Chapter 31: Self-Knowledge
Ou Baobao is really a child with a very big heart. After solving this seemingly big trouble, I closed my eyes and fell asleep instantly.
"........" left Yuze alone, his eyes widened and he didn't feel sleepy.
The instinct of human nature is self-interest. From the breathing, a very ordinary little thing, you can get a glimpse of the essence. And within a group of interests, there must be competition. The family, to a certain extent, is also a group of interests, and everyone has their own role and occupies a role in the family. When the two coincide, there will be thousands of complex family phenomena.
And who doesn't want to be the favored one?
Yu Ze understands these things very well, and he also understands the source of his sister's curiosity. Knowing that you are favored will definitely be happier. But this kind of happiness is vicious.
However, he did not want to tell her these facts at all. Part of it is because I don't want my sister to be at home, so I establish a sense of competition too early. The other part is Yuze's own selfishness.......
Once consciousness is formed, it is as if a seed has been planted. And whether this seed will grow into good or bad fruits, Yu Ze is not sure. My sister is kind and innocent, but she is still too young, besides, kindness and innocence do not mean that she will not be stimulated and hurt...... Yuze only hopes that the family will be happy...... When my sister is older, she can be more mature in her judgment, and when she thinks about this problem, she will have a more appropriate way to deal with it.
Because, my mother obviously prefers her sister the most. So is my uncle and aunt.
In this case, once the younger sister has a sense of self-consciousness and competition, then, whether it is him or Ono, will fall into a very bad family environment. Among them, naturally including my sister herself, and the biggest victim is precisely my sister.
Yuze will never allow such a situation to occur. Because he also prefers his sister....... He hopes that his sister will always be happy and happy....... It is true happiness and joy, not malignant transience.
Mom didn't directly tell her about her preference for her when she knew that she preferred her sister. I think I have the same idea as him.
Yu Ze thought about it, and realized in a trance that he seemed to have grown up a lot under the stimulation of his sister's inadvertent .......
The balance that my aunt asked him to find, perhaps, he has found - to see the big with the small, and to see the small with the big.
Just when Yu Ze was about to fall asleep in a daze, he suddenly found that a small gap had opened in the door, and his mother's figure seemed to flash by.......
"Are you eavesdropping at the door for a while?" In the afternoon, when he was fishing with his sister and brother, Yu Ze took the time to ask Ou Zhaozhao.
Ou Zhaozhao wore a big sunhat, drank a drink, and glanced at his eldest son, "Why am I eavesdropping...... "I'm listening openly!"
Yu Ze naturally heard another meaning in his mother's words, and rolled his eyes, "I said that it was me and my relatives and my treasure, you listened to it, what's the matter!!Don't listen to indecent things! Don't do this in the future!!" I love to do this eavesdropping on the corner.
Ou Zhaozhao didn't agree, but he also knew that he wasn't authentic, "Anyway, before you become adults, you can't!" She originally wanted to tell her son about the conversation with her daughter, but she didn't expect that her daughter was one step ahead of her, and then, she naturally wanted to eavesdrop.......
Yu Ze wanted to refute, but still didn't say anything. Underage...... In fact, my mother has been much more tolerant of them. It's like although they are still underage, as long as they go to primary school and begin to have a social situation that requires independence, they will have a part of the dividend from the family property every month, which can be used by them at will. He's been receiving it for five years. When my sister goes to elementary school, I'm going to start receiving it.
That's a lot of money. Completely at the discretion of the underage themselves.
When he took over the card and those agreements from his mother at the beginning of the school year, he thought that every family was like this. After he got to know other classmates with similar conditions to his own, he realized how cool their mother was......
Yu Ze thought about it, speaking of which, Uncle Lian Zhang and his wife expressed distress to him openly and secretly, that is, they felt that his mother was a woman who only had money and a new man in her eyes. There is not much love for his son. Even many of his classmates thought so. Because his mom doesn't attend his parent-teacher conferences very much.
Yu Ze, who is sympathized with by so many people, really only feels ridiculous.
None of them were him, nor were they his mother, so how could they know how he felt and what his mother thought? Only he knew how much his mother loved him and how much he loved this family. And most of the school's parent-teacher meetings are, in the eyes of my mother, unnecessary. Her son is not the focus of her whole life, let alone something she compares and talks about, she believes in her son, believes unconditionally, and loves her son more.......
Yu Ze was moving here, Ou Baobao suddenly ran over with a fish, and said to Ou Zhaozhao, "Mom, I suddenly remembered, I forgot to tell you, the young lady in the morning is called Zhanhuan, and she is Zhanyan's sister......
"........." Ou Zhaozhao was also enjoying the afternoon comfortably, and when he heard this, he directly squirted out a sip of drink.
When Yu Ze heard the name Zhanyan, he was stunned, is this the female classmate in his class that he is talking about?
Ou Baobao also just remembered it and forgot to tell his mother about it. I caught a fish, but before I had time to let go, I hurried over.
Huaiye followed behind and chased after him, "Sister, fish, fish!"
Ou Baobao hurriedly threw the fish out and threw it into the pool. Huaiye was stunned, laughed, and poured the two fish in his bucket into the pool.
"........" Yu Ze was speechless, a good pool of water was ruined like this...... Or, "There seems to be crayfish or something in the kitchen, you go and bring them in, let's compete in shrimp fishing, okay?"
Huaiye clapped his hands in agreement, and went to get it. Ou Baobao thinks that it is not easy to catch shrimp, but now the focus is not on this, "I have something important to say to my mother!!"
Ou Zhaozhao didn't really want to talk about Zhanyan in front of Yuze, and always felt as if he would assist Zhanyan. However, Yu Ze answered, "What's the important thing? The young lady you mentioned is Zhanyan's younger sister?The female classmate in my class, Zhanyan?"
Ou Baobao hesitated and nodded, "It's your female classmate, the one who doesn't look good." ”
Yu Ze laughed, "It's not unpretty, is it?"
Whether Yu Ze admits it or not, the result of the female members of the family being too good-looking really raised his standards for appearance a lot.......