Chapter 29: Sex Education

"What book has Xin Xin been reading lately?" Lin Qing held the steering wheel in his hand and talked to Yu Xin.

"I haven't seen it for a long time. The previous book was "The Ordinary World". Yu Xin hugged the small quilt tightly, and was still a little nervous when she answered.

"Well, that's a good book, and I like it too. ”

The two of them just said sentence by sentence, talking slowly and leisurely. Lin Qing is helping Yu Xin to relax slowly, this matter has taken too long, and now that it has been solved, she should have some bottom in her heart, and the strings in the little girl's heart can be loosened.

She was too tight, and Lin Qing was a little worried, afraid that she would not be able to hold it off.

Now, although the problem has not been completely solved, she is not alone after all.

When the two of them got home, it was almost six o'clock in the afternoon. Lin Qing estimated that the afternoon class of the school should be almost over, and it was estimated that the group of cubs were now waiting for the bell of the end of class, ready to sprint out, and the wolf pounced on it.

Lin Qing thought about it, couldn't help but bend the corners of her lips, and began to look for "Rejuvenation" on TV, and finally found it, she beckoned to Lin Diandian with satisfaction, and asked Lin Diandian to lie on the sofa and watch it with Yu Xin.

Yu Xin looked at the video that started to play a little hesitantly, and couldn't help but ask Lin Qing if she wanted to go back to school. When she goes back now, she can still study on her own at night. Lin Qing smiled and shook his head at her, telling her to play with confidence.

Her current state is not suitable for going to school to study, not to mention that there is no shortage of study nights, so it is better to rest at home than to let her go to school.

Lin Qing watched the little girl hugging Lin Diandian, watching the movie and gradually becoming fascinated, before she went to the kitchen to prepare dinner with confidence. She found the black chicken she bought in the supermarket two days ago in the refrigerator, and also bought some Chinese medicinal herbs by the way. She was going to use it to boil chicken soup and send it to Li Yitong, but this time it was just used to replenish Yu Xin's body.

Lin Qing cut the black chicken into pieces, put it in a casserole, and was about to put the Chinese medicinal herbs when she suddenly paused and hesitated: Are some Chinese medicinal materials not suitable for pregnant women?

She checked on the Internet, but she was still a little uneasy, after all, this is not a trivial matter. When she was struggling to give up Chinese medicinal materials and only boil simple chicken soup, Xu Hui suddenly thought of her mind.

Lin Qing clicked on his WeChat, and his WeChat avatar was the official picture of his hospital. She really didn't expect it, looking at his avatar and still a little distracted, when she reacted, she couldn't help but laugh softly, he was so well-behaved? Is this advertising the hospital? Can you increase your salary?

However, Lin Qing was only addicted, and she didn't dare to ask him in person. She cheered herself up...... Anyway, he said that if he had something, he could ask him, just ask, if he didn't see it, forget it, Chinese medicinal materials can't be wasted............

The sound of movies in the living room fills the room, warming up the atmosphere. Lin Qing listened to the lines and guessed that it should be Be

jami

The story begins when Daisy is met at a nursing home.

Finally convinced herself, she clicked on the chat box.

"Hello Dr. Xu, excuse me. ”

Lin Qing clenched his mobile phone, a little nervous, and his palms were faintly sweating. The phone vibrated quickly, and it was his message.

"No Interruption" is also paired with an emoji smiley face.

She couldn't imagine that he would actually use a smiling face, which looked silly and somewhat inconsistent with his image.

Lin Qing has been chatting with emojis recently, but she hasn't seen an emoji smiling face for a long time, she thinks it's funny, it turns out that Dr. Xu's chat style belongs to the elderly style.

"Hey, hey. I would like to ask you, are some Chinese medicinal herbs that pregnant women can't eat?"

"Yes, which ones are you going to put in?"

"Angelica, Angelica Angelica, Nutmeg, Star anise, Ginger, Cumin, Cinnamon Bark, Grass Fruit, Tangerine Peel, Goji Berry, Yam. Lin Qing counted them one by one, and when he bought them, the boss persuaded him to buy more, but Lin Qing would not refuse, but bought a complete one.

"It's too much. Goji berries and yams are enough, too many spices are not good for pregnant women, some of them are on fire or blood, and pregnant women are not suitable to eat more. ”

Lin Qing couldn't help but sigh, but fortunately he asked him, otherwise it would be bad to let it go indiscriminately, which would backfire.

"Thank you, Dr. Xu," Lin Qing also replied with an emoji smile.

"You're welcome. ”

When Lin Qing was thinking about choosing a polite thank you emoji, his phone vibrated and a new message entered.

"In addition, the next time I ask me, just use you directly, we are too rusty to use you. ”

Lin Qing was a little surprised, you seem to be too rusty, she couldn't help but guess his words, but she couldn't guess.

But we don't know each other very well, how polite you are, Lin Qing reacted, pouted and secretly complained, but he still responded obediently.

"Okay, I remember. Thank you. ”

"Hmm. ”

She turned off WeChat, cleaned the wolfberries and yams, and threw them into the chicken soup. Seeing that the time was still early, I went to the study to bring the laptop computer again, sat on the bar, and looked up the information while waiting for the chicken soup, and the screen was "popularization of sexual knowledge".

Lin Qing looked back at Yu Xin, the little girl couldn't take her eyes off it, and she was still holding Lin Diandian in her hand. Lin dozed off a little, and slept comfortably with his head on Yu Xin's lap.

Lin Qing saw the warmth in her heart, this should be what she is, simple, happy and happy.

Lin Qing turned around and continued to check the information. She spent the whole day wondering why this was happening, and in the end she still felt that sex education was not keeping up.

It's a perennial topic that has never been addressed. Traditional Chinese thinking and the introverted nature of Chinese inevitably make people talk about sexual perversion, and perhaps people have become much more open to talking about sex in recent years.

Sensitive issues such as "premarital sex" and "whether the wife is required to be a virgin at the time of marriage" can already be boldly discussed. However, children's sex education has not kept up, and most middle school teachers in China still avoid talking about it, and many teachers will not think about this issue in such a general trend, or think about it but do it.

Sex education, this is not only to be taught by schools, in fact, it is the parents of students who should play a guiding role, but it seems that the parents of students do not have this awareness, and even extremely resistant.

Before, there was a new teacher in the school with a second-year junior high school student, who took a class meeting class to teach sex education, but I didn't expect some students to go home and tell their parents, and the parents chased after the school leaders to complain, saying that the teacher did not teach good knowledge, so he taught this kind of mess.

At that time, the new teacher was very aggrieved, and few teachers stood up to help her speak, but Lin Qing and Li Yitong heard about it and couldn't look past it, so after running to understand the situation, they had the courage to run to the school leader to help the teacher speak.

Later, the new teacher stopped talking about sex education. Sometimes Lin Qing is very emotional, for the teacher, it is her choice whether to speak or not, even if she doesn't speak, no one can blame her. But now that she is sad and will not talk about it in the future, her students may have been in a state of hazy or even misinterpreted knowledge about sex. The school and parents do not support it, which makes the teacher feel cold, and the biggest loss is actually the student.

Since going to school, Lin Qing has never stopped hearing about the sexual assault of girls, whether it is around him or on the Internet. Lin Qing herself is lucky, she has been taught by her mother how to protect herself since she was a child, and no one she knows or knows can touch her sensitive parts.

Maybe it's because her mother has been doing business, she has seen a lot of people, and she has seen a lot of people in wolf's clothing, and told her a lot of stories, although it was difficult to accept it for a while, but because of this, she has always had a sense of precaution in her heart, and she also protects her to grow up safely.

But it is difficult to say that her mother's sex education must be perfect and correct, because for a long time, Lin Qing was also very afraid of sex in those stories, and also thought that it was dirty and terrible. Lin Qing did not receive formal knowledge of sex education in school, and in the past, the physiology teachers in the school used to let students study on their own and read books by themselves, without teachers to teach.

At that time, there were also some boys who would joke about the knowledge in books, or laugh when they watched girls sneak to the toilet with sanitary napkins. Maybe she thought it was nothing at the time, but now that she has become a teacher herself, when she thinks about it again, she shakes her head frequently.

Even in college, most college students have a limited, narrow, and even dirty understanding of sexuality. Lin Qing's sex education was gradually improved after he went to college and gradually watched some sex education documentaries and gender movies.

But Lin Qing thinks that it is sad to have a formed sexual understanding at the age of 20, which should not be so circumvented, and teachers and parents can boldly teach it, just like professional knowledge.

In fact, children have a strong sense of curiosity, even if parents and teachers hide it, but many children will use some genital swear words to scold people from an early age, isn't it an extremely ironic phenomenon?

But parents don't teach, and there is another possibility, that is, parents themselves may not have correct and perfect sexual knowledge, so how to teach their children.

But why teachers don't teach, first, because this is a thankless task, sometimes parents and students do not necessarily agree, and second, the school does not clearly stipulate that sexual knowledge should be taught, and there is no special teacher, which is still very immature.

Whenever Lin Qing heard the words "sex education is useless" coming out of the mouths of parents, even students and teachers, she would be laughed at angrily. In fact, the professional knowledge taught by the teacher is likely to be only useful for a while, and after a few years, who can remember the formula of gravity, the synthesis and decomposition of forces, but the knowledge of sex can be used for a lifetime.

Lin Qing had buried a small flame in her heart a long time ago, and the occurrence of Yu Xin's incident undoubtedly ignited the fire in her heart and made her determined to do it, even if it was a thankless task.

When the chicken soup was cooked, a circle of mist floated through the kitchen until it reached the bar. Lin Qing couldn't help but take a big sip, it was very fragrant. She closes her computer and goes to the kitchen to scoop out the chicken broth.