At this time, Lu Dongchen hugged Qiqi and said, "Mom, are you letting Fei Yanyao enter the room, is it really okay for you to stand at the door and talk like this?"

Hearing Lu Dongchen's voice, Lu's mother glanced at Lu Dongchen with disgust and said, "What's the matter with you? Why do you talk so much nonsense." ”

Lu Dongchen shook his head and said, "Okay, then whatever you want." ”

However, Lu's mother also took Fei Yanyao to the house together.

Qiqi has been secretly looking at Fei Yanyao, and when Lu's mother saw it, she said, "Qiqi came to grandma's place." ”

Qiqi hugged Lu Dongchen's neck and shook her head and said, "I want my father to hug me." ”

This obvious refusal made Lu's mother hurt again.

Then Lu's mother smiled and said, "You little white-eyed wolf, how did you tell grandma when your father was not at home." Daddy's back, and you don't even want grandma, do you?"

Lu's mother was joking, but Kiki didn't know, and then hurriedly shook her head and said, "No, no grandma, I just want my father to hug me." ”

Seeing that Qiqi was in such a hurry to explain, Mother Lu said with a smile, "Qiqi, grandma is joking with you." ”

This time may have really annoyed Qiqi, and then Qiqi hugged Lu Dongchen's neck and didn't even reply to Lu's mother's words.

Lu Dongchen hugged Qiqi and said, "Qiqi, grandma is joking with you, don't be angry." ”

But Qiqi buried her head in Lu Dongchen's arms and didn't reply.

Then Lu's mother invited Fei Yanyao to sit at the dining table and sat next to Lu's mother.

After Fei Yanyao sat down at the dining table, Lu's mother began to bring out the dishes from the kitchen one by one.

When it's all served, let's eat together. When everyone eats, it's quiet.

In Lu Dongchen's house, it can be said that he did it, and he didn't say anything about eating.

Even the naughty Kiki didn't say a word when she ate at the table.

And Lu Dongchen was educated from childhood to adulthood, and Fei Yanyao used to come over to eat often, so Fei Yanyao also knew.

Although her mother is easy to be short-tempered and sometimes jokes, when she eats at home, Lu's mother is the one who pays the most attention to the rules.

For Lu's mother, you can play whenever you should play, no matter how much you play, she won't say anything about you, and of course don't be too out of line.

Work when it's time to work, and work hard.

Lu Dongchen still remembers very clearly, he didn't pay attention to the rules when he was young, and that beating was simply unforgettable.

When Qiqi was three years old, Lu Dongchen began to teach Qiqi the rules.

But Kiki herself is also very competitive, and she also remembers these rules, so she can only do it now.

Of course, because Kiki is too young now, it will take a little time to be silent.

Just like the last time Lu Dongchen brought Qiqi back from his former mother-in-law's mother's house, he was teaching Qiqi to learn to be self-reliant

Take your own ideas, do it yourself, and have enough food and clothing.

And Mom and Dad can only guide you from the side, so that you will not go down the wrong path.

Lu Dongchen knew very well that in fact, it was very simple for him to teach Qiqi to sleep silently.

But Lu Dongchen didn't want to impose his consciousness on Qiqi.

Many parents impose their own consciousness on their children, which will cause a lot of pressure on the children, and there will be some changes in personality in the future.

In fact, the so-called rebellious period does not exist, but the parents impose their own mistakes on the child, and to a certain extent, the child will form a rebellious psychology.

What is the so-called rebellious mentality? The so-called rebellious mentality is, "Why does he want me to do this, why should I listen to him?"

Because parents often impose their own consciousness on their children, children will have this so-called rebellious period.

Be a little more relaxed with your child, let her learn to make her own ideas, let her learn to have her own ideas.

Mom and Dad can only guide her from the side, so that she doesn't go down the wrong path.

So for Qiqi, Lu Dongchen is still very lenient.

Of course, when children make mistakes, they still have to say it when they should say it.

It's just this "say?" depending on what you say.

The so-called saying is not beating, not scolding, nor education.

It's about pointing out what she's doing wrong, and then letting her figure out how to correct it.

Of course, not all children can think of ways to correct it, and at this time, parents can give her some tips on the side.

In this way, for the child, it turns out that this is the way to do it so that he will not make a mistake. And then because her parents give her some advice, she will also understand what it means to think.

For small things, children can make their own decisions, and there is no need to say that all parents take ideas.

In this way, when the child goes out of society in the future, he will become a puppet without his own attention.

However, there are still many parents who will say that if their child can't pay attention on his own, I will tell him if he asks me.

Even if he has any problems after he leaves society, he can tell me, and I can help him get ideas.

However, many parents don't know, you can help him get ideas, but can you help him get ideas for a lifetime?

And the child will always grow up, he will always have his own family, he will always have his own children.

If he needs his parents to help him make up his mind for everything, what if he gets married and has children?

Well, that's a long way off.

After the family had eaten enough, Fei Yanyao helped Lu's mother clean up the dishes and chopsticks.

Lu Dongchen sat in the courtyard with Qiqi in his arms and chatted with his father over tea.

But basically the content of the chat is related to Qiqi, because my parents have also thought about it from Lu Dongchen's position. Because Lu Dongchen has to go to work, I'm afraid he won't be able to take care of Qiqi.

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persuaded Lu Dongchen to let Qiqi stay at home, and then Lu Dongchen could relax, the old couple still felt very sorry for their son.

But Lu Dongchen knew very well that he could put Qiqi at home.

But the time is short, a week is fine, but after a long time, Kiki will not be able to stay.

And I can't run home every week when I have a holiday.

Although Mom and Dad can take good care of Kiki, they still can't rest assured.

Then Lu Dongchen decided to wait until she went back, so she would ask Qiqi to go to school.

Xiang Qiqi was four years old and it was too late to start school.

At the beginning, Lu Dongchen proposed that when he was three years old, he wanted Qiqi to go to school, but at that time, his wife disagreed, saying that Qiqi was too young and was afraid of being bullied when she went to school.

So it was delayed for a year, and now that Lu Dongchen wants to take Qiqi with him, he must arrange for Qiqi to go to school.

Because every morning when Lu Dongchen goes out, he can send Qiqi to school first, and then go to work by himself.

When I come back from work, I can come back with Kiki by the way.

When Lu Dongchen was thinking about it, Lu's mother and Fei Yanyao packed up the things on the table and walked out of the hall.

When she came to the courtyard, Fei Yanyao looked at Lu Dongchen and her uncle chatting happily, and then asked, "What is your uncle talking about?

Lu Dongchen's father nodded and said, "Fei Yanyao, come and sit, what about the two of us that Qiqi goes to school." ”

Fei Yanyao walked over, sat next to Lu Dongchen's father, and then asked, "Qiqi, how old are you now?"

Lu Dongchen said with a smile, "It hasn't been long since Qiqi turned four years old, but she already has the conditions to go to kindergarten, and it is not too late to go to school." ”

Fei Yanyao didn't speak yet, and then Lu Dongchen continued, "We were discussing this just now, and my dad said to let Qiqi go to school at home." But I want to take Kiki with me. Let her go to school in Flower City. ”

What was said earlier may have been too profound, but Qiqi in Lu Dongchen's arms didn't understand.

But Lu Dongchen spoke again, and Qiqi understood. Then Qiqi hugged Lu Dongchen's neck tightly with both hands, and said with tears in her eyes, "Dad, don't you want me? I don't want to go to school at home, I want to be with Dad." ”

Looking at Qiqi with tears in her eyes, Lu Dongchen was a little blindsided.

I didn't say that I put Kiki at home to go to school, how could Kiki feel like she was going to put her at home?

The thoughts of children are still incomprehensible to themselves.

Lu Dongchen hugged Qiqi and comforted him, "Now stay at home for a few days, and then you and your father will go back to Huacheng, and then go to school in Shencheng." Then in the morning, when Dad goes to work, Dad can send you to school first at work. When you get off work in the evening, can Dad pick you up first and then go home together?"

Kiki nodded and said, "Then Dad, you are not allowed to lie to me?"

Lu Dongchen shook his head and chuckled, "What did Dad lie to you?"