Hearing Li Baoshan say this, Dongfang Xiaofei vaguely felt something.

"Okay, you say, I'm sure I'm not going to say it. Dongfang Xiaofei said solemnly.

Li Baoshan had a pained look on his face.

"On the phone, Mengmeng's mother told me that my good brother had changed his mind, and in order to strengthen their family's position, the family introduced him to the daughter of a mayor of Nanhai Province. I told Mengmeng's mother to stop cherishing that bastard, let her come to me, and I would protect her for the rest of her life. ”

Mengmeng's mother cried on the phone, and later, after my repeated questioning, she told me that she was pregnant.

Hearing this, Dongfang Xiaofei had already vaguely understood what Li Baoshan meant by the secret.

When I heard the news, I didn't know how to describe it, I was silent, maybe it was because of my silence that Mengmeng's mother cried even more sadly. Hearing Mengmeng's mother's cry, my heart was like a knife, she was the only woman I had ever loved and always loved in my life. I confessed my heart to Mengmeng's mother at that time. I told her how much I had always loved her, that I would accept her no matter what she was, and that I would promise to help her raise this child. Mengmeng's mother was touched by my words, and a few days later, I met Mengmeng's mother. Seeing her emaciated appearance, I took her into my arms. I vowed to make her happy, to make her a happy woman, to be my happy bride.

Our wedding was very simple, not even a few relatives were present, we simply entertained a table at home, our dormitory was our new house, and the happy words on the doors and windows were all pasted with the help of colleagues. Speaking of this, Li Baoshan was sad for a while.

Seven months later, our daughter was born, and I named her Mengmeng, maybe she was my dream.

At that time, our conditions were very difficult, Mengmeng's mother did not have a job, and the milk was insufficient, so I borrowed from all over the world, and later our county party secretary found out about my situation and specially gave me an extra 100 yuan a month. Little by little, we grew up with dreams. Because of my efforts and the promotion of the old leaders, I have also developed step by step in my career.

"Bitterness comes sweetly, such a life should be happy. Dongfang Xiaofei couldn't help but say.

"Yes, I also feel very happy, Mengmeng has looked like her mother since she was a child, she is very beautiful, and she is also very sensible. Li Baoshan had a happy look on his face.

"Why don't you have a child anymore. Dongfang Xiaofei said.

"Why don't I want to have another child, after all, Mengmeng is the bastard's child, but when I went to the hospital for an examination later, the doctor said that the survival rate of my sperm ~ child is very low, one in 10,000. Although I tried hard with Mengmeng's mother, I failed in the end. Later, we stopped thinking about the child, and I concentrated on being kind to Mengmeng, treating her as if she were my own daughter. Every time I go out for a meeting or study, I have to buy Mengmeng and her mother the best clothes and the favorite walnut cake. We've lived like this for nine years.

Dongfang Xiaofei knew that things had changed again.

Sure enough, Li Baoshan paused and continued.

"When Mengmeng was nine years old, Mengmeng's mother suddenly received a call from that villain, and I later learned that he had heard it from my college classmates.

He told Mengmeng's mother that he had always loved her, saying that he was forced at the beginning, and now that he is divorced, he wants to make up for Mengmeng's mother. ”

"Bastard!" Dongfang Xiaofei scolded.

"At the beginning, Mengmeng's mother scolded him like this, and told me about it, so I made a special call to the bastard and scolded him bitterly. ”

"It's not going to be that simple, is it?" Dongfang Xiaofei asked.

"yes, it's so much more than that. I thought that if we scolded that bastard, he would definitely give up, but who knows, he has no face and no skin, calls home every day, and pesters Mengmeng's mother every day. Later, Mengmeng's mother finally got tempted, and now that I think about it, I can understand her, after all, that bastard is her first man. But I didn't understand at first, and when Mengmeng's mother told me to forgive him, I broke down and even scolded Mengmeng's mother like crazy. I said she was shameless...... Said a lot of hurtful things.

Since our quarrel that day, the relationship between the two of us has also built a thick wall, I began to be reluctant to go home, always looking for all kinds of excuses to sleep outside, even in my own office, I don't want to go back, I am afraid that because of that bastard to quarrel with Mengmeng's mother.

Finally, one day, Mengmeng's mother came to the unit and found me and told me about divorce. I asked her if it was because of that bastard, and she said yes. She said that the bastard was now the deputy mayor of a city in Nanhai and asked her to come over.

I didn't stop her, I knew her heart didn't belong to me anymore. We quickly completed the divorce procedures, and Mengmeng left it to me at my repeated insistence. And she went to Nanhai Province again.

"Mengmeng doesn't know these things, right?" Dongfang Xiaofei asked.

"She didn't know, she thought I was never going home, that there were other women outside, and that she had taken her mother away. ”

"Why don't you tell her these things?"

"Mengmeng is pitiful enough, I don't want to hurt her anymore. So, since I was a child, I have always doted on her very much, plus no one around her cares, and she hates me, so since I was a child, she is very naughty and causes trouble for me every day, but no matter what, she is my favorite and most distressed Mengmeng, my daughter.

Speaking of this, Li Baoshan's eyes radiated a fatherly gaze.

Hearing this, Dongfang Xiaofei finally understood that the Li Baoshan in front of him was not only a big man, but more importantly, he was a man, a real man.

Dongfang Xiaofei remembers reading an article somewhere about several manifestations of a responsible man:

A man with a sense of responsibility, career always comes first. It is important to emphasize one point here: it is not that a rich man is a man with a career, but that a man is ambitious. Men who love, adapt, have passion, and take their work seriously have basically the same sense of responsibility for marriage and family. It is hard to imagine that a man who is too lazy to work can maintain a lasting passion and eternal sense of responsibility for love and family. A really good man has a great career and a warm family. And men who are busy with their careers and socializing and ignore their families, or who play at home every day without a career, are unreliable.

A responsible man, loving his parents is his greatest virtue. Knowing that his parents work hard, knowing that he has to honor his parents through his own efforts, and knowing that he can sacrifice his career or love for his parents, this kind of man is the most trustworthy, and there are not many men who can do this now, and there are many older "boys" who squander their parents' blood and sweat to please their girlfriends and win jobs, and then complain about their parents. Remember, a true man will create a blue sky with his industrious hands, step on a wide road with his solid legs, and win the heart of a girl through his sincere heart! If he doesn't even love his parents, then how much can he love his wife?

A man with a sense of responsibility, who dares to admit his mistakes, who dares to get up where he fell, and start all over again. If you blame all your mistakes on bad chances, bad luck, meeting evil people, or even "you are not bad enough" and so on, this is not what a good man thinks. If you don't reflect on yourself correctly, you want to correct the mistakes you have already made by more wrong means. Then it is difficult for me to imagine that his future married life will be healthy, happy and stable.

A man with a sense of responsibility is very cautious in love. I won't make a girlfriend easily, and I won't go back and forth between several women. When there is no certainty, it will not use ambiguous words to misunderstand the girl, and once it is confirmed, it will be treated with sincerity. Every time you need it, you can help you by phone call or text message, no matter how busy he is, as long as he has a woman in his heart, with the current convenient communication method, he can show his love for others at any time. ...... Every call will be punctual, every date can't make your girlfriend wait for a minute (girlfriend is also punctual), I mean every time, no matter in the wind or rain, no matter how inconvenient the road is, even if it is a meeting after a breakup, you will stand in the rain in advance and wait.

But compared to the man in front of him, these seem so small, Li Baoshan is a real man!