Wang Chunlan carefully fed Tong Wangjun half a bowl of black chicken soup, and then she was satisfied with Tong Wangjun's dirty clothes and took them away, and she wanted to take them back to be cleaned.

Although it is convenient to give birth by caesarean section, it is more troublesome after cesarean section, the wound heals slowly, the pain is severe, and the anesthetic passes, the wound is painful for a while, and it is very itchy when it heals slowly.

Whether you can give birth smoothly or try to give birth smoothly, the sin suffered in the early stage is actually similar, but the later natural birth is much better than caesarean section, but this point is actually not up to the pregnant woman or her family, most of them still have to follow the doctor's advice.

A friend came over outside, woke up and went out to say hello.

There were only two left in the ward, Tong Wangjun and Huang Qingqiu's mother and daughter.

"Your dad is busy, he can't come, Jiangcheng is the city that the central government is most concerned about in several provinces and cities in the central region, a lot of energy has been invested, and there is also a very large policy inclination, this is in the momentum of development, many things are being prepared, meetings one after another, and he will come over after the meeting. Huang Qingqiu said to Tong Wangjun.

"I know, I called my dad before, and he told me about it, and I heard that there is a high-speed rail project recently, and the government and the state are studying it to build a high-speed rail and shorten the journey. Tong Wangjun didn't think much about it, and he was very understandable.

Although giving birth to a child is a big event, it is not life and death, and there is no way for Tong Guoxin to leave without leaving.

Many people work for the sake of their families, for their lives, and for their expenses, so that their wives and children can have a guarantee, but there are also places that have to be separated.

At this time, the code farmers, including the corresponding technical personnel, have actually emerged, the computer industry is becoming an emerging hot profession, the industry returns are very high, but the pay is also very large, go out in the morning, and go home at more than ten o'clock in the evening.

One day off for the first three weeks, two days off for the second week, this is still a big company, if it is a small company, it is likely that you will not have a day off for a month, and all your energy will be focused on technology, on procedures, on projects.

Couples who can understand each other will have a better life, and if they can't understand it, conflicts will naturally break out, and the divorce rate will slowly increase, which is not unrelated to the fast pace of life and the increase in pressure.

"I'm getting more and more satisfied with the awakening now, not only his care for you, including his current living state, I actually didn't understand it at the beginning, this child is obviously capable, and his heart is also strong, if he does something right, his interest will definitely be much greater. Huang Qingqiu chatted with Tong Wangjun.

"Mom, what you said is not right, isn't there any interest in awakening now? He now has a lot of companies under his command and manages a lot of people, isn't this a serious matter? ”

"You kid, I don't mean anything else, maybe I'm using the wrong words, I mean it's right to wake up and not go the way of me and your dad, he can have a lot of time with you, can watch his child grow, can accompany his child to grow up, he should have seen this at the beginning, so he chose to take this road now, and did not follow the steps of others to do it, although as long as he said a word, or even need him to say it explicitly, as long as he revealed that meaning, your father and I will definitely help him and let him enter the system, with the resources of me and your dad, plus his ability, the future will definitely be able to go higher。 "Huang Qingqiu rarely talks to Tong Wangjun, this is one of the few times.

The most appropriate way for children and parents to get along with each other is actually to get along with each other as friends, so that they can understand each other's difficulties, and if there is anything to say in their hearts, they can say it, and they can resolve conflicts and understand their needs.

However, even people as good as Huang Qingqiu, including Tong Guoxin, can't be perfect in dealing with similar problems, and they can even be said to be relatively poor.

When most parents have an argument with their child, after a conflict, they will arbitrarily use their own adult identity and do not hesitate to extinguish their child's alternative ideas, without even giving an explanation or asking the reason.

The question is that you are still young, you don't understand, and it must be right to listen to Lao Tzu.

The older generation is especially prominent in this regard.

This kind of education will make children know that they have many questions in their hearts, but they dare not ask them, and they will always hold it in their hearts, and over time, they will not dare to ask anything or mention anything.

It's like the funny line in Tianlong Babu, I understand a little, I understand a little, I understand everything, but I'm not proficient in anything, and I don't ask, I don't dare to ask.

"Awakening's attitude to life is very simple, it is a comfortable life, he makes so much money, does so much business, in order to achieve this goal, he thinks differently from you and Dad, he doesn't want to be a person who is controlled by others. Tong Wangjun knows Su Xing very well, "I think his way is very good, and I also hope that he can always be by the child's side when the child grows up." ”

"Yes. Huang Qingqiu nodded, "It's the hardest thing to know what you want, I see that your mother-in-law is also very good to you, I'm very relieved." ”

"Mom is really good to me, often bring fresh vegetables and fruits from home for me to eat, I have something wrong, she never says she will not complain, will not have an argument with me, is a person who does things silently. Tong Wangjun nodded.

The mother and daughter chatted in the ward, Yiyi's birth made Tong Wangjun a mother, and some changes have taken place in her heart, there are many things that resonate with Huang Qingqiu, and the two of them have much more topics than before.

Su woke up and walked out of the hospital and met Xiang Wan at the door.

"The child was born?" Xiang Wan held the fruit in her hand and some children's clothes, "I know you must have prepared children's clothes, I still bought some, and I don't know if it is appropriate." ”

"Yes, what's wrong with that? But a child's clothes don't last long, they grow quickly, or they will grow in a few days. Su Xing nodded and took the things in Xiang Wan's hand, "Let's go, go in, let you see my daughter." ”

"I won't go in, just deliver the things. Xiang Wan shook her head, "Congratulations on becoming a father." ”

"Yes. Su Xing nodded, glanced at Xiang Wan, hesitated for a while, and still spoke, "You should also find a boyfriend earlier, don't be so picky, there are still a lot of excellent people." ”