"Then what are you going to do now?" The solution to the problem is in Hu Juan's hands, and Su Xing can only ask Hu Juan what he means, and Su Xing can't give too many opinions on the things between husband and wife.

Whether it is persuasion or persuasion to leave, it is not good to dissuade or dissuade, and the concept that it is better to demolish ten temples than destroy one is not right, but blindly persuading to leave when something goes wrong is not necessarily a good thing, and it still depends on the wishes of both parties.

Husband and wife are their own family, and the advice given by outsiders is not necessarily right, but can only provide reference, after all, it is the two of them who live together and face various problems in life.

"When I first went he didn't admit it, he said it was his colleague, and then I said I wanted to go to his place to see it, and he did everything he could to shirk it, and I felt a little wrong. Hu Juan said, "After I really went, I saw that there were women's change of clothes, toiletries, underwear on the bed, slippers on the bedside, and some cosmetics in the bathroom, no matter how stupid I am, I know that the two of them must have lived together for a while." And it's not short, maybe a year or two. ”

Su Xing listened quietly, what Hu Juan might need was not advice, but a listener. She is very blocked in her heart and needs to vent out.

"I called him before and asked him to go home for the New Year, but he didn't come back, I thought he wanted to make more money outside, buy food and clothes for our mother, and work hard for the family, but now I think about it carefully, in fact, he just wants to be with that woman and spend the New Year over there. Hu Juan laughed self-deprecatingly, and turned her head to look at Su Xing, "You suggested that I go over to find him at that time, did you already know that he had a woman outside?"

Su Xing shook his head: "I'm not a prophet, how can I not know the prophet, just guess, it's better to take a look in the past than to wait at home and be kept in the dark." ”

"You're right, if it weren't for your reminder, I would have been waiting at home stupidly, thinking about how hard it was for him to be alone in the field, and I must serve him well when he comes back. Hu Juan said, "I met him on a blind date, and we got married after knowing each other for a month." My family didn't ask him for any bride price, his family was poor. We used newspaper around our new house, and he gave my mother 300 yuan, and I secretly brought back another 200 yuan, and also took the money from my own work. Marry a chicken with a chicken, marry a dog with a dog, I don't care how poor he is, what I care about is that he has ambition. When I went on a blind date, he said something to me, which made me make up my mind to marry him, he said that we are indeed very poor now, but we will not always be so poor in the future, he will work hard, work hard, earn some money as capital in the first two years, open a small shop in the next two years to start a business, fry fritters in the town, sell steamed buns or sell vegetables, and life will definitely get better slowly. ”

"But what is the result? He has been working outside for so many years, and the matter of opening a shop has not been followed, I don't urge, after all, it is normal to encounter accidents, and he has indeed been working hard, but now he still has a woman outside. ”

Hu Juan wiped her tears, looked up at the roof, was silent for a while, and looked at Su Xing: "I plan to divorce him." ”

"Yes. Hu Juan made a decision and woke up to agree, "Just think about it yourself, think about how you should live after the divorce, and how your children should live." ”

"I've thought about all of this, I've been thinking about it since I came back from there, and I asked him the other day if he would like to come back and live a good life with me and my children, or continue to stay there, and he hesitated, which made my last feelings for him completely disappear. Hu Juan also struggled in her heart.

"You are less than 30 years old, you are beautiful, you don't worry about not meeting other men, instead of painful unions, it is better to completely break off, since you feel that you have no feelings, you can indeed consider divorce. Su Xing agreed with Hu Juan's idea.

It's really unnecessary to barely stay together without feelings, and there are still decades to go in the future, rather than looking uncomfortable with each other, it is indeed better to be completely clean.

Those who are willing to believe that they would rather demolish ten temples than destroy a marriage are either stupid women or foolish people or foolish things done by some institutions for political performance.

A girl was forcibly had a relationship by a high school student against her will, and these people actually mediated from it, saying that in order not to affect the college entrance examination of the beast, let the two parties reconcile privately, not only that, but also shamelessly advertised this matter as propaganda material, which is really stupid and bad, and has no conscience at all.

Many things are not necessarily the essence of the matter, but are guided for some purpose, and people have to learn to distinguish right from wrong in a lot of information, if they can't do this, at least they should not rush to make a decision, and immediately stand in line.

There are too many ugly things, and there are too many things that are easy to reverse, only by keeping a heart that eats melons can we not be easily fooled.

Women's ability to control this aspect is far inferior to that of men, and it is very rare for Hu Juan to be able to make up her mind to resist the pressure of public opinion and choose to divorce.

"Don't be too sad, it's just a divorce, it's better to find out that he's cheating now than to be kept in the dark, there are many other things to do in life, not just marriage. Su Xing saw that Hu Juan's face was much better, so he was a little relieved, "Rest early, I'll go back." ”

"Thank you for telling you these words, my heart is not so blocked. Hu Juan said to Su Xing.

"Some things are easy to get into trouble when you hold them in your heart, and it is indeed better to say them. Wake nodded.

"There are a lot of girls around you, will you be like this in the future, choose one and let down the other, or hide it and socialize with them at the same time?"

"I'm still young and I'm not in a hurry to make a decision. Su Xing said with a smile.

That's the benefit of being single.

Brother Cong is very smart in this regard, and he deserves his name.

Su Changlong bought a van, and on the day of the Qingming holiday, Su Changlong drove the van to the outside of the Awakening School.

When I woke up and got into the car, I was a little worried: "Can you drive?" I only got my driver's license for half a month, and I bought insurance, right?"

"The village chief's house used to have a tractor, and I drove around the village to press rice for people, but it was just a van, and it was very easy. Su Changlong was very confident, "I passed the driver's license once, and there were more than a dozen people who took the test with me, just me, these days I buy materials all over the city, and sometimes I have to go to Jiangcheng to buy goods, I drove it alone, there has been no problem, you can rest assured." ”

I woke up a little relieved, but I still reminded: "The car is not as good as anything else, if you are not careful, it is better to do enough insurance procedures, you can't drive if you are sleepy and drinking, it is easy to have an accident." ”