Since this is the wish of his younger brothers and sisters, Gong Jian feels that as the eldest brother, of course he must try his best to meet their expectations.

So Gong Jian said: "You want to be good to others and let others accept your kindness." So in fact, the only way is for you to behave well and make them feel at ease. However, it will certainly take some time. ”

Gong Jian knew that Wang Laohan's family was treated like this, and in this adversity, he still insisted that the family should stay together, which shows that they are all mentally strong. Then such a person will easily not open his heart.

As servants, they may be able to stay in the master's house and work hard and do their duty as servants, but it is really difficult for them to accept from their hearts that their own family, as my sister said, let his family get along like a family.

As he said, it's better to say something than to do it, it is more acceptable, after all, no matter how good you say, it is not as good as you really do it. But this process will be relatively long.

And since his younger brothers and sisters have already gotten up, they want to get along with those people, and even get along with each other to become a family, then this long process is not very suitable.

Who knows if after such a long time, the Wang family will really be able to accept the kindness of their family?

And in case it goes on for a long time, in their hearts, even if they have recognized the kindness of the master's family, they have completely fixed their status and identity to the role of servant. It can't be broken at all, and at that time, the expectations of the younger siblings will not be met.

Hearing their eldest brother say that no matter what they say now, it is better for them to treat that family well, Gong Yu and Gong Yue are still full of confidence in their hearts. After all, both of them are kind and honest children, in their opinion, as long as they treat each other kindly, then they will be able to realize their sincerity to them sooner or later.

But when they heard Gong Jian's worries later, the two couldn't help but be anxious again. If after being good to them for a long time, it makes them more fixed and firmly divide their identities into the category of servants, then they really have no place to cry. They don't want to have a few faithful servants.

Gong Yue was even more anxious, she said eagerly: "Big brother, do you want to think of a way?

In fact, the main reason why this matter has developed into this situation is because the Gong family is not used to enslaving others. In their hearts, family and friends are more reliable and trustworthy than any servant, and they are more comfortable and get along better. That's why the two of them waited so anxiously, and the eldest brother found a way.

Gong Jian scratched his head. He was also worried about this matter, knowing that his little sister and younger brother had this kind of thinking, which was really different from others.

Although it is not difficult for their own family to understand this kind of thinking, it is really difficult for a strange family to understand their thoughts. He thought about it for a long time, and finally fixed his eyes on Gong Yu's body.

Seeing that the eldest brother's gaze stopped on him, and he didn't move for a long time, Gong Yu knew that the eldest brother was thinking of a way, and he thought of himself, so he hurriedly asked Gong Jian: "Big brother, can I help with this matter?"

Gong Jian nodded, this kid is not honest to the end, and he still knows what he means when he likes him. So he opened his mouth and said: "Yes, we also know from the description just now that Wang Laohan's family is honest and has their own insistence, this kind of person is not easy to rely on words to impress."

The most recognizable thing for them should be our attitude towards them for a long time. But as I just thought, once this kind of person has formed a pattern of his own thinking, it is probably more difficult to change it. Therefore, the road of subtly impressing them will not work, then we will rely on you. “

Gong Yu was taken aback all of a sudden: "I, big brother, you're not joking, are you?" I don't have any good ideas, big brother, don't be kidding. ”

The reason why he thinks Gong Jian is joking is mainly because Gong Yu still knows himself very well. He knew he was a little too honest, Muna, and lacked adaptability.

From his own point of view, it is already remarkable that he can grasp the meaning in writing, but the eldest brother is different, he can know the other mysteries hidden in it through the words on the surface.

At this point, Gong Yu felt that even if he cultivated for another hundred years, he would not be able to reach the level of his eldest brother. So at this time, hearing that the eldest brother actually put the opportunity to solve this matter on his own body, how could Gong Yu not think it would be strange.

Not only Gong Yu, but even Gong Yue looked at Gong Jian in surprise, waiting for him to give further explanations. They also didn't think that Gong Yu, an honest boy, could impress the hearts of Wang Laohan's family.

I only listened to Gong Jian slowly explain to them: "People like Wang Laohan's family want them to reach a consensus, understand what you say, and believe in your sincere heart." Then the people who deal with them should share the same traits with them. ”

With his words, Gong Yu and Gong Yue immediately understood what their eldest brother meant. Yes, honest people can deal with honest people.

Gong Yu scratched his head a little embarrassedly, how did he think that the eldest brother's words sounded like he was praising himself, but no matter how he listened to this, how could he make a little fun of him.

And Gong Yue's side was even more polite, she was already secretly covering her mouth next to her and laughing: "Second brother, then tomorrow will depend on your strength." Little sister, I'm optimistic about you. ”

Gong Yu, who was a little laughed at by his little sister, looked at Gong Jian eagerly: "Big brother, what should I do tomorrow to make that family accept us?"

Gong Jian looked at the second brother who was a little flustered with a smile, and he said, "You can't ask me what you should do." You asked me, that's not your way of doing things.

You don't have to be too deliberate. As long as you talk to them the way you normally do. Take what is in your heart, that is, your thoughts, and talk to them honestly. I believe that it is much better to achieve the effect than me or my little sister talking to them. “

At the same time, he did not forget to remind Gong Yu, "Don't be too eager, everyone must have a process of accepting things." Your role is really to open a gap for them to accept an opportunity from us, so you don't have to be too nervous. ”