Chapter 43: The Meaning of Education
Lin Qing took out gray plus-size slippers from the shoe cabinet and handed them to him: "New ones." ”
At first glance, it is the abode of a single woman, clean and warm, like a woman's palace.
Lin Qing's home is not as cold as the dessert shop, but pink and white are used more and more girly. The blue bar in her kitchen, the white blankets in her living room, and the vintage bookshelves on her balcony all undoubtedly indicate that the owner of the place has good taste.
"It's beautiful. He praised it unreservedly.
Xu Hui understands that with Lin Qing's temperament, "going to my house to see" will not be an invitation to sex, but it is also an invitation for him to participate in her personal life. She was too territorial and she was willing to let him in, which made his heart beat faster than any woman's flirtation.
Lin Qing held the water and fed it to Lin Diandian, so that it could quench its thirst. Her hands were wet, sprinkled lightly on his face, and she smiled mischievously at him, "I know." ”
Before he could catch her, she quickly fled to the kitchen, "Pure water or juice?"
"Pure water. ”
Xu Hui caught a glimpse of the information scattered on the coffee table, her kitchen and living room were surprisingly tidy, but there were several books full of post-it notes on the coffee table, which should have just been used and had not had time to receive them.
When Lin Qing came out with a cup, he was sitting on the sofa flipping through "How to Talk to Children about Sex".
Lin Qing put the cup on the coffee table, sat down beside him gently, and took the initiative to explain, "I have recently been preparing for a class meeting to talk about sex education to parents and students. ”
He remembered the last time Yang Xi took an online class at his house, and raised his eyebrows, "Good idea." ”
Lin Qing pursed his lips and stopped talking.
He easily read her thoughts, "Got into trouble?"
"It's not a trouble, but I feel a bottleneck, and I'm not satisfied with it after changing it several times. ”
"Would you mind showing it to me?"
Lin Qing was a little surprised at the direction of the development of things, and actually talked about it here.
He saw that she was a little hesitant, "Inconvenient?"
There was hesitation in her eyes, "No, I'm afraid I'll trouble you." ”
Xu Hui put down the book, reached out and gently turned her body over to face him. He looked into her eyes and sighed a little helplessly, but his tone was very doting, "Miss Lin, I can't wait for you to trouble me, I'm willing, I can't ask for it." ”
Lin Qing looked at his beautiful and clear peach blossom eyes, clearly felt the flow of his emotions, and nodded bewitchedly: "Okay." ”
Xu Hui hooked her nose with satisfaction, "Awesome." ”
He took Lin Qing's computer, sat on the sofa and began to watch the PPT she made, and Lin Qing sat on the carpet at his feet to accompany him. When he saw something in doubt, he looked down and talked to her, and he saw it quickly, and it was almost half an hour.
"Overall very good. ”
Lin Qing couldn't help laughing, Dr. Xu was very good at it, and knew that he would praise first and then give advice.
"It's okay, you can just say what you suggest. ”
Xu Hui nodded and pointed to her PPT, "You can concretize some of the theories in the book." ”
He paused, "To put it simply, your current courseware lacks specific examples. If you add some real, more painful examples, attract their attention, and then give some parents better examples, it will be better to have a contrasting effect. ”
Lin Qing stumbled on the paper, very surprised, "Is there anything else?"
"Well, I don't recommend separating boys from girls, there's nothing to shy away from, these are basic physiological knowledge. ”
Lin Qing raised his eyebrows, "I still need to think about this." ”
This was something she hadn't expected, her previous idea was to separate boys and girls, that was her first instinct, and she didn't even realize why she had such an intuition.
"What about a specific example?"
"Good. ”
He moved quickly, and it didn't take long to get it done, and he pushed it to her. On the page is "Girl Child Protection", a booklet with real cases of various types of sexual abuse of girls.
Lin Qing'an quietly lowered his head and read word by word, biting his lip, he didn't speak for a long time, but his hand holding the pen became tighter and tighter.
Xu Hui watched her face become whiter and whiter, and her breathing became heavier and heavier, he patted her on the shoulder and called her "Lin Qing" softly.
He screamed several times, but she remained motionless, as if she could not listen at all. Xu Hui panicked and closed her computer, and she slowly raised her head, her eyes full of fear and fear.
"Scared?"
Lin Qing didn't answer, just gently took the warm water he handed over, and drank it all in one breath with his head up.
He frowned deeply, visibly afraid.
Lin Qing reached out and touched his clenched fist, reassuring him, "I'm fine, let me slow down." ”
Lin Qing suddenly saw her inner thoughts a little, these days when she was preparing PPT, it was not that the idea of "combining specific examples" did not appear in her mind, but she turned a blind eye, she didn't dare.
And now, there are so many bloody cases in front of her, so she has to look at them. What struck her the most was that "all the archetypes are real."
She now feels scared and glad that she was able to stay in a safe environment for so long, with the protection of her parents and the protection of the school.
She hadn't been exposed to these things for too long, and she had forgotten the ferocity and cruelty of reality.
"If you want to use it, you can just let them see it, you don't have to talk about it. ”
Lin Qing nodded quickly, if she was asked to speak, she would not be able to tell it.
She remembered Yu Xin's matter, and she couldn't help but ask him, "Then why did Yu Xin's thing happen?"
"She probably knows too little about sex, is too young, and doesn't know how to use contraception and protect herself. ”
"Why is this happening?"
Actually, it's not uncommon. We often meet some very young pregnant women in our hospital, last time I took one, 16 years old to give birth to a second child. ”
Lin Qing's mood could no longer be described as shock, as if she had touched an unknown territory that she had never set foot in.
"I thought it would ...... Teenage births are in poorer, closed areas. ”
Xu Hui hesitated, but Lin Qing took his hand and insisted on listening, and he wavered.
"Are you sure you want to listen?"
Lin Qing nodded.
She is a teacher, she has to be brave, to touch those who are not so good, so that she can understand how to protect the students.
Xu Hui spoke slowly, "You know that sometimes the most terrifying and powerless thing is that some girls don't realize that their values are incorrect. Teenage girls have not formed a complete and good outlook because of the influence of social climate, online media, or the surrounding environment. There are many young girls who think that having sex, getting pregnant, or even having a baby is a small thing to brag about. ”
He stopped, because Lin Qing frowned, thinking, and it seemed that it was difficult to imagine the meaning of his words.
He didn't dare to cite a real example, but just reminded her, "Lin Qing, have you tried to contact your elementary school classmates?"
Lin Qing nodded hesitantly, "There is a connection, but there are very few." ”
"Elementary school classmates are the most inclusive of all kinds of people and personalities, how are your current elementary school classmates?"
At this moment, Lin Qing's eyes suddenly cleared, and she understood what he meant.
He is right, elementary school students are now engaged in all walks of life, personalities, families, and careers, all of which are very different. Lin Qing has a deep understanding of this, because she grew up with her grandparents when she was a child, and she studied in a township primary school before she was in the fourth grade of primary school, and later she transferred to the main city.
Not to mention the primary school classmates in the township, very few of them continue to study, that is, many of her primary school classmates in the main city did not continue to study, entered the social work early, or dropped out of school at home.
Lin Qing also has friends in elementary school, and Lin Qing wants to help the girl she likes to move forward together. But this is a very powerless thing, and slowly everyone is really going to different paths, and the values, hobbies, and life goals are becoming more and more different.
Lin Qing remembered that when she was a sophomore, she was suddenly told by her elementary school friend that she was going to get married, when she was only 19 years old, but she already had a child who was more than a year old.
At that time, Lin Qing was in school and couldn't go to the wedding, but she still gave a red envelope of 300 yuan, which she felt should be given. She was devastated that time, and she didn't know why everyone was separated, and everyone's path was different. Xu Han didn't care at the time, and told her indifferently, "This is life."
The dusty memories of so long floated in front of her eyes, and she couldn't breathe.
She struggled to clear her mind and then think about what she could do.
Perhaps, this is also the meaning of education. ”
If that's the case, then I'm willing to give my part. If there is a point of heat, a point of light, it will make it like a firefly, or it can shine a little light in the dark, and there is no need to wait for the torch. After that, if there is no torch, I am the only light.
To be able to make one more child smile is the whole point of our efforts.
Education is to teach a good outlook on life, to teach good sex education, and to teach children what they should know. Let them understand the good and evil of this world, let them spontaneously love life, let them find their own life goals, realize their own life values, and walk in this world with joy.