Chapter 481: Educational Issues
After Lin Jiao went home, it was time for Ding Ting to return to normal work.
Since there is a nanny at home to take care of, every once in a while, he still has to go over to Fang Ruoxi to see him and the child.
In the end, he hasn't completely fallen out with him yet, and he still needs to maintain the appearance of a good husband and father.
Fang Ruoxi was naturally very happy to see him and the child when he saw him, but as soon as he heard that Lin Jiao was not completely well and needed careful care, he knew that Ding Ting couldn't come to see her and the child every day.
There must be a gap in his heart, but when he thought that Lin Jiao was Ding Ting's biological mother after all, no matter how fierce and stiff they quarreled before, after all, they were a mother and son who were connected by flesh and blood, and it would be a lie to say that they didn't care.
"I don't care, it's better for you to take care of your mother. ”
Although I was not happy in my heart, I still had to say this.
Ding Ting can show the actions of a qualified husband, and as his wife, he naturally has to show his wife's generosity and understanding.
Ding Ting knew that in order to maintain his face, he would not compete with Lin Jiaoming for favor, so he already knew the answer from the beginning.
"Then it's hard for you to take care of the child alone during this time, if anything happens to the child, you can remember to remind me as soon as possible. I'm going to take care of my mom at home now, but anyway, it's the children's affairs that matter. ”
Ding Ting's words were full of children, but he was reluctant to mention Fang Ruoxi, how could Fang Ruoxi not feel uncomfortable in her heart?
But no matter how uncomfortable he felt in his heart, he could only endure it.
Who let this child be related to Ding Ting, and he is just his wife.
"Okay, I'll take care of your girl. ”
Fang Ruoxi already wanted to suppress the unhappiness in his heart, but the tone of his voice still betrayed himself.
Ding Ting heard the unhappiness in his tone, but he just pretended not to hear it, but after he said this, he got up and prepared to leave.
Fang Ruoxi saw him get up suddenly, picked up his mobile phone and put it in his trouser pocket, and immediately guessed that he was about to leave.
He immediately panicked, thinking that the tone of his voice made him angry, and quickly stood up as well.
"You're leaving?"
He looked at him uncertainly, hoping that he would deny his answer.
But Ding Ting originally planned to come over and leave, and after hearing his words, he simply answered him directly.
"Yes, I have to go back and see, although there is a nanny at home to take care of it, but it's not better than my own son, I still have to go back and get started by myself." ”
Aunt Chen, who came this time, did not say anything neatly, and the nutritional combination of the meals was also very good.
He has only been at home for two days, and Lin Jiao's face is already much more rosy than when he came out of the hospital.
It shows that in the past two days at home, Aunt Chen has taken very good care of Lin Jiao.
It stands to reason that he doesn't have to go back, but he doesn't want to stay and eat with Fang Ruoxi.
So take advantage of this opportunity to slip away if you can.
"But you've just arrived, why don't you sit back and watch the kids before you leave?"
Fang Ruoxi mentioned the child and wanted to use the child to keep him again.
"Isn't the child following the teacher's lesson? I don't know when it will end, but I still don't delay. Wait until the next time you have time to play with the kids. ”
He was so opposed to sending early education classes to his children, but Fang Ruoxi still found a nanny similar to an early education teacher for his children behind his back.
Isn't he clearly doing it against himself?
So it's okay that Fang Ruoxi doesn't mention the child, but when she mentions the child, Ding Ting doesn't want to stay longer.
Originally, he was thinking about spending more time with his children before the divorce, so that the children could enjoy the taste of their father's still existence.
It's good for him, it's okay to arrange a teacher for the child, and he can't see the child when he comes over.
He came here twice in a row, and both times the children were in class, and he didn't know what such a young child had to learn.
Speaking of this, he was angry in his heart.
After saying this, he didn't wait for Fang Ruoxi to keep him anymore, so he went out directly.
That night, when Fang Qian went home, Fang Ruoxi couldn't help but complain to his father about it.
"You deserve it. ”
Although Fang Qian knew that Ding Ting would leave without even eating, it might be because of Lin Jiao's matter.
But when it came to the child's affairs, Fang Qian also felt that Fang Ruoxi was too hasty.
"How young is the child now, you find a teacher for him every day, let him learn day by day. Now you know that you are complaining to me that people don't want to stay, so you should give people a chance to spend time with their children. That's right, two times, the children are in class. Why are you still letting the family stay? He should have gone back and taken care of his car accident. This is not for the sake of the child's face, so he came over on purpose. You really think it's because she has a harmonious relationship with you, and he can't live without you, so he came here for a special trip. What is the relationship between the two of you now? Don't you count it yourself?"
As an outsider, Fang Qian always saw more clearly than Fang Ruoxi.
He knew that even if Ding Ting really wanted the other party to be good, the relationship between them was not stable.
He knows that feelings need to be cultivated slowly, and they can't be generated overnight.
So when he heard that Lin Jiao had nothing to do to provoke the relationship between the two of them, he would let people teach Lin Jiao a lesson.
Although he didn't like Ding Ting's son-in-law very much, now he finally saw that he was finally able to accept his daughter and granddaughter.
She also wants her girl to live a happy life with her husband, and he doesn't want anyone to ruin his girl's married life.
He is constantly helping his girl to remove all kinds of obstacles in her married life, and he is good to himself, and he has nothing to do with Ding Ting.
Then who is not to blame for this?
I told him at the beginning that I can't be in a hurry about my child's education, I can't be in a hurry, but he doesn't believe it.
If you don't believe it, you have to find a tutor to teach your children at home.
This Ding Ting likes children more than he likes him, he can't accurately recognize this, and he has to use the excuse that he is for the good of the child to fight him openly, this Ding Ting is not angry to have a ghost.
He was angry now, but Fang Qian felt that Ding Ting had no ghosts in his heart.
Otherwise, he should play a full set of acting, even if Fang Ruoxi disagrees with him, he should express his support, and he will not leave directly angry like today.
Fang Ruoxi really didn't expect that even her father would say this about herself.
Is it really wrong for him to want to be good for the child?
"It's not that you're wrong if you want to be good for your children, it's that you're imposing your needs on your children and depriving them of a happy childhood that they deserve, and it's intolerable. ”
Fang Qian knew that Fang Ruoxi was because he saw his friends, and the children in the family hired teachers at a young age, and they could behave more than ordinary children at a young age, and he felt a little unhappy at this mother's level, and always felt that his children were lagging behind, so he would find all kinds of ways to improve his children.
He was right, but why didn't he want to think about how old the child was?
The child is not yet a year old, only 10 months old, and he must now be pressured by the teacher to study every day.
Let's not talk about what the teacher taught him all day long, such a young child is the time for nature to be released.
As a parent, not only does not cooperate with the child, but also finds a cage for the child, which does not look like it is for the good of the child.
Besides, in this matter, he and Ding Ting had already quarreled before, and there was the only time he had a falling out after getting married, and he hadn't learned his lesson, so he had to provoke others again and again.
If Ding Ting could bear it, Fang Qian really had to wonder if he really had peace of mind and wanted to live with his girl for the rest of his life.
He was able to go from not even wanting to see him in person at the beginning, to now coming to see her and the child almost every day.
Fang Qian felt that Ding Ting had already acted very well even if he was acting.
In this case, Fang Ruoxi can still make Ding Ting so angry that he turns his face with him, which means that this matter has really touched his bottom line.
"Am I really wrong?"
Fang Ruoxi still can't figure it out, he has always thought that he is just for the good of the child, how can he become an obstacle to the child's childhood in the mouth of Ding Ting and his father?
"It's not that you're wrong, it's that you're too eager for quick success!"
Fang Qian knew that he had fallen into a circle now, and it was difficult for him to get out easily.
He didn't expect him to immediately understand why he would stand on the united front with Ding Ting in the matter of children's education, but he felt that he was already an adult, and now that he had children, some things should be taken care of by himself, and he should think about it carefully, instead of being as reckless as when he was young.
"I ......"
Fang Ruoxi looked at Fang Qian, not knowing how to answer for a while.
He really didn't know that he had found a teacher for his child, which would not only make Ding Ting angry with himself, but also let his father teach him like this.
"So what do I do now?"
He was stunned for a long time, and there was no solution in his head.
When Fang Qian saw him like this, he couldn't help but sigh.
"Now that it's happened, there's no way you're going to get rid of the teacher all of a sudden. Now that the child is getting used to the presence of the teacher, the previous education can continue.
It's just a child, after all, it's still young, and you don't have to ask for too much.
If you want to learn this, you can stop at the right time.
Just like today's incident, since Ding Ting said that he was coming, then you can't have to let the teacher take the child to study while he is coming, you have to let the child free up this time so that he can play with his father.
After all, he is still young now, although the two of you can't live together, people can run here every day, you have to give people a chance to get in touch with their children.
You can't deprive people of all the opportunities to come into contact with their children, what do you make him think?"
Fang Qian patiently explained to Fang Ruoxi once again that he also hoped that the married life of the two of them would go smoothly.
At least he doesn't have that much to worry about.
"I'll think about it. ”
It was difficult for Fang Ruoxi to change his concept for a while, it was definitely impossible for him to change this concept immediately, Fang Qian knew this in his heart.
"Think about it yourself, you and the child, who is more important in Ding Ting's heart.
You have to think about it, are you willing to fall out with Ding Ting for this little thing, and there is a crack in your relationship.
I am still willing to use the child to cultivate a good relationship with him, so that I can live a long life in the future. ”
Fang Qian's words have come to this point, if Fang Ruoxi still doesn't understand, then he really has no tricks.
It was because Fang Qian had told Fang Ruoxi so much that when he returned to his bedroom at night, he thought about it carefully.
Early the next morning, Fang Ruoxi saw the time before going to work, so she hurriedly called Ding Ting.
One of the main reasons he called him was to tell him about the decision he had made last night.
"After talking to my father yesterday, I also felt that I was too anxious about my child's education, so I decided to reduce my child's study time from now on, and I will no longer pressure him to study like before. ”
Ding Ting received a call from Fang Ruoxi early in the morning, and he was a little anxious.
What he was afraid of was that something had happened to the child that he would call him so early.
Who knew that as soon as the phone was answered, she was telling herself about her child's education.
"You called me early in the morning, and I thought the child was sick again. ”
Ding Ting first said this to him in a little anxious manner, and then let out a long breath and relaxed his tone.
"Actually, when it comes to children's education, I have always felt that we don't communicate enough.
I want to give my child a relaxed childhood, and I think that if you find a teacher for him too early, it will make him tired.
Of course, I also know that you must be looking for a teacher for your child so early, and it must be for the child's good.
In fact, I should also understand you about this matter, and I shouldn't fall out with you because of the child's education, so you should also forgive me for being reckless. ”
Fang Ruoxi, who has always insisted on her own opinion, will suddenly call herself and admit her mistakes, which is mostly Fang Qian's function.
Since he has said soft words to himself to go down the stairs, why can't Ding Ting get off the donkey down the slope and make this matter so matched.
"Well, I just want to tell you that I still let him stay at home if the teacher says it, but about this study and education time, I won't ask the child like before. ”
To put it bluntly, he only gave up half a step.
Hearing his words, Ding Ting couldn't help but roll his eyes on the other end of the phone.
"Okay, listen to you. ”