their hearts, then the question is, now you tell me what you can give up, almost no one can easily get all you want without giving up. Not everything in life will make you satisfied, as the saying goes: people die for money, and birds die for food. But how many people end up at work in order to succeed in their careers, and those cases of overwork that are passed on by word of mouth are not accidental, just like the development of diseases is also a gradual process. External overwork and excessive anxiety in the heart, external causes and internal causes are never separated. For those children who go to work thousands of miles away, their seriously ill mothers can't bear to pass the news of illness in the children's ears in order not to let the distant children miss too much, and they can't see the last of them when they die. I don't approve of those who abandon their homes and careers and focus entirely on their work, and if you work for a while, even if you leave here, you still have a chance again. But family and health will accompany you for a long time, and once you lose it, it will be forever. Maybe you're dying for money, but it's not worth it.

Many people in life like to sway from side to side and be undecided about one thing. If you fall easily, you are afraid of losing, and if you don't fall down, you are afraid of missing out. So they have been entangled in the little things that are too small to be mentioned, and let themselves always live in the quagmire of tension and cannot extricate themselves. In his short life, be cautious and take precautions, maybe other people's words, a look, an expression, will continue to figure out, but others say casually but always in their hearts, everything has a little clue to generalize, unfounded. So these people are always tired of living, and the word comfort is completely insulated from them. In fact, there is a mentality in life called letting go. We don't have to fight for everything, the society we live in is already very complex, but many people make this already complex society even more complicated, complex and disorderly. Greedy people are vulnerable. The less desire, the happier life is.

What is the cause of trouble, sorrow? In the final analysis, it starts with greed, and how many people in China have not only died of fame and fortune in the past 5,000 years, but also have been infamous for a thousand years.

In life, some people lose their eyes because of reluctance, their eyes grow on the top of their heads, and they always imagine unrealistic distances and can't see the happiness that is close at hand.

In ancient times, there was an ancient temple where incense was very prosperous, and one day when the Buddha was about to leave, he looked up and saw a spider with a web under the eaves, and the Buddha asked, "What do you think is the most precious thing in the world?" The spider thought for a moment and said, "What is not gained and what has been lost." The Buddha smiled and said, "If you continue to build an Internet café here, I will come to you in a thousand years and ask you the same question." ”

One day after the Buddha left, a dew dropped from the spider's web, and the spider guarded the dew all day long, and I didn't know what to do. But a gust of wind blew, and the dew fell to the ground and disappeared. The spider was very sad and depressed all day. After another thousand years, the Buddha came as promised and asked the spider, "What do you think is the most precious thing in the world now?" and the spider said, "I still think that what is not gained and what has been lost." The Buddha said, "Okay, you have also received two thousand years of incense here, so I will let you be reincarnated in the human world for a walk!"

The spider was reincarnated as a young lady in an official eunuch's house, named Zhu'er. It happened that one day when she was sixteen years old, the new champion manna was unveiled, and the emperor held a banquet to celebrate the champion, accompanied by many princes and nobles and their daughters. And the princess Changfeng. During the banquet, manna chanted poetry and was talented. All the girls admired him. Zhu'er was also very fond of her, but she pretended to be high, and she knew that the nectar would also be fond of her, because she thought it was the fate that the Buddha had given her.

One day, Ganlu and Zhu'er met at a temple fair, and Zhu'er thought that Ganlu would definitely talk to her, but Ganlu ignored her. Zhu'er was surprised, so she took the initiative to talk to Ganlu and told Ganlu that they had a thousand-year fate, which was arranged by the Buddha. Ganlu said, "Miss, I think you are a good girl, but I don't understand what you are saying, I think you may have found the wrong person." After saying that, he left.

The next day, the emperor decided to match the princess Changfeng with the champion and recruit her as a son-in-law. and promised the pearl to the prince Zhicao. On the day of the wedding of Manna and the princess, Zhu'er couldn't stand the stimulation, fainted, and was bedridden ever since. In the middle of the separation, she saw the Buddha again, and the Buddha told Zhu'er that she was actually the spider from 2,000 years ago, and the nectar was the dew that fell on her web, which was brought by the wind (the princess Changfeng), and eventually the wind would take it away, and the dew belonged to the wind. To Pearl, it's just a passerby, an experience, but in the end it doesn't belong to a spider. And the Zhicao (Prince) is a small grass that grew on the ground two thousand years ago, and it has looked at the spider for two thousand years, and has guarded the spider for two thousand years, but the spider has never looked down at him. Zhicao is the person that Zhu'er should cherish......

Pearl's heart seems to have an epiphany, and when she wakes up, she sees Zhicao sadly preparing to kill herself and go with Pearl. Pearls knocked down the sword in his hand and hugged him tightly......

In fact, the most precious thing in the world is not "what you can't get and what has been lost", but the happiness you have now!

Fate can't be forced, it's your others who can't take it away, it's not yours, and there's nothing you can do if you rack your brains. Because emotional matters are never anyone's errands. Letting go is a fulfillment and a gain. Everyone in life craves love, but just like some people love you, you turn a blind eye. Some people you love the entanglement of love, and love becomes an obsession in the end. Let go of the past, give each other freedom, whether it is appropriate or not, and you will see the difference after getting along for a while, but you just can't let go. In fact, letting go is not a kind of gain, when you come out of the emotional trough, you will find that you really just give up a tree, there are dense woods ahead, and you are more aware of your heart's desire. It is said that first love doesn't know love at all, and it's more cute than knowing. The wrong person, one wrong step and one wrong step, all the losses drag down the whole life. It is better to let go as soon as possible than to live together for a lifetime of discomfort. To perfect him is to perfect himself.

What is happiness, it's cold, and your mother sewed a sweater for you. The hot chest of your lover who came back from afar as you entered the door was slowly as we grew older, and those moments that made us truly experience happiness were all simple and pure love.

In fact, the so-called harmony and disagreement are mostly just thoughts in the heart, we are often trapped in our own opinions, struggling and hesitating is unable to get out, and once you get out of the predicament only to find that there is a cave outside the cave, and your thoughts are completely empty. For example, there was a leader in my previous unit, she had a bad temper and belonged to the type of person with a knife mouth and a tofu heart, and I happened to be a rectum, and everyone around me laughed at me and called me a person who would rather bend than bend. There was a period of time when the leader always criticized me, even three times a day as usual, I was already angry in my heart, during that time my friends around me often joked, "I told you, you are not with her, of course she tried her best to rectify you, you blocked the way of people did not find out, did you not see the new employees learn the same things as you, she is familiar with the leader, maybe people are just to empty you to insert the newcomers." "During that time, I always made this definition in my heart, she wanted to fix me, fix me, and make me think about it day and night, tossing and turning and sleepless night after night. It wasn't until a month later, when she left her job, that she took the initiative to come to me, and before I could raise a glass, she drank three glasses of wine, and she said: "I know that there is some unhappiness between us, and since you have decided to leave, you must have complained to me in your heart, blaming me for criticizing you in front of everyone, again and again." But you know, from the first time I saw you, you looked a lot like I was when I first entered society. Because expectations are high, just like a small tree needs to rest often to grow into a tall tree. Maybe people think differently, and my words are too harsh, but I really have never targeted you despite my work. You're a reasonable person, and one day you'll be able to understand how I was feeling when you sat in my place. "When I drank that glass of wine, I knew in my heart that every time the leader criticized me, I cited a lot of self-righteous 100,000 whys, and I have always been a sensitive person who can't be scolded. The estrangement is not in the criticism, not in the critics, but in the ears I hear, the imagination is infinitely spreading.

"He, it is not to give up everything, but to look at things calmly, carefully observe the things around you, and give up when you should be together, and don't blindly pursue. Give up the things that make you miserable and unhappy, the things that make you uneasy and sorrowful, the things that make you treacherous, the good and the evil, get their innocence, get their peace of mind, and get their happiness. “

In fact, many things are beautiful because many things are not you can think through, just like the unexpected joy that sometimes appears in life. If you are not emotional, you are not called emotional, and no one lives a rational life. The string is tight and the bow is broken, and you learn to let go. In addition, don't look at others with your own eyes, different experiences, different patterns. Maybe you think your idea is perfect, but you don't know that it is not a blind move in the eyes of others. Maybe what you think is really just what you think, is to live the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain. Let the heart have room to breathe, and giving up the resentment in the heart is also tolerance for oneself. Life is expensive without force, and people do not complain or owe between people. What you can let go of is rationality, and if you can't let go, please give it to time, and time will definitely help you wash away your displeasure.

Let go of your opinions and try to put yourself in their shoes. Sometimes from the other side's point of view, or from the standpoint of a bystander, the direction of events is clear. Take a step back and open the sky, just like the story of Lian Po Lin Xiangru that we learned when we were children, Lian Po knew that he would change his mistakes, Lin Xiangru was generous and forbearing, and he understood that personal grievances were harmless in the face of justice. So he took the lead in making the right choice, and retreated not to be cowardly and cowardly, but to seek the rule of Zhao Guo and "first the country's urgency and then personal enmity", and finally understood the reason, Lian Po was ashamed and embarrassed, and went to Lin Xiangru in person, and the guilt of Jing will be reconciled from then on. People are more generous, less calculating, don't overdo everything, too much will be wrong, often make suspicion deeper and deeper. In the final analysis, giving up the resentment in the heart is also tolerance for oneself, sometimes forgiveness can solve the problem more than arguing, and the length of the tongue is far less than the openness of the pattern is more convincing.

Another example is the legend of Sanchi Lane, "Thousands of miles of books are only for the wall, so why not let him be three feet? The Great Wall is still there today, and I don't see Qin Shi Huang back then." After the family saw it, they felt ashamed and took the initiative to give up the three feet, and after the neighbors found out, they were also deeply ashamed and gave up the three feet, so the six-foot alley was formed. Resentment is like the fine sand in your hand, the tighter you hold it, the more you lose, and as soon as you let go, the resentment will instantly disintegrate. Put down the world wide of winning and losing,. Let go of suspicions, win friendships, and let go of strife, and there will be no trouble.

The wise man is happy with the mountain, and the benevolent person is happy with the water. Everyone's preferences are different, and they do different things in different preferences, so they don't have to be blushing for the success of others, and they don't have to feel inferior to the pride of others, because people are different, and the pursuit of different trajectories is different, and the different paths will naturally not be the same. You have to know how to love yourself well, know how to be content, and those who are content can always be happy.

In ancient times, there was a family in Chu State, and after sacrificing to their ancestors, they prepared to give a pot of wine used in the sacrifice to the people who helped to do things. There are a lot of people involved, and this pot of wine is not enough if everyone drinks it, but if you let one person drink it, you can drink it happily. To whom is this pot of wine drunk?

Everyone fell silent, and then it was suggested that everyone draw a snake on the ground, and whoever draws quickly and well should give him the pot of wine to drink. Everyone thought it was a good idea and agreed to do it. So he drew a serpent on the ground.

There was a man who drew very quickly, and in the blink of an eye he was the first to draw, and he picked up the flask to drink. But when he looked back at the others, he still hadn't finished drawing. I thought to myself: they draw so slowly. And he wanted to show his skills, So he took a flask in his left hand and a branch in his right hand, drew the snake's feet, and said triumphantly, "You are so slow to draw! It's not too late for me to draw a few more feet of the snake!"

While he was drawing his feet and talking, another person had already finished drawing. The man immediately snatched the jug out of his hand and said, "Have you ever seen a snake? Snakes have no legs, so why do you want to put feet on them? So the first person to draw a snake is not you, it's me!"

Because of their own discontentment, the result is counterproductive. Life is the same, no matter what position you are in, you must be content, don't look at the high level of others and be unwilling, you should calm down and try to imagine, if you are in that position, will you really be so happy?

What is winning or losing, some people lose the reality but have a happy love, and some people put down their careers in a timely manner to accompany their parents for many years. People think differently and want to win or lose differently. There is no single measure of nature. Just as some people choose bread, then don't complain about the lack of passion in life. You have chosen to start a career, first of all, don't be afraid of loneliness. And you have to get used to loneliness. Pay for your choices, don't complain and don't regret it.

There are so many things in life that we can't change, so we choose to try to accept them. "Natural selection, survival of the fittest. It is not the talent that creates the current situation, but the current situation that tempers people. Know that there is no such thing as 100% fairness. A person does things and treats things, the most important thing is the mentality, some things have passed in the past, since they are powerless to change, don't do some useless struggles, the consequences of doing so will only make you more depressed. There are some things in life, choose to let go, let go does not mean retreat, nor is it a manifestation of admitting defeat, but a rational attitude towards things, a better way of doing things. Letting go is a state of mind, it is a way to do things in a different way, and if you let go, you may have unexpected gains. Sometimes loss is also a gain. "The strong is the waste, and the ability to bend and stretch is the character" is like Gou Jian's lying salary and tasting courage. If you can't bear it, you will make a big plan. Forbearance itself is also a kind of gain, forbearance people are good at distinguishing the goodness of people, so that good birds choose good trees to perch, the so-called honest people's inner tenacity makes them not have a sensitive and fragile glass heart. Seeing through and not saying that it is a life choice, and the reason of seeing through and looking down is a kind of precipitation. The wisdom that has been precipitated is enough to achieve self-fulfillment. When you slowly put all the unhappiness behind you, and look back in your twilight years, people live for a lifetime is nothing more than 15 words "no complaints, no demands, no regrets, no debts, no regrets"

Only when you can really let go of some things in your heart, will you have more time and opportunities to discover the better scenery in life, and will create better people. Letting go is just a strategy, a better accumulation of life, in order to find better opportunities in life and realize the higher value of life. Therefore, there are some hurdles that I can't get over, so I calm down and think about it, but in fact, I may really not be able to get through it at that time. But when you really let go one day, and then look back, there is actually no big deal, in fact, there is nothing that you can't pass, life has to learn to do subtraction, the process, whether it is work or love, you should fight for what you want, and then face that ending calmly. The same goes for ideals. The highest level of giving up is not regretting. There is a cost to everything, and the biggest cost in life is not money and time, but opportunity. The more a person is willing to give up nothing, the easier it is to miss the most precious opportunity in life. Master Osho of India said, "Every moment in life is meant to be enjoyed. Life is a journey, and life is the process, whether it is over mountains and mountains, or wading in a boat, everything is up to you. Life is actually very simple, thinking too much and worrying too much often makes yourself too burdened and lives too heavy. In order to adapt to this mainstream society, we are more or less full of burdens and burdens that are not out of our hearts. Let go of what should be put down, the heart will not be burdened, the days will be at ease, and life will become free and easy. The trees put down the yellow leaves and grow a beautiful spring, and the sky let down the gray clouds to have a brilliant clear sky. Let go of the heavy knots, and you will have a happy life. Letting go is a kind of liberation, a kind of epiphany, and letting go is the choice of mentality and the wisdom of life. Put your heart at ease, everything will be calm, put your heart right, everything will be smooth sailing, put your heart down, everything will be calm. What is the purpose of a person's life? Some people say that it is better to die than to live, and to put it bluntly, to live is to live a mentality.

You're going to have to try to put it down

Sometimes we bow our heads in order to see the road under our feet, many people think that they are okay, they are not willing to try new things, many things can not be put down, and they are unwilling to let go of their dreams, and finally they can't pull down their faces and lose face.

2 Let go of stress

Whether you are tired or not depends on your mentality. The room of the soul will be covered with dust if it is not cleaned. Sweeping the floor and dusting can brighten the gloomy heart, straighten things out so that you can say goodbye to troubles, and throw away some senseless pain to make room for happiness.

3 Let go of the past

Now that it's a foregone conclusion, don't struggle in vain. Learn to accept the reality rationally, go with the flow, even if it is bad news, you must be calm, after all, no matter what you do, it will not be undone. You have to learn to look at life positively and think about the best in everything you can. Sometimes don't always think about what you lose, but live in the moment and grasp the moment.

4 Let go of low self-esteem

Remove low self-esteem from your life dictionary. Not everyone can be a great man, but everyone can be a strong person at heart. Believe in yourself, what others can do, you are not bad either. Find your own position, talk to your heart, let go of laziness and embrace the sun ahead, and tell yourself that you can also have a high-value life.

5 Let go of laziness – struggle to change your fate

To make an ordinary little thing perfect is a unique job. Opportunities are always reserved for those who are prepared, and even geniuses have to pay 99% of their sweat.

6 Let go of negativity

Despair to the left, hope to the right. If you want to be a successful person, then please cheer for the "best self", let the positive defeat the negative, let the noble defeat the ugly, let the sincerity defeat the hypocrisy, let the tolerance defeat the narrow-minded, let the happiness defeat the melancholy, let the diligence defeat the lazy, let the strong defeat the vulnerable, let the great defeat the obscene...... You can be the best version of yourself for the rest of your life if you want to. No one can make the difference between victory and defeat, except you. Your own war, you are a strategizing general!

7 Let go of complaining

Instead of complaining, work hard, and all failures are a preparation for success. Complaining and being discouraged can only hinder the pace of success coming to you. Letting go of complaining and calmly accepting defeat is undoubtedly the posture of a wise man. Complaining can't change the status quo, and hard work can bring hope. Real gold, as long as you don't bury yourself, as long as you think about flashing, there will always be a day when you shine. Don't always worry about life. Don't always think that life has failed you or anything, in fact, you have as much as everyone else's.

8 Let go of hesitation

Act immediately and succeed in what you have identified, don't be indecisive, choose the right direction, just hit the road, don't look back. Immediate action is a trait shared by all successful people. If you have a good idea, do it now, and if you come across a good opportunity, take it. Act now and succeed unlimited!

9 Let go of narrow-mindedness

When the heart is wide, the heavens and the earth are wide. Tolerance is a virtue. To be tolerant of others is to make way for one's own heart. Only in a tolerant world can people play a harmonious song of life! Tolerance is a virtue. To be tolerant of others is to make way for one's own heart. Only in a tolerant world can people play a harmonious song of life.

10 Let go of doubt

If you have doubts, you can't get things done. There is no suspicion in employing people, and there is no need for suspicious people. Suspicion is estrangement, while tolerance is the bridge to friendship.