"Not lukewarm, you're not lukewarm at all, sometimes very cooperative. Su Xing whispered, and smiled at Tong Wangjun.

"You don't pay attention to the impact at all, there are still people in the car. Tong Wangjun pinched and woke up, "You can't be honest, let me ask you, did my father talk to you about my childhood?"

"Uncle Tong didn't talk to me much, just occasionally said, he said that he owes you a lot of money to your mother and daughter, because of work, always running around, in one place for a very long time, can not accompany you, especially you, when you were so young, he has to work outside, maybe go back two or three times a year, when you are still one or two years old, sometimes you don't necessarily recognize him when you go back, and then when you are older, sometimes you promise to go back at a certain point, for example, to accompany you for your birthday, and then for example, your academic performance is better, get good grades, but there is always a sudden thing that you can't go back, can't fulfill your promise。 "Every time I talk to him, he always has to tell me about this, and thanks me, telling me that I have made you a lot happier, and having me by your side can at least make you not so lonely." ”

Su Xing grabbed Tong Wangjun's hand: "In fact, people also have to understand each other, including between parents and children, it's not that parents don't love their children, it's really that parents have the responsibility of parents, he needs to support a family, so naturally he doesn't have so much time to do other things." ”

"When I was young, other people's parents were by my children's side, and I was always very envious when I saw it, thinking that why did my parents regard work as more important than me, and wouldn't they be able to stay by my side all the time if they didn't work?" Tong Wangjun also grabbed the hand that woke up, "I only thought after I saw you how naïve I was before, I was really much worse than you, and I was too demanding on my parents." ”

"After seeing me, did you wake up?" Su Xing was a little surprised by Tong Wangjun's answer, "What can I give you a sense of awakening?"

"I listened to Auntie, and Ran Ran said some things about your family, when you were young, your uncle was very disconsiderate of the family, and sometimes he was stupid, but you never blamed him, and you didn't say a cruel word to him. Tong Wangjun said, "Compared with you, I am really much worse." ”

"It turned out to be this. Su Xing smiled, "Ran Ran told you that my dad was deceived by others before, thinking that he had taken advantage of it, and ended up carrying a bag of sand back?"

Dong Wangjun nodded: "How could my uncle make such a mistake? The sand in the bag feels completely different from the copper wire in the bag, how can this be deceived by someone?"

"What's so strange about this, he thinks that other people's copper wire was obtained from improper means, and others also told him so, so he wants to complete the transaction early, thinking that he has made a lot of money, and when people are nervous, they may ignore anything. "To give a very simple example, usually if you hold a knife and see the knife cut your arm, you will feel very scary and very painful, but sometimes when you work on the construction site, you accidentally encounter a bump, and it will hurt a little, but the feeling is not so strong, and you may not even find that there is a wound on your body until you rest." ”

Obviously carrying a bag full of sand, but I didn't realize that the bag was filled with sand, not copper wire, which sounds unbelievable, and the IQ is a bit low, but in fact, there are a lot of such things.

Quantum fluctuation speed reading is one of them, the child holds a book and flips there, the pages are not opened, it is actually said to be speed reading, but what is even more strange is that some people believe it, and many parents also send their children to study.

It is said that the elderly are stupid, their heads are not bright, and they are easy to be deceived by scammers to buy health care products, but in fact, middle-aged people do not have a bright head, and they are also easy to be deceived when it happens in another scene.

It can only be said that they were not deceived just because the bystanders were clear, and once they entered the game and attached great importance to their children's learning, they would fall for the scam of quantum fluctuation speed reading.

The other is to measure IQ through fingerprints, I met such a person when I woke up in my previous life, the child's parents are very young, less than 30 years old, and the child is about three years old, and he is about to enter the kindergarten class.

Some people claim to be able to measure the child's talent, it costs 2000 yuan, so the parents took the child over, it stands to reason that the child's talent was analyzed through the topic or various instruments, and the result is just to record the child's fingerprints, and then through computer analysis, to measure the child's talent.

The parents also believed it and honestly paid 2,000 yuan.

Su Xing laughed after hearing about this, and measured his talent through fingerprints, isn't this as absurd as measuring love by constellations?

Throw 2,000 yuan to get this, it's better to look at the child's head at home.

"Do you know why I'm not angry?" asked Tong Wangjun.

"It's because your uncle is also your father no matter what he says, as a son, you can't blame your father, after all, he raised you and paid a lot. Tong Wangjun thought for a while and added, "And he is not to blame for this matter, he originally wanted to make money, but he was accidentally deceived, and he was not wrong from the original intention." ”

"There are some reasons for this, but not all of them are true, I am not angry because I know his character, he is like this, he is more satisfied if he has food to eat and a house to live in, and he can't do other things, and he doesn't have the ability to do it, so it's not necessary to be too harsh. Su Xing said, "Everyone's outlook on life and values are different, there is no need to force what others do." ”

"Some people are very satisfied with three or four thousand yuan a month, and they will be able to set up a home in a small county town in the future, accompany their parents, and when their parents are old, he can take a hand nearby, and his life is very perfect to go on like this. ”

"Some people dislike small county towns, feeling that the supporting facilities of small county towns are not as good as big cities, and if they want to go to big cities like Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, their monthly salary of three or four thousand yuan may not even be enough for their rent, let alone provide a good standard of living, at least one or two thousand yuan a month's salary, or even more. ”

"In addition to these two types of people, of course, there are other people, but it is nothing more than a different concept, the attitude towards life is different, who is right and who is wrong, there is no clear rule, those who agree with the life of a small county town feel that the pressure on themselves should not be so great, food, clothing and housing do not worry, children can also go to school in the future, there is no need to force too much, he has gained a sense of happiness in today's life, too much pressure will only strain people's nerves, will not be happier. ”

"Those who do not agree with the life of a small city feel that those who stop at the life of a small city are not self-motivated, they are not angry, they want a better life, they want to develop in a big city, they want to buy a house in a big city, their hukou falls in a big city, and they feel that the medical education and living environment in big cities are better than those in small counties. ”

"So you think your uncle is a person who is content with the status quo, so he doesn't have too many requirements for him?" Tong Wangjun said.