Chapter 196: Respect each other as guests

The Materia Medica Temple has spent a lot of effort on gardening, and a large area of pearl plum and hibiscus is in the flowering period, blooming in full bloom, the color is light and elegant, and it exudes the fragrance of nothing. The speechless Chihara Rin walked on the bluestone road among the flowers, and he couldn't quibble when he thought about it, and he didn't want to quibble - Bai Ma Ningzi was really smart, his mind was as transparent as crystal, and it was useless to quibble.

He tilted his head and looked at Baima Ningzi for a while, and saw that she was smiling like a flower, although it was not extremely beautiful, but that playful and lovely energy was enough to overshadow the pearl plum, hibiscus, and bellflower flowers.

He just looked at it like this for a while, and the embarrassment was gone, and finally admitted calmly: "It's true that I'm thinking too much, I'm sorry." ”

Bai Ma Ningzi didn't avoid his gaze, and only when he heard him say "I'm sorry" did he look away, shook his head slightly, and said with a smile: "No need to apologize, Qianyuan-kun, I'm not angry." ”

After a pause, she gave Rin Chihara a big smile and added, "I'm glad you like me." ”

Her confession made Rin Chihara embarrassed, and she coughed dryly: "It's my honor." ”

Then he fell into deep thought, whether it was time to confess

has been with Baima Ningzi for so long, not mentioning all kinds of antecedents, he feels that Baima Ningzi is the person he is looking for.

To put it simply, he wants to have a home, he wants to have an ideal partner, and what is the most important thing about the ideal partner

Love

No, people like him don't believe in love. That's either the effect of hormones, or the impulse, and passion can never stand the test of time, relying on a momentary passion to do things, there will be no good results, and the nature is the same in marriage.

He feels that his marriage is unhappy or not, mainly depends on four words - respect each other like guests.

There is a kind of person in this world, who is not inferior if he is near, and resentful if he is far away. The more intimate she is with you, the more she takes everything for granted, she can lose her temper at will, she can yell at will, and if you can't accept this bad temper and hide a little, she will be full of resentment and think that you are a negative man.

No one wants to find such a wife, purely to block themselves, but many people find such a wife, probably just because they don't know anyone, lack careful thinking about the marriage relationship, and never have a plan for marriage - those people get married just to get married, because everyone else is married, so they also want to get married, but they never think about what they need.

But Rin Chihara has considered that he is a very planned person, and he hopes that he and his wife can "respect each other as guests", not that everyone has to be polite when they are together, but that they can get along like friends - everyone will not act recklessly because the relationship is too close, but in order to maintain the most basic restraint, the most basic politeness, understand each other's feelings, and respect each other's wishes.

In other words, he hopes to find a girl with a better tutor, who is cultivated, cultivated, educated, educated, and educated, and he thinks that Baima Ningzi is such a person.

It's just that this white horse is too wild, can't stop its hooves, and loves to run around too much, so now is it a good time to confess

Settle the relationship, and then tie up the white horse but she hasn't fulfilled her travel wish, and now confess, can she accept it

Or should it be time to wait and confess not as a clarion call for an attack, but as a decisive blow

That's right, this is a major event in life, I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry, Bai Ma Ningzi has already walked to the middle of Kyushu Island, and there is not much distance from fulfilling her wish, so I don't need to be in a hurry, I can wait for a few more months.

More importantly, think carefully about how to get her into your hands and at the same time avoid becoming a monk yourself - marrying her will also inherit a temple, which is enough to cause headaches.

As soon as Rin Chihara made up his mind, he found that Hakuma Ninko was tilting his head to observe him again, and at the same time asked with a chuckle, "Chihara-kun, have you decided something?"

"Why do you say that?"

Bai Ma Ningzi gently touched his eyebrows with his fingertips, and said with a smile: "When you can't make up your mind, you will frown, this is the same as ordinary people, but when you make up your mind, your eyebrows will wrinkle even more, it looks very serious, a little scary - you just made a decision, is it about me?"

Chihara Rin was speechless, it turned out that his feelings were so exposed that he always thought that his city was very deep!

He didn't need to hide anything from Baima Ningzi, and said honestly: "I was thinking about whether to confess just now. ”

"What about the result?"

Chihara Rin looked at her and said tentatively, "I think we need to wait a little longer, do you think it's appropriate now?"

Bai Ma Ningzi also groaned, and said with a smile after a moment: "I don't know, I also like you a little, if you want to confess, I will probably be very troubled...... I would seriously consider it, but don't know what the outcome will be. ”

After a pause, she said gently: "You know, Qianyuan-kun, there is not only love in life...... Nor can life be for just one person. ”

Chihara Rin nodded silently, it's good to get along with Hakuma Ningzi, she will spread out the words and say, everyone doesn't have to guess to guess, and get a lot of dog blood.

He laughed, "Then I'll have to wait." ”

"I'll think about it too. Bai Ma Ningzi smiled very gently, "I also think it's a pity to miss you, I will think about it carefully." ”

"Okay!" Rin Chihara was very satisfied with the result, but immediately joked, "Think more about my strengths, I'm a good person." ”

Bai Ma Ningzi squinted and smiled, nodding slightly, she really felt that Qianyuan Rin was a good person and knew how to be considerate of others, which was actually very rare in this sick society.

They talked and laughed, without the slightest seriousness to discuss the major events of life, and did not match the quiet atmosphere of the temple at all, which provoked the visitors to look back several times, but soon the destination arrived, and they were taken to a waiting room by the guests, and then the temple owner also came.

This is still Qianyuan Rin people have been here for so long, the first time they have officially contacted a senior monk, and they can't help but take a closer look, and find that they really have hair, and the monk has hair on his head - it's really a god, and the ordinary people have a lot of bald heads, and their heads are bare, but the monks are hairy.

Bai Ma Ningzi's father shouldn't be this image

Because it was the temple day, the temple owner of the mountain room wore a "formal suit", a black straight placket, hemp rope leggings, and an orange ring of cloth around his neck, as if it had evolved from the rice bag that was hung around his neck when he was incarnated in the past, and at the same time he was wearing a robe obliquely.

Of course, this robe is not the traditional kind of "dung sweeping clothes", that is, cow chewing clothes, rat choking clothes, fire clothes, moon water clothes, maternity clothes, temple clothes, tsukama clothes, prayer clothes, royal clothes, return clothes, each cut a piece and put together, and then dyed into a robe color (in India is a poor color), and at a glance it is a precious cloth, the luster is very good, obviously valuable - the traditional robe should be tattered, in order to show away from greed and attachment, at least it should be made of coarse cloth, but it is obviously not this set.

The clothes are very gorgeous, people, middle-aged and slightly chubby, and the round face looks very kind, but the temperament is not like a high-ranking monk.

Chihara Rin was peeking to observe carefully, Hakuma Ningzi straightened his demeanor, took out his father's letter, congratulated the temple celebration, and apologized sincerely on behalf of his father who could not come, and the officiant of the Yamamuro Temple was also a glance, and accepted the apology after thanking him.

After this set of procedures was completed, the master of the mountain room temple looked at Baima Ningzi and said with a smile: "I haven't seen you for five or six years, but I didn't expect Ningzi-chan to have grown up." Then he turned to Rin Chihara and asked with some curiosity, "......Who is this?"

Sure enough, it's not a blind date, this monk came by himself, and he shouldn't have come with his second son and third son! After being ashamed of the monk's belly with the heart of a villain, Chihara Rin immediately introduced himself: "The contemptible Chihara Rin is a friend of Miss Hakuba, and I heard that today is the celebration of your temple, so I took the liberty to come to congratulate me, and I was disturbed." ”

The temple master of the mountain room was stunned, knocked his forehead, and hesitated: "Qianyuan...... Is it that Chihara-sensei from Kanto United Television, who is the songwriter of "Lemon"?"

Well, the monk also listened to the song and watched the TV series Chihara Rin was confused, but immediately responded: "That's right, it's me." ”

The master of the Yamamuro Temple immediately became enthusiastic, shook his hand, and said happily: "I didn't expect Chihara-sensei to come, it's really good, the song "Lemon" is very exciting......!

This person is very familiar with Hakuma Ningzi, and he didn't be polite with her, so he just left her aside, took Chihara Rinto's hand and chatted about topics such as electronic mixing, and the heated discussion began, directly confusing Chihara Rin - this monk is very professional, and he is better than him in pop music.

He didn't think it was right, but when he came to be a guest, he couldn't say that he didn't want to discuss this, so he could only talk about music for more than ten minutes, but it was all like this, and the master of the mountain temple was still unsatisfied, if it weren't for the fact that there were too many guests who came to visit today, he had to leave to meet the other guests, and it was estimated that he wanted to take Chihara Rin to discuss for a day.

In the end, he personally sent Chihara Rin and Hakuma Ningzi to the door, and sincerely invited Chihara Rin to come back when he was free, and by the way, he gave him a string of "VIP" rosaries of the Materia Medica Temple - with this rosary, you can ask the temple master to personally lecture on the scriptures.

Rin Chihara and Hakuma Ninko returned the same way, and after Rin Chihara came out of the courtyard, he looked back strangely and asked Hakuma Ninko again, "What is the situation?"

This monk actually loves pop music, not pop music, but this is put together with the monk...... Weird!

Hakuma Ningzi smiled: "Uncle Yamamuro is DJ!"

“dj”

"Yes, he works at the temple during the day and is a DJ at night...... His temple was inherited and he had two jobs. ”

Chihara Rin was speechless, the monk of this book is really a magical creature, I didn't dare to think about the drama "9 to 5: The Monk Falls in Love with Me" before, and I was afraid of being besieged by the monk of the book (80% of the people in this book are Buddhists and have a lot of influence), now look at it, I really think too much, it is estimated that the monk does not care about this kind of thing at all.

It doesn't look like a serious monk, and it doesn't seem to be a serious monk at all.

Bai Ma Ningzi is quite accustomed to it, it is estimated that she has lived in the temple since she was a child, and this kind of part-time monk has seen a lot, so she looked around directly, and smiled at Chihara Rinto: "Okay, Chihara-kun, the business is done, let's go to the cultivation activities together."

She is now very close to Rin Chihara, and she doesn't shy away from anything, she directly pinched his brows, "You seem to be in good shape, but I don't know why, I always feel that you are tired, you should relax...... Seeing you this time, your eyebrows are not as energetic as last time, and you were still injured last time!"

Rin Chihara actually feels that as long as he is with Hakuma Ningzi, he feels that he is resting, and he has always been very relaxed, but Hakuma Ningzi wants to do some activities, and he has no objection.

He immediately agreed: "Yes, what kind of spiritual activities are there?"

Bai Ma Ningzi smiled and said, "Come with me!"