"Let me ask you something, is that Yang Qiong your old lover?" Chen Qian also wanted to understand the relationship between Shi Tao and Yang Qiong.

"Do you want to hear the truth or nonsense?" Shi Tao didn't know why he wasn't shocked when he heard Chen Qian ask him like this, as if it had nothing to do with him.

"Whatever you want, I'll listen to whatever you want. Chen Qian knew that it was meaningless for her to say anything, it depended on Shi Tao himself, and it was useless for him to say it if he didn't want to.

"Well, I'll tell you, she's not my old lover, she's my first love. Shi Tao told the truth.

"Oh, I said, your first love must be unforgettable, no wonder you care so much about her. All of a sudden, Chen Qian seemed to understand a lot of phenomena and confirmed her guess.

"Do you think what I'm saying is the truth, or is it nonsense?" Shi Tao asked Chen Qian with a smile.

"Whatever you say, I choose to believe it. Chen Qian didn't care about the truth of this kind of words with him.

"What you believe is true. Shi Tao said.

"Does Shang Mei know about your relationship?" In fact, Chen Qian was more concerned about Shang Mei's attitude towards Yang Qiong, and she also wanted to know Shang Mei's opinion of her through these.

"I know, before I met Shang Mei, she knew about my relationship with Yang Qiong, not only her, but the whole factory. Our relationship is public, lovers, nothing unpleasant. But we didn't end up together, and in the end we became a family with Naomi. Shi Tao said frankly.

"Oh, I can't complain, I said how the two of them get along so well. However, Naomi's performance yesterday seemed to be very jealous. Chen Qian smiled.

"Yesterday, Shangmei didn't eat Yang Qiong's vinegar, she was eating your vinegar. Shi Tao corrected.

"What's the matter, she knows the relationship between the two of us?" Shi Tao's words surprised Chen Qian.

"She didn't know, she was guessing, she said that she saw the eyebrow flirt between the two of us, including you using my phone. I say that this alone doesn't explain anything. She's relatively innocent, she can't think of that much, but even if she thinks about it, it doesn't matter, she even knows......"

Shi Tao seemed to feel that he was going to leak his mouth, so he quickly stopped.

"What else does she know?" Chen Qian seemed to hear something.

She seems to know that I still think about Yang Qiong. Shi Tao told Chen Qian and Pan.

"Why did you even tell me this?" Chen Qian wondered.

"I'm telling you, I don't want to hide anything from you. I found that I can talk about everything with you, and I have no secrets in front of you. Shi Tao said frankly.

"yes? I'm honored to hear you say that. Chen Qian became excited, "What else do you want to tell me?"

"Look, I told you about my wife before, and now I'm telling you about my relationship with Yang Qiong. For Yang Qiong, at most, it means about my wife, even if she doesn't say it, she knows, I won't mention you to her. For my wife, about you, about Yang Qiong, I avoid talking about it. As much as she would love to know, I certainly wouldn't say. Shi Tao said.

"That's for sure, who is stupid to discuss their first love with their wife, and have nothing to do to discuss their lover. This kind of thinking is very normal, and I am afraid that I will not be able to hide it if I want to hide it. If you say it openly, it's really a brain in water. Chen Qian smiled.

"Actually, I mean, I don't have a mental barrier to talking to you about anything. And when talking to Yang Qiong, I seem to have some scruples, of course, Shangmei. ”

Shi Tao said how he felt in his heart, and he was using his attitude towards these three women to measure the status of these three women in his heart.

"Are you struggling and feeling like you're on the verge of danger? Chen Qian stared at Shi Tao's eyes, as if she wanted to see something in his eyes.

"This kind of struggle is actually very hard, you help me with a counselor, give me a good idea, how to get along with you well, so that I can be at peace of mind. ”

Shi Tao also said casually that it was impossible to deal with this kind of relationship, and he wanted to be safe.

He thought that he would definitely make a decision in the future, and as for how to make a decision, he couldn't decide now.

"Alright then, I'll teach you a lesson today, too. For theorists like you, I won't reason with you, I'll just tell you a simple story. Chen Qian smiled.

"Oh, you still have a story to tell, I'm listening. Shi Tao was interested.

"You can talk to a stranger on the train. You don't know anything about this stranger, neither his name, nor his address, or even his identity, and certainly he doesn't know everything about you. But by chance, you can have a long conversation. ”

"What are you talking about?"

You can confide in him and talk to him about all your troubles, including career, family, emotional, etc. You just use it as a trash can and pour out all the garbage in your heart. Do you think you can do this?" Chen Qian asked Shi Tao rhetorically.

"There's a chance I'll do that. Shi Tao pondered for a moment and felt that what Chen Qian said made sense.

This is because even if this stranger knows all your unbearable, he will not affect you, he will not interfere with you, and he will not have the slightest negative impact on your future work, study and life. Because you broke up quickly, you each have your own life circle, and your life circle does not intersect. That's why you don't have a mental burden to talk to him. Chen Qian continued.

"Oh, there's some truth to your analysis. Shi Tao nodded, agreeing with Chen Qian's statement.

"For your colleagues, classmates or friends, to be precise, the people around you, the people you often deal with, but they are not your close friends, so what would you tell them about your family and even some personal ideals?"

Chen Qian seemed to want to say another truth, and even more wanted to cause Shi Tao to think.

"I won't, because I don't think I need to tell them. Shi Tao said.

"It's not that you don't have to tell them, you don't want to tell them. When you talk to them, maybe you say it very happily, they may want to hear it, but maybe one day they will laugh at you, they will despise you, they will use this as a means to accuse you, ridicule you, or even belittle you, it will have a bad influence on you, and it will cause you a kind of psychological damage. ”

"Who wants to have their pigtails held by someone else?"

"In order to avoid this kind of harm, you simply don't tell them, that is, you don't need to tell them. In fact, psychologically speaking, this is a kind of self-protection of people. Chen Qian analyzed the situation to Shi Tao again.

"I didn't expect you to analyze things quite thoroughly, and you really made such a sense. Listening to your words is better than reading a book for ten years! I have benefited a lot, and I will continue to do so. Shi Tao listened more energetically, and wanted to hear what Chen Qian had to say.

"Let me ask you again, especially if you have any sad things and bad news, of course, it is generally for yourself or your individual relatives, do you want your family to know? Do you want your parents to worry? Do you want your wife to be anxious?"

"Definitely not. ”

"Yes, you won't, your only option is to hide them, you can hide it for a day, you can drag it out for a day. In this way, they will not be anxious and frightened with you, you just want them to be at peace, and you would rather bear everything yourself. Chen Qian said again.

"That's true, it seems that all people will do this, or that anyone who knows something will make this choice, and he doesn't want to make his relatives afraid. Shi Tao fully affirmed Chen Qian's rhetoric.

"You agree with all three of the situations I just mentioned, then then again, these three situations also apply to the three of us women. Chen Qian said.

"What do you mean?" Shi Tao was stunned when he heard Chen Qian say this, he wanted to hear what Chen Qian was going to say.

"You won't talk about me and Yang Qiong to Shang Mei, which means that you are deliberately hiding it from her. You don't want her to be anxious and sad, and you don't want to have an open conflict between you, because she is your wife and your family, so Shang Mei is also your relative. Chen Qian said.

"It's true that she is my wife, and it is also true that she is my family, but I don't recognize her as my relative. Shi Tao retorted, as if he was anxious to clear up his close relationship with Shang Mei to Chen Qian.

"At the very least, you have to legally admit that she is your relative, and it is useless for you to deny it. ”

Chen Qian continued, "For Yang Qiong, of course she knows about your relationship with Shang Mei, but you won't mention the relationship between the two of us, which means that you don't want to talk to her, or you don't need to tell her what you say, because this may cause her suspicion, and it will become a talking point for the two of you in the future, which may be unfavorable to you." ”

Shi Tao felt that Chen Qian had seen through his heart.

In this case, Yang Qiong is like a colleague and friend, of course, you have a more intimate relationship, she is your lover. You just want to show the best of you in front of her, and hide the ugly side of the so-called dirty, which means that you will have reservations about her. ”

"Is that so?" Shi Tao said this, feeling that Chen Qian was really a roundworm in his stomach, and he couldn't hide anything from her.

"You see, you have almost nothing to say to me, your joys, your troubles, you have said nothing to me like beans poured from a bamboo tube, without concealment, and when you tell me, there is no psychological burden. Isn't it?" said Chen Qian.

"Yes. That's because I have a good relationship with you. Shi Tao seemed to feel that he was going to be fooled, so he quickly confessed.

"It's a good feeling, for sure, otherwise you wouldn't say anything. But one thing, precisely because you say everything to me, I'm like the stranger on the train I just talked about. ”

Chen Qian deliberately sank her face, stared at Shi Tao and stopped talking.

After listening to the story told by Chen Qian, Shi Tao made a comparison, as if her focus was here.

"No, you're not a stranger! I don't think of you as a stranger, how can the relationship between the two of us be strangers? Let me tell you, you just analyzed it, according to your logic, let me tell you my opinion. ”

Shi Tao saw that Chen Qian said that she was just a stranger to him, so he was a little anxious, so he hurriedly defended.

"Then you tell me about it. Chen Qian really wants to hear what Shi Tao has to say and how to refute it?

"Regarding the analysis of Shang Mei and Yang Qiong, we will not discuss them for the time being, they have nothing to do with us, I will only say the two of us. If you analyze from the fact that I have nothing to say to you, I treat you as an irrelevant stranger on the train, it is a misclassification. Do you know who a person can say to anything?"

"Stranger, as I said earlier. Chen Qian was puzzled.

"Actually, not everything can be said to strangers. I tell you, this man has nothing to say to himself, because he will not harm himself. Shi Tao said.

"Oh, there's a point in what you're saying. Chen Qian seemed to understand a little, but it was still in the clouds.

"The relationship between the two of us is so close, closer than lovers to catch up with husband and wife, that is, I have already regarded you as myself. In my heart, you are me, I am you, and the two of us are one person, so I will say nothing to you, and I am not afraid that you will know all my secrets. So you're not a stranger, you're me, and we're the closest. Shi Tao was a little smug about his analysis.

"You are really a fallacious reasoning and heresy! You have completely overturned my judgment just now, and I have somewhat believed what you said. Well, as long as you don't treat me like a stranger. Chen Qian couldn't help but laugh happily.

Shi Tao was almost not surrounded by Chen Qian, and finally pulled back a game, one Chen Qian made it difficult for him to deal with, how did she maneuver between these three women?