The combination of human affection and the rule of law finally forms a relational society, which makes people's hearts full of comparison.

The first thing that comes to mind when you are sick and hospitalized is not which department to hang into, but what acquaintance or relative you have in the hospital, and you have acquaintances in the hospital, and you want to call your acquaintance first and say hello.

When looking for a job, the first thing that comes to mind is not whether you are competent for the job, whether you should take the civil service examination or whether you should go to a public institution or a private enterprise, the first thing that comes to mind is what good position an uncle or friend has in which unit, and what you should bring up to say hello so that you can arrange something to do for yourself.

In the system, or the vested interest person prefers that this society is a humane society, because he can get benefits from the humane society and can arrange his children to enter the vested interest system, but outside the vested interest system, those who have not yet found a place do not want the society to be a humane society, and hope that all order will come in accordance with the legal provisions.

For the society and the country, of course, it is more beneficial to follow the provisions of the law and the norms.

Of course, it does not mean that all vested interests want to break the rules, break the rules, and get benefits through personal relations, this is related to the level of education, the more highly educated people are less strong when they use the rules to seek benefits, these people understand that if the social order is destroyed, then their own interests will also be damaged.

"The house was also bought, and in a week or two the keys could be obtained, and then it could be slowly renovated. "Wake up and Xiang Wan out of the community, "If you need help in decoration, you can find me, my fourth uncle is engaged in decoration, and he has decorated a lot of houses, like your ready-made decoration design drawings for this house, there are more than ten points, and I will send it to you by mail when I go back later, you can take a look at it yourself, what places need to be changed can be marked, and tell me when the time comes." ”

After a busy morning, Xiang Wan sweated a lot, and woke up and handed her a tissue.

"Thank you, if it weren't for you and me, I would not have been able to look at the house so quickly, and I would have seen so many properties in one morning. Xiang Wan wiped the sweat from her body, "I haven't eaten lunch yet, I'll invite you to eat, you choose a place." ”

"Forget it, I'll invite you. Su Xing said.

"How can that work? You helped me all morning, I didn't eat, I should thank you, I invite you to eat, don't rob me, if you rob me, what will I be embarrassed to ask you for help in the future?" Xiang Wan disagreed, "But let's say it first, I can't afford to hire a place that is too expensive, that kind of five-star hotel costs four or five hundred yuan for a meal, I can't invite you, I can only wait until I graduate and work and make up for it for you." ”

"You don't have to go to that place, and some of the more upscale hotels actually don't have as good food as the food at some of the stalls. Su Xing sat in the cab and started the car, "Okay, let's not go out to eat, go to the vegetable market to buy some food, go home and cook some food, you can cook, right?"

"Yes. Xiang Wan nodded, "Okay, I'll cook for you." ”

Su Xing and Xiang Wan went to the supermarket to buy dishes for more than 100 yuan, which were quite hearty, meat, fish, and vegetables.

After returning to the place where Su woke up, Xiang Wan went to the kitchen to work.

"Do you want me to wash the food for you?" woke up to the kitchen door.

"No need, you go sit down, and when the meal is ready, I'll call you to eat again." Xiang Wan shook her head.

Su Xing nodded, returned to the study, and turned on the computer.

Xiang Wan was still busy in the kitchen, her voice was much quieter, she should have closed the kitchen door, afraid of waking up.

Su Xing sat on the computer, listening to the slight sound from the kitchen, a little sigh, in his previous life, he and Xiang Wan came together and got married, but there were many contradictions, it was nice to say that the personality was incompatible, but it was hard to say, realistically, in fact, it was the pressure of life that made the two people quarrel all the time.

Most men want to find a woman who can share the ups and downs and bear the pressures of life with them, but most women feel that a man is not worthy of being called a man if he is not able to take on the main responsibilities of life.

I opened QQ, logged in to my mailbox, and received a reply to the email I sent to Lena.

"Dear Su, I am very happy to receive your reply, I will use my spare time to inquire about the person you mentioned, but do you have anything to do with him? So that if I get in touch with him, I can convey your meaning to him, and in addition, can you introduce Chinese culture? I am very interested in Chinese culture, but the last time I stayed in China was too short, I haven't had time to understand Chinese culture, just walked around in a hurry, I hope you can help me understand your mysterious culture better." ”

Most foreigners say that they want to understand China, they want to understand China's mysterious culture, in fact, it is not mysterious, but Chinese dynasties have the practice of official history books, and many things can be handed down in written form, so that a very long history and culture have naturally formed, and it is this historical culture that makes Chinese culture a little different from other cultures.

"If you want to understand Chinese culture, you can take a look at relevant books, the book of 5,000 years of China is good, you can take a look, there should be English translations abroad. "A book recommended by Su Xing to Lena, this book is very helpful for people who want to understand Chinese culture initially, no need for in-depth understanding, in general, a systematic understanding of Chinese history and culture is enough, "If you want to have a more specific understanding, you can come to China, I will take you around and feel the history and culture of China firsthand." ”

Our ancestors left us many things, some of which are dross, but some of which are still practical today.

Monarchs, ministers, fathers, sons, this is the dregs of history, it is the idea of monarchy, but filial piety, friendship, and humility are worth learning and retaining.

There are two sides to everything, and a one-size-fits-all denial is not good, and the best thing is to get rid of the bad and keep the essence.

"I really appreciate Andy Rubin, he develops some interesting software, I think I can work with him on some projects, but I'm in China, and I'm a foreigner for him, it's not very easy to contact him, if you can get in touch with him on my behalf and convince him, I would be very grateful to you. ”

Wake up and want Andy Rubin and his Android!