Chapter 376: Emotional Mentor Xu Yang - Online (2)
Hearing the words of the two, Lu Yuan stopped speaking this time, this kind of thing itself is difficult to comment, and it is obviously one-sided to make remarks when he does not understand clearly.
At this time, Lu Yuan's face already showed an embarrassed look, and he could also hear that this was not a matter of one person, both of them had problems, and they were not willing to retreat like this, and they both wanted the other party to accommodate themselves, which led to the current situation.
Then he turned his head to look at the boy, in fact, he was not a few years older than the other party now, but his mental age was much more mature than the other party.
"We are all men, in this case, then I will talk about your question first! In fact, your question is very simple, find someone who has worked hard in society for several years can tell you the answer!"
"You don't have a job now, you always say that you are working hard, but the result of your efforts is to play games at home, you say that your classmates are like this now, but do you know their family?"
"You learn to lie in bed with your roommate, but you don't know that people are waiting to graduate and enter your parents' company as an executive, even if your other half doesn't ask you to earn much, she is willing to ride a bicycle with you, but you must know that she can accompany you to ride a bicycle, but it does not mean that she is only worthy of riding a bicycle!"
"You like to play games, what kind of games? I usually play occasionally!"
In the face of his inquiry, the boy replied hesitantly: "League of Legends, I don't usually play much, but I've been a little bored lately!"
Looking at his somewhat green face and immature thoughts, Xu Yang smiled helplessly and responded:
"Then you like to play so much, do you know that Han Bing said a sentence in it, called 'Only if it can be remembered by us tomorrow, today is meaningful'?"
"After all, you are past the age when you cry and call your mother, and go home if you are wronged, there must always be one on the road in your body and soul, either you study or work!"
"I heard your girlfriend Xiaoqin say, you have changed several jobs, are you unhappy or do you feel that the salary is less?"
In this regard, the boy said with some reason: "The salary is less! It's less than 3,000 yuan a month, and I don't have enough to spend on myself! I want to find someone who earns more!"
Hearing this, Xu Yang smiled and patted him on the shoulder, and then said: "The most arrogant language in this world is 'what are you', and the most modest word is 'what am I', and you have lived the opposite of this sentence." ”
"You think the salary is less, that's because your ability is only worth this money, maybe you don't agree with what I said now, but in the near future there will be a buddy called 'reality', he slapped you twice and you will understand!"
"So I think you need to think about how to change your life!"
After speaking, the audience gave him warm applause, and his words can be understood by anyone with a little life experience, because as long as he is out of school, this society is so realistic
You can have no money in love, but you must not have money in marriage, at least you must have a stable source of income at home.
Then he turned his head to look at the girl Xiaoqin and said, "He said that your family asked for a bride price of 300,000 yuan and a car of 200,000 yuan, and you said that these are guarantees for you!"
"But he also said just now, his family conditions are average, he can't take out so much money, and he wants to know what kind of job it is, can he afford a garage in his twenties, and give a bride price of 300,000 yuan?"
"Don't always compare with others, unless your family can also get 300,000 yuan and a house and car as a dowry, this is called the right family!"
"The so-called bride price and dowry are two families helping a new family, which represents a blessing, not your so-called security!"
"So you have to think about what you should do in this matter, I don't know what the result will be, but if you are still in this state, and no one will change it, then your love will not last long!
This matter is obvious, both sides have some problems, the man's problem is that he is not motivated, his eyes are low, and the sky-high bride price on the girl's side is really a headache, he did not make a direct judgment, but found out their respective problems.
And the final outcome is up to them.
As he finished speaking, the audience applauded, and Huang Shi applauded and said, "I think what Yang Yang said makes sense, so you two must also think about how to change yourself." ”
Seeing the thoughtful appearance of the two, Mr. He also invited the two off the stage, turned his head to him and said with a smile: "The emotional mentor is really worthy of his name!
"Teacher He, don't laugh at me, I think if you answer the question just now, you will definitely be much better than me, here I also want to say, I really don't have much experience in this area, if you have emotional problems, you can go to Teacher Tu, he is a professional!" Xu Yang said helplessly.
After everyone laughed, Mr. He began to choose the last lucky audience, and finally he chose a boy in the front row, who was about the same age as the two people just now.
After inviting the other party to the stage, Mr. He immediately asked, "Hello, what do you call it?"
"Hello Mr. He, my name is Zheng Bing, and I am a student at the University of Finance and Economics!" the boy said very cheerfully.
Teacher He: "Student Zheng, who do you choose to ask for? There is only one last chance, you have to think clearly!"
"I choose Xu Yangda, I'm his hardcore book lover!" Zheng Bing said happily.
Xu Yang...
His grandmother's, Lao Tzu just said so much, he didn't even drink saliva! Here's another one, but the other party said it was his book lover, it should be easy to do!
Walking forward, Xu Yang said calmly: "Then what do you want to ask?"
"I've been a little confused lately, please help me out. ”
Xu Yang: "It won't be another emotional problem, if that's the case, can you make another request?"
Facing his inquiry, Zheng Bing said with a smile: "That's not it, I've been preparing for the graduate school entrance examination recently, and the huge study tasks make me very uncomfortable, memorizing words, high math, and staying in the library until 10 o'clock in the evening every day, I feel very tired!"
"Even my former friends knew that I was going to take the graduate school entrance examination, and they all persuaded me not to take the exam, they said that the probability was too low, and some people even slandered me behind my back, ready to see my jokes. ”
"Not only that, but recently my girlfriend broke up with me because I didn't have time to accompany her, but I broke up when I broke up, and she scolded me on QQ for not being a guide!"
"I'm also confused right now, I don't know why this is happening?"
Xu Yang...
The first feeling he had was that his girlfriend must be a ruthless stubble, and it was too slippery to have this kind of operation.
As soon as these words came out, the audience, including the people on their stage, did not collapse and laughed directly!
Xu Yang: "It should be..."
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