Liu Man glared at him, "You are still too young to know what the basis of marriage is." You and Mingwei have the same living environment and have been in a relationship for so many years, and the chances of you being happy together will be very high. ”

"It's just your whim. If I want to like her, I'll be chasing her for a long time, and I don't need you to match her at all. ”

"I can only describe your current state in one sentence, you are simply a belated period of rebellion, and you are against everything I say. ”

"Why don't you say that your menopause is extraordinarily long? What have I done since I was a teenager and you don't object?" Lu Mingzhan didn't know why, he was extremely impatient to talk to his family Mr. Liu today, and he was so impatient that he wanted to open his mouth.

"Do you think you're doing the right thing?"

"What am I doing wrong? Am I breaking the law? Is there a violation of the moral bottom line? If not, then there is no right or wrong. ”

"Why can't you be a little more mature and always look at the world with such a naïve three views?"

"It's good for me to see the world this way, and I don't think you and Mr. Lu live and work very well. ”

"You're just raising the bar!"

"Aren't you going out of your way to raise the bar with me and my eldest brother? Why is what we do worthless in your eyes?"

"One of you can't play anymore because of an occupational illness, and the other has broken his hand because he saved someone. What do you let me do if you end up with such a result? You have never been a parent, and you don't know how uncomfortable your parents are. ”

"We want to understand your feelings and thoughts, but you don't give us a chance to understand. You don't communicate with us normally, and every time you communicate, you want to impose all your thoughts on us. It's true that you are our mother, and you have the grace to give birth to us, but can you not interfere too much in our affairs when we become adults? We are not so weak in your heart that we can't take care of ourselves in life, and it's not good to withdraw from our life circle and work circle from time to time?"

"Your ideas are still too childish. ”

"It's because you always treat us like children that you think everything we do is childish. Lu Mingzhan felt that this kind of quarrel was similar to cheating, with little substantive communication significance, and it couldn't solve their current problems.

Liu Man was also annoyed by his aggressiveness, "I now have to wonder if you like that mortuary or do you simply like to work against me?"

"If I want to go against you, I'm going to pull an innocent person into the water?" Lu Mingzhan couldn't understand such a brain circuit, "I like her, and I want to live with her in the future." Here's what I think of her. ”

"What should Mingwei do?"

"I made it very clear to her that she didn't respond positively to my questions. ”

"You'd rather like a woman who spends her days with dead people than someone you've known for many years and who is the right person. ”

"Aren't you the same? I'd rather fight with me again and again for an outsider, do you want Mingwei to be happy or do you want me to be happy? ”

Liu Man's heart was sincere when he heard that he wanted to kill him.

Lu Mingzhan saw that her face was as black as the bottom of a pot, and her mood improved inexplicably, and continued: "You and Mingwei both have the same problem, you are my mother, even if I don't like your problem, I can bear it." After all, they have a deep affection for each other. If Mingwei was just my friend, I would be able to tolerate this problem in her. But I can't bear to have the same problem with my significant other. ”

"What's wrong?"

"It's that you don't listen to others at all, and you're extremely attached to your own expression. I have communicated with you and Mingwei many times, and each time the communication is unhappy. If you had recorded a recording at the time, you would have been able to argue with the same recording every time. I don't like that feeling very much. ”

Liu Man looked at his youngest son with a straight face, knowing that his flashpoint was coming, so he rarely suppressed his anger and continued to listen to him.

"I can understand the starting point of all this you do, you are afraid that I will suffer, that I will be injured, that I am too far behind others. But everybody's pursuit is different, so why use the same set of standards to bind everyone? If I go home and complain after work, you can let me quit my job and go home and take over the family. But my job is good, and my love is good, so you have to stop it. I didn't follow your arrangement, I just didn't do it, I was unreasonable, I just deliberately did you do it? ”

After Lu Mingzhan finished saying this long paragraph, he took a breath, he was emotional, and his brain was prone to lack of oxygen when he spoke.

Today's quarrel was the same as that of a rebellious middle school student, and he felt ashamed.

It's really sad for people who are thirty years younger to quarrel so low.

Liu Man didn't know what to say for a while.

The youngest son has always communicated with them smoothly, and he has a good personality and never brings emotions to his face.

When I was at home, the atmosphere in the house was always good and harmonious.

Even if something inappropriate was said, it would not cause him to be dissatisfied.

This is a rare tantrum for him.

Liu Man had to face up to this problem.

Is she pushing too hard, and is there really a problem with her communication with her youngest son.

She has been very successful in other aspects for most of her life, but she has never been able to find a trick in educating children.

She originally thought that she was just at odds with her eldest son's personality, and after she quarreled with her eldest son, the eldest son ran away from home and had little contact.

She's trying to fix her problems.

After that, she had a good relationship with her youngest son, and she thought her problem was solved.

It was only at this moment that she realized that she still wouldn't handle her relationship with her children.

Liu Man had a huge sense of frustration and even a little helpless.

The car fell into an embarrassment for a while, Liu Man looked out the window, "Lao Liu, stop in front for a while, you get out of the car and rest first." ”

The driver pulled over to the side of the street and went off to smoke.

Lu Mingzhan's anger was much more comfortable after it came out, and there was no emotion on his face.

He put his hand on Liu Man's back, pillowed his head on her shoulder as usual, and whispered: "Mr. Liu, I know that I shouldn't be angry with you, and your thoughts are not wrong, but I also don't think my thoughts are wrong. Can we respect each other's differences?"

Liu Man's eyes turned red somehow when he heard him speak softly.

Suddenly, I didn't want to fight.

What's the point of a family fighting to win or lose?

Liu Man held Lu Mingzhan's hand on his knee and clenched it tightly, "There is something wrong with Mom." ”

After these two sentences, they fell silent again.

None of this has passed in their minds, and they all know that the same problem will erupt again at some inappropriate time.

Every quarrel with my family ends in a mess, and the next one starts in a mess.

There is never a principle and bottom line at home, and quarreling with family members can always accurately hurt each other's pain points, knowing that each other will be uncomfortable but repeatedly unhappy.

Lu Mingzhan thought that he would have to argue about this issue in the future, and he felt powerless.

His personality is different from his eldest brother's.

His eldest brother has a cold temperament, and when he doesn't have conflicts with his family, he doesn't talk much, and he can be silent all day when no one talks to him.

After falling out with his family, his performance was not surprising.

He saw with his own eyes the pain of his parents at that time, and he also saw his brother crying in the corner where no one else saw him.

He did not want a similar situation to happen again.

However, many problems are not something you don't want to encounter and don't want to encounter.