Chapter Eighty-Seven: Seeing the Parents for an Appointment
After receiving Xia Li's call, Qin Weiran was stunned in the face of this "rude" request.
She likes to chase dramas, read novels, essays, etc., and sometimes watch a movie with Xia Yao, go shopping and eat, and come to a sister game. The relationship between her and Xia Yao's mother and daughter has always been very harmonious, Qin Weiran is willing to accept new things, and she has a lot of common language with Xia Yao.
She once tried to understand why Xia Yao was so obsessed with Ouyang Xun. The young man is really good-looking, he has nothing to say, and he can't find any fault with his facial features, but Qin Weiran's age and experience and psychological maturity are there, so he naturally won't be overjoyed;
Xia Yao repeatedly emphasized that he had lyrical songs, and he insisted on pulling Qin Weiran to listen to them a few times.
Qin Weiran: It's good. The voice is really penetrating and attractive, and the singing skills are good, but there are too few lyrical songs to love.
She has always liked to listen to elegant and soothing. What's more, Ouyang Xun's black bubble is still very dark, Satan, the devil, hell, curses, and he has to see blood at every turn, because vampires often haunt him...... This is how Qin Weiran likes it.
So, understand Xia Yao's failure to chase stars.
When the child grows up and falls in love, he will not chase stars. She had thought so.
Xia Li didn't have the same young and open mind. Watching TV is nothing more than news, anti-Japanese war films, and a hundred pulpits; reading books, history, and politics. Sorry, don't listen to music.
If it weren't for such a baby daughter, held in the palm of his hand and petted, he would never allow her to chase stars.
His greatest wish is that his baby daughter Xia Yao is safe, healthy and happy. The first two, safe and healthy, are doing well at the moment, as for happiness. When Xia Yao mentioned Ouyang Xun, when she said at home that she had a concert to watch, it was real happiness, her eyes were shining, her whole person was radiant, she won the first-class lottery, and the person who achieved her life's goal was nothing more than that.
Such a big happiness can be achieved by relying on the word "Ouyang Xun", Xia Li thought about it, and he saw all kinds of Xia Yao in the past few years - his daughter wants to chase stars, chase it. That's why chasing stars can give her so much joy.
At this time, Xia Li suddenly called Qin Weiran to download Weibo, and it was really the sun coming out of the west.
After downloading the Weibo app with a skeptical attitude and logging in with an account, Qin Weiran knew why.
My baby daughter is so capable, and she has succeeded in chasing stars?
Not to mention that Xia Yao is so happy that she doubts her life, she is a mother, a bystander, and she doubts whether her daughter has such luck.
I'm afraid this kid will not be planted in chasing stars for the rest of his life.
Wait until the first time you fall in love, don't chase stars? I'm sorry, she's too naïve, and she's a fool of dreams. Xia Yao told her with practical actions that it was impossible for her to give up chasing stars. She wants to turn her idol into her husband and chase stars for a lifetime.
Qin Weiran fidgeted in the office for a while on her phone, or Weibo to be exact, before deciding to take a leave of absence and go to Xia Li's office.
Because the discussion couldn't be made - for the two newcomers who had just arrived on Weibo, they didn't know how to rummage for information in this treasure land, so the couple decided to call Xia Yao.
After Xia Yao answered, Xia Li's first sentence: "Yaoyao, is that really you on the Internet?"
Qin Weiran: ......
Don't you know your own daughter? This old man's ability to accept is not as strong as hers. I don't know how I have the ability to fight to the death with others in society, but as soon as I meet my daughter, I wilt.
"Yes. Xia Yao replied honestly, "I met twice before, and by chance I helped him shoot the MV, and then he ......."
"Did you get together by chance?" Hearing her embarrassment, Qin Weiran answered, and her tone was very interesting.
Xia Li glanced at her.
"Hmm—almost. "If you want Xia Yao to explain clearly how they are together, she won't be able to figure out her thoughts for a while.
Why are we still paying attention to together? There is no why, this is fate.
"The person you're chasing. Qin Weiran became more and more interested.
This is not an interrogative sentence. She hadn't been to the concert site, but she had seen Xia Yao's nervous appearance at home.
Whenever Ouyang Xun doesn't have a concert, Xia Yao's addiction to chasing stars is as "hungry/thirsty/difficult/enduring" as when the old smoker is addicted to cigarettes, so she can only find a way to vent at home.
The MV or live video on the computer is turned on at one point, the lights are turned off, the support stick is lifted, the periphery or something, the hair ring doll is all kinds of sets on the body, I can come to a concert, and the roar is earth-shattering.
If she had followed Xia Yao to the scene, she would not have said this sentence at the moment, and would have asked her, have you ever been strong against others......
Xia Li glanced at her again, and held the phone away from Qin Weiran—did he look like an elder.
He was about to get up and avoid Qin Weiran's "pursuit" of the mobile phone, when Xia Yao's answer came, and he directly froze in a half-standing posture.
"It's not. ”
Qin Weiran is good now, and snatched the phone while Xia Li was not paying attention: "Isn't it?
Xia Yao: "......"
Tang Wan, who heard it clearly on the side: "......"
Mommy. I know my daughter too well.
"Yaoyao, remember to protect yourself. Xia Li explained earnestly. Girl, another person outside.
"I know, Dad. She could understand Xia Li's good intentions.
"Dad doesn't object to falling in love," Xia Li continued, ignoring Qin Weiran's action to shut him up, "But if you're in love with a celebrity, Dad is worried that you'll be wronged." ”
Xia Yao sighed quietly. The elder's reaction, she expected.
"I've seen them all on the Internet. This should have been a private matter, just because the other party is a public figure, and now it is all exposed to the public eye and has become a topic of conversation after dinner. Xia Li refers to the intimate photos of Xia Yao and Ouyang Xun being secretly taken.
This is something he can't accept anyway. Xia Yao is originally conservative, and in a traditional Chinese family, holding hands and hugging Qin Weiran will not be done in the presence of a third party - except when she was in love back then. Hand in hand on the road.
But kissing, in his concept, must be an absolute two-person world, otherwise, shame or not? Girls should pay more attention.
"But I like him. He has already gone to the negotiations, and the negative comments have been suppressed. Before Universal Studios played together and was photographed, he contacted the media in time and coded all the photos with me. This time, someone deliberately tried to fix me, but he had already dealt with it. ”
Sentence by sentence towards Ouyang Xun.
Xia Li felt very bad when he heard it, he had just fallen in love, and he was already defending Ouyang Xun everywhere, so where would his father's status go?
Ouyang Xun is a male "fox spirit", and his daughter must have a lot of opponents. It is better for him to ask less about young people, and he may not understand it if he asks.
In the past, it was already a lot of trouble to solve things with fists, but now, if you want to do something?
"You're already an adult, and your parents don't object to your decision, but remember, don't act impulsively and think it through. If you want to discuss with us, you can call at any time regardless of the jet lag. Remember, protect yourself. Xia Li explained in a deep voice.
Today's children have a lot of ideas and are very assertive. He has seen his friends discipline their children too much and make the family jump, and the children are even more rebellious, deliberately doing the opposite, too much.
It's better to be polite to children, no matter how you say it, they are all adults. A few decades ago, at this age, they were already married, had children, and became parents, and it was not an exaggeration to let them make their own decisions and be responsible for the consequences of their decisions.
Of course, the concepts of letting go a little more and giving children more independent choices are indispensable to Qin Weiran's contributions.
It has to do with her profession and profession.
Doctor of Psychology. Specializing in regulating the psychological pressure of adolescents and the conflicts between adolescents and their parents - in recent years, more and more people have come to consult and consult.
Xia Yao obediently agreed to Xia Li.
It's really hard to be a parent. I want to take out my whole heart and give it to the child, but I am afraid that the child will dislike it and restrain it too much. Children want to be filial and want their parents to go well, but at the same time, they also have their own ideas and pursuits.
If both sides make a little concession, it will be harmonious. -for-tat will only turn this strong family affection into conflict.
"It's not early, rest early. ”
Xia Li was about to hang up the phone.
Here, Qin Weiran came over again at some point, and hurriedly shouted into the phone: "The MV is so good-looking!
Xia Li: "......"
Xia Yao laughed directly, and so did Tang Wan. It's so cute.
I don't know if it's the reason for Xia Yao's appearance, or the charm of the song itself, in short, Qin Weiran likes this "Gold Coast" very much. At present, he couldn't help humming the song of "Gold Coast" and wandering around Xia Li's office.
Xia Li, who basically never listens to music, knows that she is singing "Huang Jian Coast", don't ask him how he knows......
"That's right. ”
Xia Yao was about to hang up the phone when Xia Li's voice came again.
"Dad, you say. She put her phone back to her ear.
"If you're sure it's him, I'll bring him back for the summer vacation. ”