Chapter 496: Protecting the Child's Nature
Hearing Qin Shenzhi's words, Su Rao was also very helpless, she also understood that children should not be overly spoiled, but Qin Zheng was already a very obedient child, just a little emotional, just a little enlightened.
And he didn't make any mistakes, because it's normal that he doesn't want to go to his grandmother's side, and he can't be too strict with him, he will only push the child out.
"Prudence, I understand your feelings, but don't be angry with the child, he is just a little emotional. ”
"Rao'er, if you keep spoiling him like you, I'm afraid he will still be lawless. ”
When Qin Zheng heard his father say this, he cried sadly, jumped down from the chair at once, turned around and ran upstairs, no matter how sad he was in the past, he didn't dare to move until Qin Shenzhi opened his mouth.
But now he has Mommy by his side, so he has the courage to run.
"Qin Zheng, Qin Zheng, you give me back, you are now fat, dare to run away before I open my mouth, won't you stop for me?"
Qin Zheng didn't listen to his call at all, ran back to the room and was locked by the door.
Qin Shenzhi was angered now, and was about to catch up when he was stopped by Su Rao, "Shenzhi, it's normal for a child to be emotional, it's normal to cry, you can't always measure him by the standards of adults, sometimes I see such a well-behaved and sensible Ke."
, I feel guilty. ”
Su Rao's words calmed down Qin Shenzhi, presumably Qin Zheng's willfulness, as well as Ke
Sensible and well-behaved, although Ke
This would make people feel better, but he has less of the innocence that a child of this age should have.
In the past, Qin Shenzhi hoped for Ke
You can also have a small temper, or be coquettish or something, even if he cries, he won't feel anything.
But Ke
After coming back for so long, almost all of them are strong, and they are very calm about things and people, which is completely beyond what this age should endure.
This is Su Rao's most distressing point, so she doesn't want Qin Zheng to become like this, she doesn't want Qin Shenzhi to wear out his nature, so she should let the child grow up freely.
Ke
Still at the dinner table, he usually doesn't leave easily without the instructions of an adult.
Because he knows that if he is not obedient or disobedient, he will cause trouble for Mommy.
Now Qin Shenzhi finally understood Su Rao's purpose, and he also blamed himself for caring too little about his children, just thinking about his career and creating his kingdom.
"Rao'er, I understand what you mean, then I'll go up and talk to him about it. After that, he walked over to Ke
beside him, rubbing his little head, he said softly, "Ke."
, you are very sensible, but sometimes you have to be like Azheng, you have your own temperament, and you don't have to accommodate us. ”
This is Ke
Not quite understandable, Su Rao also stepped forward and smiled: "Ke."
, Dad said that you can do whatever you want in the future, don't restrain yourself, no matter what you encounter, there will be us by your side. ”
Ke
nodded thoughtfully, but he didn't like to make adults distressed like Qin Zheng.
"You eat so well, Daddy goes up and calls Ah Zheng down. Qin Shenzhi gave Su Rao a determined look, and then went upstairs to find Qin Zheng.
Ke
asked curiously: "Mommy, if I'm like Ah Zheng, will you dislike me?" ”
Su Rao stroked his smiling face distressedly, and replied very seriously: "Ke."
, you are Mommy's son, no matter what you do, Mommy will love you, but Mommy said that you can't do bad things. ”
"Mommy, although there are some things I don't know very well, I will be a good person. ”
"Mommy knows that you are a kind child, but you also have to be yourself, you don't have to hide your temperament, you can show your joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and Mommy will grow up with you. ”
Su Rao's words slowly entered the child's heart like a warm current, making Ke
Very happy.
"I got it, Mommy. ”
On the other side, Qin Shenzhi walked to Ah Zheng's door and knocked on the door gently: "Ah Zheng, Daddy's tone just now was a little heavier, and his requirements for you were too strict, Daddy came to apologize to you, you open the door, let's have a good talk." ”
In the past, how could Qin Shenzhi knock on the door, and as soon as he yelled at the door, Qin Zheng had to open the door immediately, otherwise it might be a meal to clean up.
But after hearing Su Rao's words, he felt that something was wrong in the past, so he wanted to start talking to the child.
There was no movement inside, and Qin Shenzhi was not in a hurry, "If you don't want to see Daddy now, then you can sit behind the door now, and how about we chat in the air." ”
Qin Shenzhi said and sat down at the door first, and then knocked on the door with his hand, "If you are behind Daddy, then you can also knock." ”
A few seconds later, the sound sounded inside.
Qin Shenzhi said: "The reason why Daddy wants to discipline you so strictly is because you didn't have a mommy in the past, and I don't want someone to find something bad in you, and then accuse you, saying that you don't have a mommy." ”
Qin Zheng inside suddenly didn't attack his heart, what he was most afraid of back then was a family gathering, when he saw that everyone else had a mommy, he had nothing.
But as long as he appears elegantly in front of everyone, everyone will praise him very much and think he is very good, all thanks to Daddy's teaching and restraint, he will become excellent.
"Ever since your mommy came back, I've been very lenient with you, letting you live your life according to your own temperament, but now think about it, is it getting more and more too lately. ”
Qin Shenzhi's tone was very gentle, and he didn't blame him at all, but was reasoning with him.
Qin Zheng inside had already burst into tears, choked up and asked, "Does Daddy dislike me now?" ”
"You're really as stupid as your mommy, you are all my sweethearts, how could I not like you, Daddy will always love you, and he won't hate us Azheng. ”
After Qin Zheng heard this, he finally opened the door, and suddenly threw himself into Daddy's arms, "Daddy, I'm too willful, I will listen to you well in the future, and I won't be willful anymore." ”
Qin Shenzhi pinched his face: "Little fool, you can be willful in the future, but you can't be unreasonable, your mother said that you must protect the child's nature, so Daddy will not forcibly suppress you." ”
"And if I don't want to go to Grandma's today, will Daddy be angry?"
"Recently, Daddy and Mommy have been working hard to prepare for the game, very busy, if you go to the company, it will affect our attention, because you are too important, so you and your Mommy need to concentrate, you can only stay at home temporarily, or go to grandma's house. ”