Lin Qing spoke in an orderly manner, word by word, and spoke clearly.

She's talking about what sex education is.

She's talking about why sex education is important.

Her expression was firm and full of awe.

From time to time, she looked at the parents under the podium, observed their expressions, and adjusted the speed of speech at the right time.

Her gaze swept over most of the room, except for one place. His eyes were too fiery to ignore, and the mere fact of being watched by him was enough to make her nervous, even excited, let alone look directly at him.

It's a wonderful state of mind, and since she was a child, Lin Qing would try to avoid watching her matches with family or familiar friends.

She will prefer to show in front of people who are not familiar with her, because she will be more relaxed. But in fact, every time there is someone she knows under the stage, she will perform better, more excited, and more enthusiastic.

The person who is familiar and cares about this time is him.

She knew he was listening, and every time she swept over him, even though her eyes lingered on him for a pitiful time, she could still clearly see his upright sitting posture and serious eyes.

She began to talk about the anatomy of the human body, first of all girls.

This was something she and Li Yitong worked hard to get from the head of the grade.

The head of the grade initially objected because it was too controversial to talk about the anatomy of boys in front of girls and the anatomy of girls' bodies in front of boys in a classroom where both girls and boys participated.

At that time, Li Yitong was a little shaken, because most teachers did divide boys and girls into two classrooms when teaching physiology.

Lin Qing is very persistent, she agrees with what Xu Hui said, this is physiological knowledge, there is nothing to avoid.

This is knowledge, nothing to do with **, nothing to do with pornography, and nothing to do with thinking bias.

Later, Lin Qing and Li Yitong also emphasized this point when they gave lessons to parent representatives, and the results were not bad.

When Lin Qing released the girl's body structure map, there were already parents whispering in the audience, and the atmosphere slowly began to become tense.

Lin Qing was not too surprised, the so-called controversy means that there will always be some people in a group of people who will question it, and then a large number of people will acquiesce.

Sure enough, there will still be parents who react strongly and speak fiercely in this class.

"This teacher, these students are 15 or 16 years old, and my family is still a girl, so it's ridiculous to talk about this in front of boys. ”

Standing up directly was a man of about 40 years old, the father of a small quiet girl next to him, dressed appropriately in a gray shirt, with a briefcase on the table, presumably a civil servant.

He looked impatient and spoke sharply.

The whispering parents also quieted down, probably because they were curious about Lin Qing's reaction, or they were satisfied with what the parent said about their troubles.

Lin Qing's expression remained unchanged, and he calmly asked the parent to sit down.

Then, she was silent, just rubbing the remote control in her hand again and again, so that people couldn't see what she was thinking.

The atmosphere in the conference room was a bit unbearable, everyone held their breath, no one spoke, and the words seemed to be about to overflow. It's like a plastic cup filled with water, when a gust of wind blows, it sways, the water waves gently tremble, and when it is about to overflow, it can overflow to the rim of the cup, turn around and return to the center.

Everyone is waiting, waiting for Lin Qing to explain, or compromise. It's like waiting for this glass of water, completely stabilized, or simply spilled.

The school leader's expression also began to become nervous, obviously dissatisfied with Lin Qing's silent state, constantly rubbing the chair and making a squeaky sound.

Lin Qing looked up at the parent who had already sat down, and smiled softly at him, "Thank you for your question, it's indeed a good question." ”

The man snorted lightly, thinking that Lin Qing was doing Tai Chi and was not too satisfied.

"I've actually been waiting for a parent or child to ask a question about why I arrange for boys and girls to listen to sex education together. I was really pleasantly surprised, and I secretly sighed that I was thinking too much, but in fact, most parents' concepts have been updated. ”

Lin Qing smiled, but the smile did not reach the bottom of his eyes.

She didn't continue the topic just now, and turned her head and pointed to the PPT, "This is the designated photo of the International Technical Guidance on Sexuality Education, and it is aimed at all children and parents. ”

Lin Qing paused, "I understand the feelings of parents who want to protect their children, but the best protection we can do is to take them to learn sexual knowledge in a scientific way, instead of hiding and hiding, wanting them not to be curious, not knowing, not understanding, and in the end they can only explore through other unfriendly ways." ”

Lin Qing's eyes suddenly brightened, "I just remembered a funny little story and wanted to share it with you." I went to college when I was 18 and my father sent me there. Before he went home, he asked me if I wanted to go to the bar. ”

Her eyes lit up, and she was visibly caught up in the recollection, "I thought my father was just talking to me, and if I said I wanted to go, he would criticize me and warn me that girls were not allowed to go to that kind of place." So I replied, I don't want to go. ”

The next day, he asked me again, and I noticed that he was smiling and genuinely asking for my opinion. So I boldly told him that I wanted to go, I wanted to go and see, and I was a little curious. ”

"As a teenager, I wasn't curious about what, and then he really took me there. We picked a regular bar together, and then he took me to the best booth and invited me to a cocktail. He ordered a lot of cocktails that day and said he wanted me to get drunk, and I turned out to be really drunk. ”

"When I woke up, my father told me that I had only drunk three glasses, and the amount of alcohol was really bad, so don't drink casually when you go out in the future, because if you don't drink the whole table, it's better to say that you won't drink. ”

Everyone laughed, and the dull atmosphere just now dissipated imperceptibly. Xu Hui admired Lin Qing's feeling very much, he kept trying to describe it, just saw her talking on the podium with a high spirit, and everyone's eyes followed her, and she was quiet, lost, and happy with her.

He finally understands what she is like, she is like a breeze, unobtrusive, but can sweep away impetuousness, moisturize things silently, and finally lead you to see the forest, the starry sky, and the sea.

"I barely went to the bar again after that, just because I didn't really like the atmosphere, but I wasn't curious anymore because I saw it and I knew what it was like. ”

She put away her smile, "Then you might as well guess what would have happened if my father hadn't taken me there for the first time, and he did his best to stop me?" I thought, maybe I'd think he'd be a boring person, and I'd be scared and curious, and I couldn't help but be envious when my friend shared the experience of going to the bar, but I was afraid of being scolded by my father. This kind of emotion accumulates for a long time, and one day I can't help but go to see it, and if I am lucky, accompanied by a trusted friend, I go to a regular bar, and maybe I can go there once. What if I'm going alone? If I'm not lucky, the bar isn't so good?"

"Actually, it's the same with our children, they are curious about a lot of things, and that's a good thing. We are curious, and then we learn. It's not just about learning your homework, it's about life. And what we parents can do is just to lead them as much as possible and help them screen some pathways in advance. ”

"Your children will go through a lot in the future, they will have boyfriends, they will get married, they will have children, they will become mothers, and then they will teach sex education to their own children. ”

She looked at the parent again, "Finally, for the question of the parent just now." I arranged for boys and girls to listen to sex education together, because I felt that these were sexual knowledge, irrelevant **, and nothing to avoid. ”

She paused, "If the parents don't like this, I'm afraid it's hard to convince me, and if the students bring it up and feel shy, or uncomfortable, I'll find it more convincing." ”

The parent was speechless, then nodded in agreement.

She smiled again, "Don't be nervous, children, I'm really waiting for your opinion, and I respect it completely." ”

She waited quietly, her eyes encouraging.

After two minutes, "Then I'll continue, and if you have any questions, you can just ask them." "

The children were excited and shouted, "Okay!"