Chapter 659: Impermanence
Yang Jingxing opened the door of the fire escape and let his father and uncle go in first, Yang Chengguang quickly trotted up, Yang Chengyi let out a low cry and followed closely.
Yang Jingxing also heard his grandmother's sudden cry, he walked briskly, followed behind Yang Chengyi, and looked at the staggering backs of the two middle-aged men.
The two young doctors in surgical gowns didn't seem to say anything when they faced their families, and when they saw Yang Chengyi and Yang Chengguang, they beckoned: "Family, please come here." ”
Xiao Shuyun was also anxious at the moment: "What does brain death mean!?"
Xiao Shuxia and the concubines tried their best to take care of their mother-in-law who was about to collapse to the ground, and the old man was crying bitterly, but he didn't make any sound, and the slapping of his hands seemed to be unconscious.
Yang Jingxing and his father and uncle followed the doctor into a simple office next to him, and Xiao Shuyun followed. There were a few chairs, but none of them sat down, and the doctor began to talk about the situation.
The two young doctors were not in charge of the surgery, and the preliminary diagnosis of the patient by Director Zhou was brain dead......
Yang Chengyi was incomprehensible: "What does a preliminary diagnosis mean?"
The doctor explained patiently, and seemed to know that the patient was also a relational household, but Director Zhou was authoritative, and the decisions he made were also considered from the perspective of the family.
Yang Chengyi asked, "Is it a vegetative person?"
The doctor went on to explain......
Xiao Shuyun was angry: "People haven't died yet, why is it meaningless?"
The doctor was not in a hurry and continued to seek truth from his own point of view.
It took some time for the two brothers Yang Chengyi to figure out the situation, and then fell silent. Maybe no matter what the doctor says, in their opinion, it is still up to them to decide the "life and death" of their father, but the doctor has almost said the word "life is better than death", and the law is blank.
The doctor also seemed understanding: "You can discuss it with other family members." ”
Yang Jingxing suddenly opened his mouth and asked the question that the doctor had already explained: "Is my grandfather not feeling anything now?
A doctor nodded: "Yes, theoretically." ”
Yang Jingxing asked again: "How long does it take to diagnose brain death?"
Another doctor said: "Generally two days, observation and examination. ”
Yang Jingxing nodded: "Thank you, let's discuss it here." ”
The doctor went out, the grandmother was helped in, and the old man cried, almost begging his son: "You have to save your father, save him, he raised you ......"
Yang Chengyi was anxious: "Mom, let's save, save!"
The two daughters-in-law also hurriedly comforted their mother-in-law, but their faces became more and more gloomy with the husbands' expressions.
Grandma is not good at appeasing at the moment, so the men let the women take care of it first, and they came out to discuss in the empty and quiet corridor, and the two brothers, Yang Chengyi and Yang Chengguang, were willing to stare into each other's eyes at the moment. It was quickly agreed that the surgery was not necessary, and then we didn't go any further, and we didn't look at each other.
Yang Jingxing moved closer to his father and said, "Dad...... What do you want me to do if you're like this in a few decades?"
Yang Chengyi looked at his son, as if he was not angry because of Yang Jingxing's unfilial piety, but more surprised.
Yang Jingxing said: "Grandpa talks about face, I think, when he is diagnosed, let him go with dignity." ”
Yang Chengguang also looked at Yang Jingxing in surprise.
Yang Chengyi was in pain: "Actually, your grandfather doesn't know anything......"
Yang Chengguang asked his brother: "What do you say to your mother?" The tone was obviously knowing that there was no answer.
Yang Jingxing interjected again: "Deceived grandma...... Otherwise, she would be even more sad to see her grandfather lying there by the machine. ”
Yang Chengyi let out a long sigh, as if shaking his head and rubbing his eyes.
Yang Chengguang proposed: "We still have to discuss with them." ”
Yang Chengyi nodded, and Yang Jingxing said, "I'll go to accompany grandma." ”
Xiao Shuyun had to take care of the elderly alone, but Yang Jingxing still stayed and went out for his mother and aunt. Grandma has begun to recall grandpa's life, which is glorious and great......
Yang Jingxing could only appease her grandmother palely, saying that she still had sons, daughters-in-law, and grandchildren.
The two couples came in after about ten minutes outside, and Xiao Shuxia's eyes were red as if they had shed tears, but they were not as obvious as sons.
Then the men of the Yang family came out again, and Yang Chengyi explained to his son with great difficulty: "It's not that I'm afraid of taking care of and serving, even if I save my life, my organs will fail, and my health is not good, but at such an old age, if he can feel it, it will be even more uncomfortable......"
Yang Chengguang saw it more thoroughly: "If you don't think about it, you won't die, that is, ......" I can't find an adjective or metaphor.
The plan is decided, let the hospital make a diagnosis of brain death without telling grandma, and then let the old man go to Elysium with dignity...... In fact, it is not certain whether you can persist until the diagnosis is completed.
After signing in the student's office, Yang Chengyi and Yang Chengguang still asked to meet the old man, and Yang Jingxing followed. In the compartment outside the operating room, the old man was wearing a ventilator, his eyes were closed, and his cardiogram was being tested. Director Zhou also explained the EEG problem to the family.
Yang Chengyi and Yang Chengguang could only stand on the right side of the hospital bed, both hunched over to look at their father, and after looking at it for a while, Yang Chengyi first called softly: "Dad......
Yang Chengguang also imitated: "Dad." ”
Yang Chengyi said again: "Yang Jingxing has come to see you." ”
Yang Jingxing also called: "Grandpa, I'm here." ”
Yang Chengyi said: "You are a soldier, and you have lived a backbone and principle all your life......
It may be that this family member behaved a little differently, and the nurses and doctors all looked sideways.
The two sons, who first took turns to praise their father, and then with difficulty led to the difficult decisions made by the families, of course, because they didn't want the old man to suffer......
As they spoke, Yang Chengyi's two brothers were a little choked, and Yang Jingxing didn't pay attention to the vibration of the mobile phone in his pocket.
The patient was then taken to the ICU ward, which was still a single room, and his wife was not notified until later. Yang Jingxing's grandmother cooperated with the hospital and believed the words of her family and doctors, but she always cried and sighed.
Xiao Shuxia said to her son, "Your grandfather looks better than in the morning...... It's peaceful. ”
The grandmother began to blame herself, and found out too late in the morning, which made the little daughter-in-law sad.
Yang Jingxing's uncle-in-law and cousin also came, and after condolences and inquiries, they began to do their best to arrange dinner and accommodation as a landlord.
Yang Jingxing took the time to call Lu Lin and Xu Wei back, Lu Lin knew the news of Yang Jingxing's grandfather's illness from home, and wanted to express his concern.
Yang Jingxing's statement is: "It's no longer good." ”
Lu Lin asked, "Which hospital?" ”
Yang Jingxing said no, let's contact me if there is any situation.
Qi Qingnuo answered the phone quickly, but his tone was relatively stable: "How's it going?"
Yang Jingxing said: "Brain dead, I just decided to give up treatment, so I have time to call you. ”
Qi Qingnuo didn't understand either, so Yang Jingxing explained in detail, and the more Qi Qingnuo listened, the more silent he became, and asked very softly: "Who decided?"
Yang Jingxing said: "I proposed it, and they passed it. ”
Qi Qingnuo was silent for a while before he said, "It's okay...... That's actually the best. ”
Yang Jingxing said: "I will definitely not be able to go back this week......"
Qi Qingnuo asked knowingly: "Go home for a memorial service?"
Yang Jingxing: "Our side is more feudal, and it is estimated that it will take time." ”
Qi Qingnuo's breathing was slow but unsteady, and his voice was obvious: "Are your dad, okay?"
Yang Jingxing said: "Grandma is emotional, and my dad is more restrained, but it can be seen that they are also very sad. ”
Qi Qingnuo laughed dryly: "Don't be so objective. ”
Yang Jingxing asked, "What are you doing?"
Qi Qingnuo said, "It's okay...... Just waiting for your call. ”
Yang Jingxing said: "I miss you." ”
Qi Qingnuo said: "I'll ...... tomorrow afternoon"
Yang Jingxing said: "No, I can think about you." ”
Qi Qingnuo did it: "Now I can't be moved." ”
Yang Jingxing smiled: "These words moved me. ”
After a pause, Qi Qingnuo said, "When is the estimated time?"
Yang Jingxing guessed: "Tomorrow or the day after tomorrow." ”
Qi Qingnuo thought about it and asked, "Did Yu Xinting call you?" I don't mean anything else!"
Yang Jingxing said: "No, I'll call her later." ”
Qi Qingnuo smiled dryly again: "You behave more relaxed, don't affect her mood." ”
Yang Jingxing said: "It's not that powerful. ”
Qi Qingnuo said again: "I was originally going to transcribe her Huacai tomorrow and pass it on to you for your own checking." ”
Yang Jingxing said: "Just take a look...... It's best to listen to her play, sometimes I like to come hard. ”
Qi Qingnuo: "With Professor Li, rest assured...... Are you ready for dinner?"
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After Qi Qingnuo, Yang Jingxing called Gan Kaicheng first, and originally planned to talk to the planning department about Dai Qing next week, but it seemed that he was going to miss the appointment.
Gan Kaicheng was not in a hurry to Dai Qing, nor did he comfort Yang Jingxing: "Call me when you go home, when will the funeral be held." ”
Yang Jingxing said: "Our side is not filial piety, you don't have to go." ”
Gan Kaicheng said: "Don't talk nonsense, you are in my charge...... In the company?"
Yang Jingxing said: "Don't cause trouble to others." ”
Gan Kaicheng was decisive: "That's it." ”
Yang Jingxing called Yu Xinting again: "Hey...... I can't go back before you leave, help me bring a good message to Wang Yuchen and them. ”
Yu Xinting asked, "What's wrong?"
Yang Jingxing said: "The illness is a bit serious, although I am born, old, sick and die, but I always have to be by my side...... Are your grandparents well?"
Yu Xinting said: "It should be fine. ”
Yang Jingxing said: "That's good, you can go home and talk to them well this winter vacation, let the old man be proud, and his granddaughter has gone abroad to perform." ”
Yu Xinting asked, "Then you...... When will it be school?"
Yang Jingxing said: "Not necessarily, there is nothing to do during this time...... I'll be there when you come back, welcome to Triumph. ”
Yu Xinting said: "Then, do you know what the disease is?"
Yang Jingxing said: "Cerebral hemorrhage, still observing. Did you tell An Xin?"
Yu Xinting said: "I said it in the afternoon. ”
Yang Jingxing said: "Okay, then let's do this first, I'll hang up." ”
Yang Jingxing just made some phone calls, Yang Chengyi was much busier than him, and there had been several waves of people who came to visit the patients, although others were quite understanding and said a few words of comfort and left, but they also had to keep coping, and there were many calls.
Yang Chengyi came back to ask his son after a phone call: "Qi Qingnuo's mother called me just now." ”
Yang Jingxing said: "Listen to what Nuo Nuo said. ”
Yang Chengyi frowned slightly: "Don't do anything...... I didn't know what it meant, so I went to work again.
Xiao Shuxia finally found a chance to talk to her son alone, first asked if there was anything important on Puhai's side, and then asked tentatively: "You said it...... Don't treat grandpa?"
Yang Jingxing nodded: "...... Rest assured, your grandson will not be so unfilial. ”
Xiao Shuxia's eyes glared, and quickly dimmed: "Accompany your father to talk a few more words." ”
Yang Jingxing nodded.
Of course, adults were not in the mood to go out to eat, so cousin Wang Hui invited Yang Jingxing to go with her to buy something for the elders to come back to eat.
Wang Hui was more concerned about her cousin, and also inquired about Yang Jingxing's girlfriend's attitude towards this matter, because she felt that this kind of thing could better reflect the status of one person in the eyes of another person.
The takeaway was brought back to the hospital, and no one ate it, and the grandmother didn't want to drink any porridge and soup, although at this time the family members were a little numb to all kinds of critical notices.
As for resting, everyone didn't think about it, just stay all night, and look inside the ICU through the glass from time to time, who knows if they can survive tonight.
After accompanying Yang Chengyi to send away the inquiry and condolence representative of the Jiuchun County Government, Yang Jingxing and his father stood at the elevator door, and his father didn't seem to plan to rush back to the ward immediately.
Yang Chengyi didn't seem to have given up hope: "If your grandfather just leaves...... I feel guilty. ”
Yang Jingxing was heartless: "You are ashamed, many people have no face to live." ”
Yang Chengyi thought about it again, then looked up and said to his son: "You go to the hotel next to open two rooms and rest with your mother." ”
Yang Jingxing said: "I'll accompany you." ”
At about ten o'clock in the evening, Qi Qingnuo called Yang Jingxing, hung up the phone after a brief question.
At twelve o'clock, Yang Jingxing and his relatives watched the doctor rush into the ICU again in a hurry, and gathered in front of his grandfather's bed with the nurses, without any substantive work.
After a while, the nurse began to remove the patient's ventilator and vital tests, and the doctor turned and walked out gloomily.
Yang Chengyi covered his face with his hands and snorted, and his grandmother also realized what was going on, and it took a lot of effort to cry, and her daughter-in-law also sobbed slightly......
The doctor came out to reassure the family, saying that the patient was walking peacefully.
The nurse was very good, and she sorted out the remains of the deceased before pushing out the bed.
Xiao Shuxia choked up and comforted her mother-in-law: "It's okay, I haven't been ...... to the grind."
The family members crowded at the door of the ward, and the nurse pushed out the bed, put it aside very experiencedly, and asked the family members to go up to vent their emotions in a silent manner.
Half an hour later, everyone persuaded the saddest grandmother to let the old man be supported by Yang Jingxing, and the relatives sent the deceased to the morgue together......
Now they can all go to the hotel to rest, open two rooms, grandma is accompanied by two daughters-in-law, and men have one, Yang Chengyi and Yang Chengguang have to start preparing for the next thing.