Chapter 1050: Massage
"When you entered the door just now, didn't you notice that there was a banner at the door of the community? Promote civilized dog raising and build a harmonious community, which is the property in the action, and pay close attention to the norms of raising dogs in the community, so that the owners can raise dogs in a civilized manner. ”
After waking up and entering the community, the driving speed is very slow, there are children and old people in the community, the car is driving too fast and dangerous, the awakening is generally at a speed of about 20, walking slowly, anyway, there is no hurry at that time and a half.
People's lives are very short, seventy or eighty years, except for the period when you are ignorant and unable to do things, the rest of the time is actually only thirty or forty years.
In a flash, it's really a white horse.
It was as if those things had happened when I was a kid a few years ago.
One should not stare at a distant target, but also pay attention to the scenery on the road.
Slowing down is not a bad thing, blindly fast will make people uncomfortable, fast is slow, slow is fast, so that you are a master, you can really taste the joy of life.
"I saw the banner, why is the property so concerned all of a sudden, and the owners are so cooperative, I feel that things are a little not simple. Tong Wangjun looked at the awakening, "Did you do something?"
"Why do you doubt me?" Wake wondered.
When dealing with this matter, Su Xing did not tell Tong Wangjun, worried that Tong Wangjun would think too much.
Tong Wangjun's heart is better than him, he will definitely not be able to do it, so when he wakes up, he will let Tong Wangjun stay in the hospital, he will deal with this matter by himself, and only after he has finished dealing with it will he take Tong Wangjun back.
didn't expect to hide it from Tong Wangjun, Tong Wangjun was able to associate this matter with him.
"As long as people with brains will think, you can guess, I was admitted to the hospital because I was frightened, you were so nervous on the phone, but when you arrived at the hospital, there was nothing, your face was calm, this is not normal, and now we go back to the community, and the management of dogs in the community has become so formal, this is an abnormal phenomenon, several abnormal phenomena are combined, is it all a coincidence?" Tong Wangjun was pregnant, but his IQ was not offline, "Besides, I don't know what kind of character you are?" If you protect your shortcomings, you can suffer, but if the people around you suffer losses and are hurt, you will definitely retaliate back. ”
"Am I that kind of person?" Su Xing smiled and turned the topic away, "Don't think about it, anyway, the owners of dogs in the community regulate the behavior of raising dogs, which is a good thing, not only for you and me, but also for other owners, and for the elderly and children in the community." ”
At this time, there are not so many normative provisions for raising dogs, and the residents in this community also have money, and many of the dogs raised are large dogs, very fierce, in the eyes of dog owners, their dogs are docile and will not bite, but people who seem kind on the surface may hurt people, not to mention the beasts who do not understand the language.
Putting the lives of others on the minds of brutes who can't communicate is in itself irresponsible.
Su Xing took the time to sign up for a month training class, most of them were women, some were mother-in-law level, some were aunt level, and even a few were men like Su Xing, but there were few young women.
Pregnancy and confinement, educating children is a science, and there is nothing wrong with letting children grow up freely, but if parents do not interfere from the side, the growth of children will definitely become a problem.
If parents do not correct their children and correct their three views, otherwise their children's three views will definitely be influenced by people other than their parents.
The so-called child's nature, this sentence itself is incorrect, this is like aseptic culture, it is impossible to isolate their children from society, so that they do not contact the society, grow up in a sterile living environment, since the child lives in the society, then it will definitely be polluted, at this time what is the nature, do not interfere with the child's freedom, to let them play freely, it is pure nonsense.
Many people envy the way children are educated abroad, thinking that it is the method that conforms to the child's nature, but in fact, it is not called nature, it is called talent.
It is more accurate to let the child play first, when the child is disgusted, bored, does not like to play, mature, so he turns his head and wants to learn, and takes learning as an interest.
This is just the opposite of the domestic way, which is to let children learn first, but often oppressive learning will make children disgusted, and finally want to play games, want to watch TV, but don't want to learn.
The two diametrically opposed outcomes are actually those things, but in different sequences, the results that may eventually lead to are different.
In any case, in fact, this has nothing to do with releasing nature, just like raising dogs and other things, many people have an ambiguous understanding of foreign models, and they are not thorough enough, so they are indiscriminately pursued.
Usually, you can't find the disadvantages of that way abroad, and you won't find out until the big crisis that that way is actually not perfect, and there are many problems.
People have to learn to think independently, and as a bystander, they must first learn to observe, understand, and then judge.
In the evening, Su Xing accompanied Tong Wangjun to walk on the lakeside tree-lined path outside the community, birds and flowers, insects and frogs, and there were a few frogs outcropping in the lake not far from his feet, and even a few swimming fish.
The air is also not as dry as in the north, the smell is pleasant, and the breath is pleasant with a warm breath, and this place is suitable for life.
"What did you learn in the confinement class?" Tong Wangjun grabbed the awakened arm with both hands and walked slowly with some strength.
Awakening was right next to him, keeping an eye on his surroundings.
"In fact, what I learned is the main content of the confinement lady's work, and many people in the class I applied for were in order to become a confinement lady, so they went to participate in the training, and most of them were fifty or sixty-year-old aunts. Su Xing said, "There are a few men who, like me, are not used to outsiders taking care of their daughters-in-law, or to save money, so they signed up for confinement classes, and they are all very good." ”
"No young mother is going to sign up for this class?" asked Tong Wangjun.
"No, it's rare to see women in their twenties and thirties who sign up for this class, those who are pregnant can't report it, they have to be raised at home, and those who are not pregnant can't do this, and the work of serving people is only at the level of a mother-in-law, and they will swallow their anger. Su Xing nodded, "In fact, the training content of the confinement lady is quite rich, neonatal nursing, maternal nursing, and some basic skills courses of neonatal nursing, as well as 2~12 months of neonatal nursing knowledge, including the latest parenting concepts and nutrition, and then massage, massage, and so on, when the child is born, I will give you a massage." ”