Chapter 232: The Best Choice
And then something unexpected happens, and that's not what we want to see. We are all his closest friends, how serious is the patient? Dr. Lin, can you tell us in detail? We can look at the specific situation and consider whether or not to tell the old man or how to tell him. ”
At this moment, Tao Jingjing really calmed down, incredibly calm, and said to Lin Moyan. This state not only made Lin Moyan but also Xiao Xiao Xiche, Lin Musheng, and even Lin Ziyu were taken aback, especially Lin Ziyu, she thought that Tao Jingjing would really collapse.
Lin Moyan looked at this girl named Tao Jingjing with incredible eyes, he felt that this girl always gave himself an unexpected state, from the beginning when he first saw her, to a series of things that happened later, he thought that this girl could not accept this series of facts, but when facing things, this girl was brave and frightening, so he still decided to tell them the severity according to what he said, maybe as she said, it was the best choice.
"The patient's leg nerve is seriously damaged, even if we did a series of surgeries in a timely manner, but you also know that the nerve is not comparable to other strains or bone injuries, and some injuries are irreversible. So the most likely thing is that the patient will spend the rest of his life in a wheelchair. However, there is no other possibility, that is, rehabilitation training, if done well, the patient still has the possibility of recovery, but the process is painful and time-taking. In other aspects, the patient's kidneys are also seriously damaged, which will have a series of effects on his future kidney function, and even reproductive function. ”
"These are the two most serious situations now, and there is one that is the most difficult for patients to accept, so we still hope that the patient's family, especially the immediate family members, will understand these conditions first, and we still hope that the patient's family will be able to tell the patient enough to make all the preparations for the rehabilitation training in the future, and then be able to cooperate well. ”
Lin Moyan felt that he had made it clear now, and there was still a severity, and he had told these people completely, and he could be regarded as fulfilling the responsibilities that a doctor should fulfill, how could he choose himself in the future, and he felt that he could not change these status quo? Maybe some follow-up psychological construction, these problems will be done by himself, but he still hopes that the patient's immediate family can intervene, so he continued to say to Tao Jingjing.
"Although you are talking about this situation, the patient's family still hopes to be able to directly intervene, because only the patient's family can face these situations, some follow-up rehabilitation training, and some encouragement given by the family to the patient, are some of the most effective influencing factors for the patient's treatment, and friends may also play a certain role, but we still hope that the patient's family will directly face these things, so you can also consider how to let the patient's family directly understand these conditions? or face these conditions. Lin Moyan raised his hand and looked at his watch, "In about 20 minutes, the patient will wake up, what our doctors can do is to hope that the patient can directly understand the current situation, and then it will also have an impact on his psychological aspects in the future, so I hope that you, as family members and friends, can think clearly and understand the consequences." ”
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Watching Lin Moyan push open the door and walk into the ward, Tao Jingjing, Lin Ziyu, Xiao Xiche, and Lin Musheng stayed there in a daze, Tao Jingjing, who had the courage to face all this, was also in a mess in her heart at this moment, and she didn't know how to face this situation.
"Huahua, otherwise tell Grandma Lin, such a big thing happened to Yu Xiang, Grandma Lin has to know, otherwise for so many days, if Yu Xiang doesn't go back or call, she will also be worried, and when the time comes, tell her about this situation, it is estimated that she will not be able to accept it." ”
"But I'm afraid that Grandma Lin won't be able to accept it all of a sudden, and then she will get sick again, and Yu Xiang will be in this situation again, and Grandma Lin will be in the hospital again, and we won't be able to take care of it at once, I'll ......"
"But if we know later, isn't it easy for her to accept it? Or let her know about this situation earlier, or we will do it in some other way, or how about letting grandpa tell Grandma Lin?"
"My grandfather?"
"Yes, just now I asked my grandfather to call me and tell me, Grandpa Tao already knows about this matter, let the elderly tell Grandma Lin in the way of communication with the elderly, just let the wind and let Grandma Lin know that Yu Xiang is the most injured, and then we will slowly tell her, Yu Xiang will hide this aspect first, and ...... later"
"Can't hide it, this matter, especially can't be hidden, if you hide it now to do rehabilitation training in the back, or if there are some complications, so that the patient finds out about this series of things, it may be more difficult for him to accept, according to my thoughts, we still tell Yu Xiang the truth, Grandma Lin, it's best to tell her the truth." ”
"Yes, yes, I think what Zhou Hua said is very right, we had better tell Yu Yi the current situation at the beginning, so that she can prepare everything for future rehabilitation training, although she can't accept all this reality now, but if some complications in the rehabilitation process make him realize the seriousness of the matter and the impact on his future life, then he can't accept this fact, and even commit suicide, these situations we really encountered when we were in college before, Well, to Zhou Hua, we have a college classmate who is not like this, he had a car accident, his family hid it, and then let the patient think that he would get better soon, but after a series of subsequent rehabilitation training, she knew that her chances of being able to fully recover were very small, and then she couldn't accept this fact and committed suicide. ”
"What do you say? You killed yourself, your whole family killed yourself. ”
"Hey, I'm talking about a fact, we do have this situation, you ask Xi Che, as far as our college classmates are real, don't you raise the bar with me, I didn't mean to target Yu Yi, I'm just thinking about our current situation, the situation we are facing, we ......"
Lin Ziyu and Lin Musheng are like roosters with strong combat effectiveness, as soon as they touched, they began to fight, and no one spared anyone, and no one could let anyone say a word, which made Tao Jingjing, who was already irritable, unconsciously irritable, even more irritable, and said angrily to the two of them.
"Okay, okay, don't quarrel between the two of you, what kind of quarrel, if you quarrel again, get out of me. ”
As soon as Tao Jingjing spoke, the two of them silently shut up, but they looked at each other's eyes very unconvinced.
Xiao Xiche has been looking at the situation at the scene, in fact, he also wants to say what Lin Musheng said, but looking at Tao Jingjing and Lin Ziyu, they both looked disbelieving, only he knew that what Lin Musheng said was the truth, this was indeed a fact that happened between their college classmates, although he looked at the two of them, he still decided to say it.
"Huahua, in fact, what Mu Sheng said is indeed the truth, she is indeed our college classmates, we were also shocked at the time, at the beginning the classmates were also well-intentioned, and they hid it from her parents, we went to see her, and we didn't mention her injury, so that she also had the illusion that she could get better soon, but the patient was injured, and in the follow-up treatment process, she could actually feel the condition of her injury, and the illusion given to her by her family and friends made her even more unacceptable, so it was better for us to let Aunt Yu understand this situation, wait a minute, if you don't say it well, I will say it directly, tell Yu Yi the current situation and let him know the situation of his injury, his grandmother's matter, you look at the old man's physical condition, if it really can't work, let your grandfather breathe with her first according to what Ziyu said, and let her know that Yu Xiang was injured according to the old man's way, and then we will discuss with Yu Xiang in some follow-up processes, whether to let his grandmother know the specific situation, or not to tell her the facts, we respect Yu Xiang's choice. ”
As soon as Xiao Xiche finished speaking, the whole atmosphere fell into a dead silence again. In fact, they don't know how to deal with things, or how to face the current situation, maybe it's really not that the immediate family can't really experience this feeling now, but Tao Jingjing feels that she can understand this state from the bottom of her heart, but she also knows that she has no way to make decisions for Yu Xiang, or for Grandma Lin, she is also very distressed, do you want to tell Yu Xiang about the current situation? Or hide it first.
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"The sick man is awake, you can come in. ”
Wait, everyone fell into a dead silence, they were all distressed, and suddenly the ward opened from the inside again, and Lin Moyan's voice also came out.
"Yu Xiang woke up, really woke up?", Tao Jingjing still couldn't believe what she heard and asked Lin Moyan repeatedly.
"It's true that he's awake, and he's in a stable state now, you can go in and talk to him, but it's best not too long. And take care to keep the patient's mood stable. ”
"Okay, okay, got it, got it"
Tao Jingjing said that she was about to enter the ward, but Lin Ziyu grabbed her arm.
"What's wrong?", Tao Jingjing looked back and said with a very puzzled look.
"What are Huahua going to do? Do you want to tell Yu Xiang the truth? If he asks Grandma Lin, what will we say?", Lin Ziyu said to Tao Jingjing with a sad face.
Tao Jingjing looked at the hand holding her arm, and then looked at Lin Ziyu with a sad face, in fact, she didn't know what to do in her heart, how to deal with this matter, and added the words of Xiao Xiche and Lin Musheng just now, so that she had already made a decision.