Chapter 261: Less is good
Ma Guoqiang rowed away, stood on the shore and looked at it, and shouted at Ma Guoqiang again: "Remember to call me if you have anything." ”
"Okay, I see, you can go back quickly. Ma Guoqiang turned around and shouted.
Wake looked at the lake full of dead fish again, sighed, and turned to walk back.
Before I got home, I ran into Yu Jie on the way, Yu Jie seemed to have come to look for Su Xing on purpose, but when she saw Su Xing, she didn't continue walking: "Someone poisoned someone in the lake?"
"Poisoned. Su Xing nodded and turned around, "Look at that white expanse, it's all dead fish." ”
"It's going to be the New Year soon, and it will be able to sell for money in a month or two, and someone actually does such a thing at this time, who is it, do you know?" Yu Jie also saw it.
"If you call the police, as long as the police are concerned, they will naturally be able to find out. Su Xing said.
There is no surveillance by the lake, but as long as the police investigate the poisoning carefully, they will definitely be able to find out who did it, which is nothing more than spending some more time and energy.
The poisoner will definitely not go too far to buy pesticides, that is, in a few nearby towns, there are only a few pesticides sold in the town, one by one to ask, this will not be the season when pesticides are used badly, there are few pesticides to buy, and some clues will definitely be found.
"Do you want to go over and have a look?" asked Yu Jie.
"But it's gone. Yu Jie shook her head, "I came here to look for you, thank you." ”
"The matter of the fine at home is settled?" asked Su Xing.
"It's solved, but you still have to pay a fine, it's just not as much as before. Yu Jie nodded, "The people who came to my house before also personally brought the fruit over to apologize to my parents." ”
This is the case in a humane society, within a certain range, the flexibility of laws and regulations is very large, and at this time it mainly depends on the relationship between people.
The same is a fine, the standards are different from place to place, not only from place to place, even if it is a place and a village, the standards may be different, if you have a relationship to find someone, the penalty will be less, and the penalty if you have no relationship with the person who has nothing to do with it, if you happen to have some contradictions with the person who executed it before, it will be even more finished.
If the power is placed in a certain part of the people below, all kinds of demons and monsters can come out.
This can only be avoided if it is decentralized to the entire population.
"Less is fine. Su Xing nodded, "There is no quarrel at home now, right?"
"There are no big quarrels, but small quarrels are still going on. Yu Jie sighed, "I don't hide the situation of my family from you, patriarchy is very powerful, Xiaolu's temperament is like that, sometimes I am not at home, what my parents say to her is very excessive, she just hides it in her heart and doesn't say it, I'm afraid that if she stays at home for a long time, there will be psychological problems." ”
"She came to my house, I guess she was embarrassed, I told her last time that she came to my house after the holiday, but she didn't come. "Now it's only when she's in high school and college that she gets out of her home and blends into another environment that might help." ”
"That's what I thought, too. Yu Jie nodded, "She definitely doesn't want to come, if you are at home, she may come over, but if you are not at home, she is embarrassed to come." But the main problem at home was finally solved, not as serious as before, she came back once every two weeks, and she didn't stay long, so she didn't have to endure those words anymore. ”
"Persuade her more, some things are too taken to heart, panicked, and very uncomfortable. Su Xing sighed, "Yu Lu's temperament is relatively weak, and if he doesn't enlighten well, he will leave a heart disease." ”
"I'm already thinking about telling her not to come back in the future, living in the school, and I'll go see her in two weeks. Yu Jie said, "There is no way to stay at home, this time it is a matter of fines, who knows if other things will happen in the future? Thanks to the summer vacation, I went lobster fishing and saved a little money, if I didn't have this money, the family probably didn't know what the quarrel would be." ”
"The idea of patriarchy is unacceptable, but many times it is useless to say it. "In a few years, when your brother grows up, your parents will know that it is better to have a boy than a daughter." ”
"They always feel that if they give birth to a daughter, they will always have to marry in the future, and the daughter who marries out will spill the water, and if they marry out, they will be a foreign family, and they often don't go home, which will not help the family much, but the son is different, the son is a daughter-in-law, and marrying into the family can provide for them in old age, can give them death, can inherit their land, inherit their house. Yu Jie said, "My daughter is losing money." ”
When Yu Jie said these words, there was some sadness in her eyes, and there was a look of helplessness on her face.
Yu Jie is eighteen or nineteen years old, five or six years old sensible, and has lived at home for more than ten years.
It is precisely because of this that Yu Jie can see it more thoroughly, not as sad as Yu Lu, probably in Yu Jie's heart, she has long wanted to leave this home.
Even if there is concern in the heart, so what? For such parents, there is really nothing to cling to.
Human affection is the characteristic of domestic society, so that people can feel the warmth and feel the care of their relatives, but human affection is also a fetter, which makes people hesitate when they leave, and most of them endure it after being hurt, and they can't get any help.
At this point, in fact, we can learn a little from some foreign experience, and directly use the law to solve the problem, instead of mediation, some things are deeply rooted, mediation will not work at all, but will stimulate the perpetrator of violence, so that the victim of violence will suffer more harm.
Persuade peace or not persuade divorce, even if the woman is seriously subjected to domestic violence, she will mediate with the mentality of preferring to demolish ten temples and not destroy a marriage, to increase her political achievements for herself, but she does not put herself in the shoes of the victim.
Even some are even funnier, the man has a relationship against the woman's will, this kind of thing can also be mediated, and he can also accept the pennant sent by the man's parents with peace of mind, take pictures, and publicize it as a political achievement.
It's just absurd.
The law is the bottom line of morality, but unfortunately, in a humane society, many times this bottom line has been broken.
"In a few years, in a few years everyone will run to the city, and at that time, the son will also go to the city, and he will not stay with his old parents, and they will regret it. Daughters and sons are almost the same, as long as there is filial piety, there is not much difference, and even in terms of taking care of the elderly, daughters are more convenient than sons. Su Xing said, "But this concept of your parents is probably difficult to change for a while, and you don't need to force it, what you can do now may be to find a way to stay away from this environment." ”
I'm sorry, the Mid-Autumn Festival has been interrupted for a few days, and it's really high to go home......