During this time, the weather is getting hotter, and because the child is getting older, he has also gone from needing to hold on to things to walk at the beginning, to now being able to let go and run around.

Although he can run around now, he is not walking steadily, and he still needs to be supported by an adult to avoid falling.

Of course, this kind of thing is taken care of by the nanny, and Fang Ruoxi doesn't have to worry too much.

It's just that as the child grew up, he also began to speak.

Fang Ruoxi has the leisure to accompany the child every day and teach him some basic terms, but he has also been reading on the Internet recently, about children's education.

Although the child is still young, there is no saying that the child must win at the starting line, so that the future life will be easier.

After Fang Ruoxi has been on the Internet for a few days, he feels that the preschool education that is particularly popular on the Internet is very good, and he is thinking about when to register his child for a class.

This matter, he decided it himself, and there was no need to ask Ding Ting's opinion again.

But he didn't know what, he just wanted to ask Ding Ting what he meant, and on that day, when he came to see himself and his child, he mentioned at the dinner table that he wanted to enroll his child in the preschool class.

In fact, for children's education, Ding Ting has always advocated manual intervention so early.

He felt that the child was still young, and when he went to school in the future, he would be exposed to these things, and there was no need to let the child be exposed to these things so early in advance.

And once the current children go to school, they have almost no extra time to play, and he doesn't want the children to be sent to school to be framed at the age when they should be playing, and receive unnecessary education, so he rarely had a disagreement with Fang Ruoxi on this matter.

Fang Ruoxi means that he doesn't want the child to lose at the starting line, but Ding Ting means that he wants the child to play happily and study at an age when he should be happy, and when the child reaches a certain age, it is not too late to send it to school again.

But Fang Ruoxi used the excuse that if the child did not learn these knowledge in advance in school, he might not be able to keep up with the progress of education when he went to school, and the child might be excluded at school.

"That's just an early education class, which is to take the child to adapt to the environment in advance, so that when he is old enough to send him to school, he will not be able to adapt to the atmosphere of teaching in school. ”

Fang Ruoxi saw that his good friend's child was also sent to early education class at a young age, and now when he goes to kindergarten, it is easier than when his classmates receive the teacher's teaching knowledge, so he moved this thought.

But in Tintin's opinion, this is completely unnecessary.

He knows that the burden of children's education is very heavy now, and he knows that once the child goes to school in the future, there will not be so much time to play innocently, so he values the period before the child goes to school.

He hopes that his children can live happily before going to school, rather than being delayed by their studies at a young age.

So he said he couldn't compromise anything in this matter.

It is precisely because of this that the two have fallen out for the first time since receiving the marriage certificate.

Fang Ruoxi didn't want to let go of anything, and insisted on sending the child to an early education class.

And Ding Ting didn't want the child to be delayed by learning at such a young age, so he gritted his teeth and didn't let go.

After the two had a disagreement about the child's education, they had a big quarrel, and Ding Ting didn't come to see Fang Ruoxi and the child for several days.

For this reason, Fang Ruoxi was angry and hateful in her heart.

He felt that he was only doing this for the good of the child, why Ding Ting just couldn't understand it.

He couldn't find anyone to tell him about the distress in his heart, and in the end he had no choice but to tell his father about it.

In fact, in terms of children's education, Fang Qian maintained the same attitude as Ding Ting.

He also feels that today's children will face a lot of pressure once they go to school, and these pressures are not only from the family, but also from the competition between classmates.

Since this kind of pressure is inevitable in the future, why can't you let your child live happily and happily for a few years before she is exposed to this kind of pressure?

In this way, at least when he grows up, he can have a happy and happy childhood when he looks back on his childhood, instead of recalling his childhood, which is all about learning.

"You are indeed too anxious about this matter, the child is not yet a year old, but he is only 11 months old, you should be waiting for him to be older, thinking about this matter. ”

Fang Qian said Fang Ruoxi once.

He knew that he had always cared about this child, because this child was not only his first child, but also an opportunity for him to marry Tintin.

He is right to be kind to his children, but has he ever considered that children have to bear so much pressure at such a young age, is it a little too cruel for children?

Fang Ruoxi still felt awkward in his heart, he always thought that he wanted to send the child to the early education class, but it was just for the good of the child.

Even if his father explained it to him, he still felt a little puzzled.

But if he can't figure it out, he can't figure it out, and he still needs to think about it if he can make his father oppose it.

So after talking to Fang Qian about sending the child to the early education class, he checked it on the Internet and consulted some people related to children's education, and finally had to admit that in the childhood when the child can play carefree, the most important thing is to let her play happily.

As they say, children will eventually go to school and will eventually be exposed to this knowledge.

It is indeed a very excessive act for children to give the pressure of learning too early.

Fang Ruoxi finally gave up this idea after struggling with it for a week.

However, he still couldn't bear to let the child not have a complete education system at such a young age, and while giving up sending the child to the early education class, he found someone to find a home-based early education nanny for the child.

In this way, children do not have to go to school for early education classes and can get the same education.

It is equivalent to children being able to learn some of the knowledge that early education classes need to learn when they are playing, which can not only meet their needs for children's play, but also meet a demand for children's early education.

Fang Ruoxi felt that his concession was correct, so after he found an early education nanny for the child, he called Ding Ting and told him.

"I see. ”

Ding Ting had already guessed that Fang Ruoxi's character would not allow the things he believed to be swayed by others, although this matter seemed to be a concession on the surface, but Ding Ting knew that he still adhered to his own philosophy and framed the child in the cage early.

Ding Ting was extremely annoyed with the other party Ruoxi, and felt that he was too arrogant.

After experiencing this incident, he strengthened a perception of him in his heart.

Such a person is destined to not be able to go forever with him.

If they continue to live together, Fang Ruoxi will one day dictate her life.

How could Ding Ting put up with others directing his life, so after he put down the phone here, he began to think about how to find a way to divorce Fang Ruoxi.

These days, he has been accompanying Lin Jiao to watch TV series, and in this TV series, in addition to love and hatred, it is a family affair.

Lin Jiao also seems to have figured out his preferences, he used to watch Republic of China dramas, but since Ding Ting watched TV with her, the TV series he watched were almost only modern romance TV series.

Especially those marriage-related TV series, he has watched them many times and is not tired.

Ding Ting also knew that Lin Jiao might have noticed some of her intentions, so she would talk to herself about children and marriage with her intentionally or unintentionally when watching TV.

At first, Tintin pretended not to be interested in these topics.

After a long time, when Lin Jiao asked about himself, he would also pick up a sentence or two intentionally or unintentionally.

However, he has always controlled this degree very well, even if some of the conversations between him and Lin Jiao at home are overheard, it will definitely not make people think that he has moved his heart to divorce.

Under such a day-by-day temptation, Lin Jiao finally couldn't bear it anymore for a day.

On this day, after they finished dinner, Lin Jiao went to clean up the dishes and chopsticks as usual, and Ding Ting went to the study to deal with the documents because he suddenly received a document.

By the time he finished processing the documents, Lin Jiao had already prepared fruits in the living room and was waiting for her to watch TV together.

The routines of this TV series are all like that, as long as it talks about marriage and family, it is inevitable, and there will be some scenes of collisions between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law.

Even if the TV series they are watching now is a TV series from the 80s, such a picture is still indispensable.

"Done with work?"

Seeing him come out of the study, Lin Jiao quickly moved him to a place.

"Hmm. ”

Ding Ting simply answered and sat down beside him.

To be honest, although it seems that he has been watching TV with Lin Jiao on the surface these days, in fact, he really doesn't have much interest in these TVs.

Most of the time he plays with his phone while watching TV, and only occasionally does he watch TV when he encounters a good part.

Lin Jiao had long been accustomed to his movements, and she didn't say anything.

Today's TV plot is a bit lengthy, and I haven't performed for a long time, Ding Ting is really bored to watch, so I can't take out my mobile phone and want to change my mood.

Lin Jiao also knows that today's TV series is not interesting, but since they are all sitting here, he must still say a few words.

"You see that this mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along, and they are really thousands of faces. ”

"Huh?"

Ding Ting suddenly heard him say this, raised his eyebrows, and looked up at him.

Lin Jiao found that he was looking at herself, subconsciously licked her lips, and then fell her eyes to the TV in front of her, pretending to feel it after watching the TV series.

"No, I'm just talking about this TV series, if you look at the same mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, some can get along very happily, and some can be like enemies in the previous life, and this life is here to take revenge. ”

When Lin Jiao said this, there was already an advertisement on TV.

Ding Ting glanced at the TV, because his attention was not on the TV just now, and he happened to bump into the advertisement at this moment, he didn't even know what was playing on the TV just now.

"It's normal, people from different families must be very different. After all, they are all different individuals, and they suddenly got together, some chose to endure, and some chose to fight, which is a very normal thing!"

This kind of thing is not uncommon in the workplace, let alone in the family.

Two people raised with different concepts, because of marriage came together, although the three views of the two of them may be consistent, but who can guarantee that the three views of their families can be consistent?

So it's normal to have some conflicts between them, but it just depends on whether the two sides of the conflict are willing to shake hands and make peace, or do they have to fight to the death?

If you are willing to shake hands and make peace, it is naturally the best help for a new family.

If the parents of both sides have to fight to the death, then this newborn family, no matter how good the relationship between the young couple is, will not avoid the day when it will fall apart.

Therefore, the attitude of parents can sometimes greatly affect the married life of the young couple, which has to be admitted.

"It's normal, but the premise is that people have to get along, look at your current family, is there any difference between getting married and before getting married?"

When it comes to marriage, Lin Jiao can't help but complain.

Because of these times, Ding Ting occasionally heard himself complaining about her marriage and didn't say much, he thought that Ding Ting also felt normal about his complaints, so he didn't have anything to shy away from today, and directly mentioned his marriage to him in person.

"Is there a problem? I think that's good. ”

Although Ding Ting knew what Lin Jiao wanted to say next, he really felt that his current state was quite good.

He didn't like Fang Ruoxi in the first place, and marrying him was only because he had children, of course, Fang Ruoxi and his father were also inevitable.

Originally, this marriage was not made at his will, so now that it is like this, he doesn't feel that there is anything wrong with it.

Besides, if he was really allowed to face Fang Ruoxi day and night, sharing the same bed night and night, he would probably have gone crazy a long time ago.

In this state, he can barely maintain a little sobriety.

So he has no complaints about his current marital status.

But Lin Jiao didn't know what he was thinking.

She always thought that she and Fang Ruoxi got married, which was voluntary, and she always thought that he was getting along with Fang Ruoxi very well now, and he had accepted him from the bottom of his heart, but who knew that he still had this layer in his heart?