Chapter 123: Stance is based on self-kindness
Not long after Shi Tao returned to the office from Hu You, Shao Ganggui came to look for him.
"If someone comes to block the door again, don't bother with them and see how long they can block. The more you pay attention to this kind of person, the longer his face will be, and the more difficult it will be to serve. Ignore them and withdraw. ”
Shao Ganggui stood in front of Shi Tao with his chest folded, his face tightened, and he looked seven dissatisfied and eight unangry, as if Shi Tao was the builder who collected debts.
"It's not appropriate to do that, after all, it's blocking our door, it's too inconvenient to enter and exit, it's not good-looking, it's too embarrassing. Ignoring them, it seems that we are too stingy, and there is no deep hatred, just an account, there is no need to let the family eat closed. ”
Shi Tao really didn't understand why Shao Hougui wanted to take that kind of attitude of ignoring it.
He took out a cigarette and handed it to Shao Ganggui, but Shao Ganggui refused to smoke.
Shi Tao lit himself, sat back in his chair, and looked at Shao Ganggui, who was pacing around in the office with his chest and belly folded.
"You don't understand this, to deal with this kind of people who use improper means to collect debts, you have to use extraordinary means, and you can't use violence to counter violence in this. But there is a kind of cold violence, which does not have an effect in a short time, and they will soften after a long time. ”
Shao Huogui seems to have his own set of methods for dealing with this kind of headache, but Shi Tao really doesn't understand and doesn't agree.
"After all, our company is at a loss, although we don't need to keep our voices down, but people always have good words when they come. Shi Tao felt that he should be friendly to others.
"I've dealt with this kind of thing a lot, you haven't experienced it. People are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden. The more friendly you are, the weaker they think you are, the tougher they are, and things are harder. If you want to be tough, they will naturally soften. ”
Shao Ganggui stopped pacing, his eyes narrowed, and he looked very experienced.
Shi Tao snorted, and then smoked a cigarette, he couldn't understand Shao Huogui's approach.
Shao Ganggui saw that Shi Tao no longer paid attention to him, and went out of the office to find Hu You.
Bai Ling has been sitting next to the computer, since Shao Ganggui came in, she has not coded and chatted anymore, she seems to be sitting there quietly, but in fact, she has only been listening to the conversation between the two people with her ears stunned.
"Manager Shao's attitude is diametrically opposed to yours, there may be a more clever method, maybe it works, but it's quite profound, I can't guess. Seeing that Shao Ganggui had already left, Bai Lingcai turned around and said to Shi Tao.
"Different stances will lead to different ways of dealing with problems, and there are some simple ways that may be more effective, but I am ashamed of them. If the leader really adopts his method, there is nothing we can do, and there is no need to worry about that. Don't think about it so much, let's do our job. ”
Shi Tao snuffed out the cigarette butt in the ashtray.
"Yes, the company's major affairs are naturally worried by the leaders, let's do our ready-made work, why do you want to do so much. With that, Bai Ling turned around and continued her QQ chat.
Shi Tao saw that the time was almost over, so he didn't continue to work, but sat there in a daze.
He was thinking that maybe what Shao Ganggui said made sense, but he just couldn't do it.
After work, Bai Ling left, Shi Tao just got up to go to dinner, and Chen Qian came.
"Oh, you're so busy! You don't have time to pay attention to me. Okay, if you don't go to see me, I'll come and see you, how about you not being tired, right?" Chen Qian joked with a smile as soon as she entered the room.
"No matter how busy I am, I've experienced it, it's not bad to be tired, I'm an iron-clad Xiaoqiang. Didn't I go to the laboratory to see you two days ago? Why don't I go to see you?" Shi Tao felt that Chen Qian was wronging him.
"You called me to look at me, you went to the laboratory, you talked to everyone, you talked a lot, only said two and a half sentences to me, as if I was dispensable, stayed in the house for less than two minutes and left. ”
Chen Qian seemed to mean that Shi Tao didn't take her seriously.
"You said that there is a big room of people, if I don't care about anyone, and talk to you quietly there alone, how do I think that the occasion is not appropriate, it is better to ignore you more comfortably. ”
Shi Tao said what he really felt in the laboratory.
"Oh, I understand, I want to ignore me, I'm superfluous, secondary, inconspicuous, insignificant, dispensable, or don't need to exist at all.
"There's no need to exist, it's in the way, it's in the way, it's awkward to look at me, you don't want to look at me, you don't bother to pay attention to me, then I'm still full to see what you're doing?"
Chen Qian said it with a smile, and nodded from time to time, as if to affirm her words.
"I can't guess the needle in a woman's heart, I have nothing to say. Do you want me to make our relationship open in the company?
"In that case, not to mention in front of a dozen people, even in front of hundreds of people in the whole company, I dare to talk to you, not quietly, I can take a tweeter and shout at you, are you willing to listen?"
Shi Tao felt that Chen Qian had misinterpreted his meaning, so he did the opposite.
"I do! I very much. As long as you dare to say it, I dare to listen, I'm afraid that you are just talking here, you don't dare to do that!
"Well, I'll be out in a moment! Oh, I'll say something, let me brew the words first. ”
As soon as Shi Tao heard Chen Qian beating the snake with the stick, she was going to talk about herself, so she used the excuse to think of words, shaking her head and ignoring Chen Qian.
"What do you say? What will you say? What are you shouting? Give me a rehearsal here, and I'll listen. Shi Tao's embarrassment made Chen Qian even happier.
"I just said, I, Shi Tao, want to marry Chen Qian in this ravine, in the company's dormitory, as my second wife, I hope you will give me a share, give me congratulations, I invite everyone to eat candy!"
"Hahahaha! You just want to marry me so casually, it's too beautiful! Qin Feng married me, and I have to buy a suite in the county seat. Are you marrying in this ravine, or in the company's dormitory, what do you want?
Chen Qian was amused by Shi Tao and laughed.
"Don't you think I don't look at you? We're going to live in a dormitory, and I look at you every day, and I annoy you. Shi Tao didn't laugh.
"Oh, why can't you help but tease you? I know you're busy, and I know that you care about my face, and you don't want people to gossip, be careful. ”
Chen Qian restrained her laughter, spoke much softer, and was slightly coquettish.
"Don't look at you doesn't mean I don't want you, it doesn't mean I don't care about you, you're not studying now, I don't want to bother you too much, you can learn your practice with peace of mind, and when the time comes, you will strive to pass the exam once and fulfill your dream." ”
Shi Tao said solemnly.
"I understand, I just miss you, come up and take a look, you have nothing to say, you're good, take it seriously. Oh, a more real person is actually a real person, too kind. Alas, today I saw you bringing water to the man at the door, and I can see that you are too kind-hearted. ”
Chen Qian's gaze softened.
"I'm kind. Shi Tao pretended to respond stiffly.
"Yes, at first I thought you were just kind to me and behaved very kindly, but I found that you were very kind to your colleagues and many others. Including Qin Feng, you helped him a lot before I came, which shows that even if I am not here, you are still a good person who is willing to help. ”
Chen Qian continued to praise Shi Tao.
"Oh, what are you two talking about such a meaty thing? I'm a little embarrassed, how can it be so good!"
Shi Tao saw Chen Qian constantly lifting him, and felt as if she had something to say, but he was afraid of falling into the trap.
"My initial thought was, did you have a bad intention to be so good to me, and deliberately behaved to buy people's hearts, so that I would be willing to be grateful to Dade for his embrace, and then you will succeed. ”
Chen Qian suddenly shut up, staring at Shi Tao with good eyes, she wanted to judge whether what she said was right from Shi Tao's eyes.
"Alas, how can I listen to your inconsistencies, whether I am good or evil. If you think so, just think so, I'm just a ghost, ready to move, plotting against you, and in the end, all my wishes come true, and the villain has a will, okay?"
Shi Tao walked up to Chen Qian almost nose to nose, his gaze did not avoid Chen Qian's gaze from the beginning of speaking.
Chen Qian didn't dodge Shi Tao's approach, she was waiting, waiting for Shi Tao's further movements, she hadn't made love with Shi Tao for a long time, she seemed to be looking forward to it.
How could Shi Tao disappoint Chen Qian, he had endured it for a long time, stretched out his arms and hugged Chen Qian tightly in his arms.
Chen Qian leaned back and kissed him gently, she had closed her eyes, as if she was enjoying this warm moment, maybe she felt that this happy time with Shi Tao was getting less and less, and she cherished it very much.
Shi Tao's feeling was different, and he found that although Chen Qian took the initiative but was not enthusiastic, as if he was dealing with him, he gently pushed Chen Qian away.
Chen Qian immediately opened her eyes, looked at Shi Tao's incomprehensible eyes, and said, "What's wrong with you? Are you unhappy? Or go to my house tonight, and I will improve you." ”
Chen Qian wanted to comfort Shi Tao's stomach with delicious food, and then comfort his heart.
"Is it okay to go to your house?" What about Qin Feng?" Shi Tao suddenly remembered that he didn't seem to see Qin Feng today.
"I'll tell you quietly, he's back to the county seat again. Did you say it's okay to go to my house?" Chen Qian chuckled, she really wanted to see how Shi Tao reacted.
"Oh, I understand, you are lonely, your husband is not thinking about a wild man at home!" Shi Tao finally understood that Chen Qian came to him, it turned out to be premeditated.
"You're just looking for a wild man!"
Chen Qian's pink fist kept hitting Shi Tao, and Shi Tao hurriedly dodged. Chen Qian's skills are so agile, where can Shi Tao dodge, and the small fist rained down on Shi Tao's back.
Shi Tao shouted while dodging, "I'm not a wild man, the wants to murder her husband, help!" and circled around the open space of the office.
The two played and played for a moment before they quieted down, "Are you going or not?" Chen Qian asked again.
"Go, of course go, whoever doesn't go is a wild man. Shi Tao deliberately said with a tense face.
This attracted another heavy punch from Chen Qian, and Shi Tao let out an "ah". "You're also a wild man. Chen Qian said with a grit of silver teeth.
"Well, the wild man is hungry and wants to eat. ”
So Shi Tao and Chen Qian walked to the rental house in the town. He said to ask Chen Qian to fry a meat dish for him, and he was going to open the meat tonight.
This attracted Chen Qian with a heavy hammer, remember to eat or not!