Chapter 617: Confiding in Your Heart
Then Xiao Fan explained his work to Shen Lin and Su Ran, and then planned to go home, she also knew that her work occupied most of her life too much, and he also wanted to adjust some of his living habits.
After all, the state of a person also needs to be adjusted frequently.
Normally he may have put his work first because he felt a duty to do something, because he didn't do it just for his own benefit, or for something else.
If you talk about money, maybe Jiao Fan feels that people in the world don't have as much money as him, so he doesn't need to waste his time for these small profits.
He often values his work, or devotes more of his time to work, because he is responsible for more people, and he wants to ensure that more people have no worries about food and clothing.
Therefore, whether it is the people of Xiao Fan's company or the people of the base, no matter what the conditions are, they are the best. The wages they get and some of the living conditions are top-notch, and no one else gets them.
Of course, this is actually a personal ability of their own, because they are capable, so the salary or treatment they get is very good.
There are no idlers and no waste under Xiao Fan's hands, because such people can't enter Xiao Fan's eyes at all, and they can't enter Xiao Fan's company and his base.
Therefore, Xiao Fan feels that he should be more responsible for these excellent people and ensure that their future is bright, not because of some of his own laziness, or because of some of his own negligence, which has buried everyone's future.
Sometimes he doesn't necessarily need to meddle in the company's projects, and the reason why he intervenes is because it involves the efforts of many people, and he doesn't want to disappoint everyone.
I don't want everyone who works hard to be disappointed by some other coincidence or other possible happening. Xiao Fan has always been in a very responsible state.
In fact, sometimes he doesn't need to carry so much, but he enjoys it, he feels happy to be able to help others, and then he thinks that these things may not really need to be so dedicated or all-encompassing to him.
Because sometimes what roads people will take in their lives and what difficulties they will face may be destined in the dark, sometimes Xiao Fan can help them, and sometimes even if Xiao Fan comes forward, he can't solve any problems.
Therefore, Xiao Fan felt that what he should do most should be to persuade Shen Lin and Su Ran to grasp the same state of their work and life, and spend more time with their families.
Do what you want to do, instead of blindly devoting yourself to your work and ignoring the feelings of the people around you. It may have taken care of some of the future or dreams of many people, but it neglected some of the feelings of the dearest people.
Although Lin Yun'er never complains anything to Xiao Fan, this does not mean that Lin Yun'er will not feel a little sad, or sometimes she will feel a little lonely if Xiao Fan is not by her side.
Thinking of this, Xiao Fan felt that what he had insisted on for so many years was correct, and then Xiao Fan was also worried when he returned home.
Lin Yun'er turned her head and asked him: "What's the matter, is it because the work is not going well? Or has there been too much work recently, if there is too much work, you don't have to worry about me, and you don't have to take the time to come back to accompany me." ”
Looking at the sensible Lin Yun'er, Xiao Fan felt that maybe he had really done something wrong, blindly letting the people around him compromise, but taking into account some of the feelings of others.
Although Xiao Fan feels that some of the things he does are meaningful, it does not mean that he is willing to give up some of the happiness of the people around him.
Then Xiao Fan stepped forward and held Lin Yun'er's hand and said, "Tell me, have you suffered a lot of grievances over the years." ”
Lin Yun'er smiled and said, "What's the matter? Why did you suddenly ask about this." Xiao Fan sighed, and then said: "It's nothing, I just think that everything I have insisted on and everything I have been busy with over the years is really right."
I always feel that I owe you too much, or that I haven't done what a true husband should do all these years. ”
Lin Yun'er smiled and said: "No, Xiao Fan, you really don't think so, you have given me a lot, and you have given me enough security."
In fact, sometimes you don't stay with me to do your own things, I will also feel that you are just doing what you think is meaningful, and I support you unconditionally.
Although to be honest, sometimes I may be in a bad mood, I hope you can be by my side, and then talk to me, and accompany me to go shopping and have a meal.
But every time I think that you are in a good mood when you do those things, and then the people you are helping are also in a good mood, and the employees under me can also reap a good future for themselves, I feel that what is the so-called small sacrifice?
Besides, it's not a sacrifice at all, so don't feel like you owe me anything. ”
Then Xiao Fan raised his head and looked at Lin Yun'er and said: "I think I should really think about some future work priorities, or life plans, I think maybe the way I have been busy for so many years is not the right way."
Whether it's work or life, in fact, everyone thinks I'm doing a very good job, very perfect, but in the process, I may really lose what I want most.
That is for your company, when I married you, I hoped to be able to live with you and Meimei, and then accompany you, give you supreme favor, and let you be the happiest woman.
But now I seem to have neglected you too much because of work and some other tasks, and I have made you suffer a lot of grievances. ”
Lin Yun'er felt very moved, but she felt that Xiao Fan had never owed her anything, even after coming back in the three years since she left, she continued to compensate her, and then did her best to accompany her.
did her best to help her get out of the shadow of the three years of leaving, including Lin Yun'er's return to the Lin family, Lin Yun'er felt that this was a very warm thing that Xiao Fan did for her, so she never complained, and she never felt that she had married the wrong person.
Or Xiao Fan's approach is wrong, everyone's life is decided by themselves, and it is precisely because of this kind of self-determination that they feel that they have done something wrong.
In fact, the so-called right and wrong, which is not wrong in the eyes of outsiders, sometimes cannot be measured at all, because there is no specific standard for judging at all.
Sometimes you may feel that this thing is right, but it is wrong in the eyes of others, for example, now Xiao Fan feels that some of the lifestyles he has adhered to over the years are wrong, but in Lin Yun'er's opinion, it is very meaningful and very correct