The two of them came back at eight o'clock, and they couldn't see anything on the outside, and the key was that Qin Tongtong didn't use perfume, so Lin Manman couldn't see anything at all. Just for the first time, he pulled Qin Tongtong back to the room and asked about today's matter.

"Huh......" Chen Ming was lying in his bedroom, his clothes had been changed, this style of clothes, it is estimated that he will never wear them again in his life, it really does not fit his style.

stroked his lips, and there seemed to be Qin Tongtong's temperature still on them...... He knew it was his delusion, but subconsciously he would have such thoughts. Then I understood that after that kiss, something was different.

His bottom line is loosened, this is the first step of his compromise, and with the first step, then there will be countless steps.

"Then ......," Chen Ming turned over, "There are only two choices in front of me now, face the bottom line of continuous relaxation step by step, or directly set a threshold and reorganize my three views." ”

Only children are selected, and adults must adjust according to their actual situation. Rebelliousness and stubbornness are childish signs, even if he is not yet an adult, he feels that he has more experience than many adults in their lifetimes.

"Then, let's start!" Chen Ming didn't plan to relax the bottom line a little bit, every criminal actually relaxed his bottom line a little bit like this.

However, the bottom line is that there is actually a threshold, and in different eras, with different values, the lower limit of this threshold is also different. For example, he adhered to the threshold of the sixties, so the behavior just now has broken the bottom line.

First of all, list the values of the 90s, or the 00s of the new century, and then select some bottom lines that must not be touched, and then relax the bottom line that can be relaxed, and set three bottom lines of green, yellow, and red, and the red line is the threshold that must not be touched.

Green, which means that he will not actively try it now, but can try something, such as rock music or heavy metal. He can even try to drink alcohol when necessary, and yellow means passive, as long as the necessary conditions are met, then he can do it.

For example, he still adheres to the line of one girlfriend and one wife, but as long as Lin Manman agrees and others agree, he can associate and fall in love with multiple women.

In other words, under normal circumstances, I don't take the initiative to do that. When others suggest or instigate, he will not do it lightly. The so-called bottom-line management is actually the same thing.

It is said that the reason why people are human is to learn to restrain themselves, but to what extent they are constrained, this is the bottom line. If a person doesn't even know where the bottom line is, then maybe some red-line things will be thought to be green or yellow areas, and thus make mistakes in the real sense.

Therefore, to be born as a human being, you must first regularly review and organize your bottom line, and then remember where your bottom line is. You can't just say that you can become a successful person by doing that. But at least one, qualified, healthy person!

"It's a bit like exculpating myself......" Chen Ming sighed, he was not convincing at all.

Anyway, this thing is too subjective, and it depends on whether it works or not. Relying on one's own consciousness to restrain oneself, if this is really useful, then what else do you need the law and the police to do, a copy of the Analects is fine.

In fact, many times, this threshold setting is more like a kind of self-deception.

But don't deny that when you keep telling yourself every day where these bottom lines are, this language becomes a kind of self-hypnosis, and then convince yourself that this is the bottom line.

The magic of language is actually so magical, and many successful cases of Caimen are to give disciples a certain concept over and over again, and finally implant this concept in their brains.

What is the scariest thing about the rat club? It's not that it spreads quickly, but that all the members who join the rat club actually see the hope of success in it......

In other fields, such as Baihuamen, they will use this to train, those girls who are just starting out in the industry.

A shy little girl can become the head of the house, all she needs to do is say a hundred words to herself every day, and then assist all other rewards and punishments, and she can succeed.

"Alright, it's getting late, it's time to go. Chen Ming cleaned up, took a simple shower, and went to school.

Apparently they had missed the first class of the evening self-study, but there were still two classes left to make up for it a little. Li Siyuan is a very good vice president, she has been studying with Chen Ming for a year, and she has probably mastered the trick of group learning.

Although learning is also interesting, it is more of a mechanical and repeated study. In fact, test-oriented education is like this, and the study group says that it is quality education, which itself is more like it was born for test-oriented education.

"In the ...... of the great beautiful country," Chen Ming does not plan to teach today, he takes the country on the other side of the ocean as an example, "They have always advocated quality education, thinking that in this way they can give full play to their nature." This theory, even affecting our country, and even the government and education system, is to discuss quality education, which may become a mainstream in the future. ”

"Is there no exam-oriented education then?" Zhao Sheng asked excitedly.

"Unfortunately, test-oriented education is not going away, because the way to prove what you have learned is through exams. Chen Ming shrugged his shoulders, "What I want to say is that in fact, quality education is a scam!"

Elite education and happy quality education in the United States are two different concepts, and the rich go to private schools, where the learning is more rigorous than the third middle school, and there are more subjects, including multiple foreign languages.

But for the fast quality education of public schools, it is basically for you to play, enjoy the college life happily, and then through the club, see if you can find a field that can be developed in addition to learning.

It is not denied that some people are not naturally good at learning, but they are good at eating in other fields, but there are not many such people.

There is no reward without effort, and any elite knows this. No matter how talented he Chen Ming is, he has continued to study hard to get today's achievements, if he doesn't study from the beginning, no matter how good his talent is, it will be useless in the end.

"Then why do we need quality education? Zhao Sheng didn't understand.

"Because in recent years, the quality of the people has indeed begun to decline. Money worship, the idea of getting rich, the idea of laziness, and the idea of hedonism began to emerge. If we continue, there may be a qualitative change in the heritage of our nation, and the heritage of the nation, that is, the core ideology, will change, so ...... The Chinese nation is gone!" Chen Ming replied.

In fact, there is no need to fight a war to destroy the country and the species, but to transform others and control others in civilization and ideology, so that they can slowly forget the original traditions, spirit and civilization of their own nation, and they can also wipe out a nation internally.

"The state will definitely attach importance to quality education, but at least in five to ten years, this scale will definitely be out of control. Chen Ming reminded, "So I hope that no matter how the policy changes, everyone will study hard!"