Chapter 293: All Things Negative Yin and Embrace Yang
Lu Dongye frowned slightly.
He knew that Chen Muqian had a good relationship with You Xiaohu in private.
But I didn't expect Chen Muqian to tell You Xiaohu about herself.
He didn't blame Chen Muqian for deliberately leaking his privacy.
It's just a little worried that Chen Muqian's way of making a statement is not good, and it may not play a positive role in You Xiaohu.
Therefore, Lu Dongye asked, "What did Teacher Chen tell you? In this way, you can tell me the process of communication between the two of you." ”
"Oh, that's right, didn't I come out of Principal Lu's office in the morning, and during recess, Teacher Chen saw that I was unhappy, so he asked me what was wrong, and then I said. ”
You Xiaohu originally said: "Teacher Chen said: 'What's the big deal, you Principal Lu has been working for self-sufficiency since junior high school, compulsory education does not charge tuition, just miscellaneous expenses and living expenses, which don't cost much, it's very profitable, don't have pressure!"
He learned Chen Muqian's tone and tone, and he couldn't help but look a little funny.
But Lu Dongye's brows were furrowed, but he followed.
Chen Muqian's personality is still too big!!
She hadn't experienced it herself, and she didn't know what was going on.
It seems to be really simple.
However, Lu Dongye also understands that Chen Muqian told You Xiaohu like this, which also gave him a hope and made him not have too much pressure.
But this way is really a bit inappropriate.
"Principal Lu......"
You Xiaohu saw that Lu Dongye didn't speak, and couldn't help asking, "Is it true, what Teacher Chen said is not right?"
She was right. ”
Lu Dongye came back to his senses and smiled: "There are some places that I need to add." ”
You Xiaohu suddenly wondered, "What to add?"
"That's right, let me tell you first, when I first entered junior high school, my living expenses were still paid by the old principal. ”
Lu Dongye explained: "Because the education model of our primary school is different from the traditional primary school, which is a six-year system, and each year learns different content, and we, as you know, all the students sit in the same classroom.
As a result, some content cannot be taught comprehensively, so there is a week of intensive tutoring before the junior high school exam.
Therefore, when we first entered junior high school, we had to spend a lot of energy to keep up with our studies, and we simply had no time to work part-time to earn money. ”
You Xiaohu was stunned: "...... Then, what about Principal Lu?"
"It was actually hard later. ”
Lu Dongye sighed: "There are no adults, in fact, not many people dare to hire you, because it is illegal to hire child labor, so it was difficult for me to work part-time at that time, most of my income was basically in school, and I relied on picking up waste to sell for money, no matter what, in the past three years of junior high school, I need someone to give financial support." ”
In fact, Lu Dongye told You Xiaohu's grandmother in the morning that You Xiaohu could also work part-time, which was just to comfort the old man's insecure heart.
This kind of thing is really to do, but it's not as simple as it says.
You Xiaohu was suddenly in trouble.
"Students, you must focus on your studies, especially in the three years of junior high school, you must lay a good foundation for yourself. ”
Lu Dongye emphatically emphasized: "Don't worry, don't you have too much pressure, can't your grandmother still make money for you?" I won't let her work too hard, you must not always think about making money, you must study hard, understand?"
The biggest problem with Chen Muqian's words is that she made You Xiaohu's mind full of the idea of part-time work.
However, learning is what students should do.
If the cart is turned upside down, it is not a good thing for You Xiaohu at all.
The chain reaction is that you can't make a lot of money from your part-time job, and as a result, your studies are wasted.
If that happens, his grandmother's hard work will really be wasted.
"I see. ”
You Xiaohu listened very carefully, but there was still a little doubt on his face: "You can work part-time in high school, right?"
"Well, my first real part-time job started in the second year of high school, in fact, I didn't make too much money, you don't have too much expectations, the high school course is still very intense, and when I am admitted to college, I will have more time to work part-time. ”
Lu Dongye explained: "I know what you are worried about, don't worry, when necessary, I will lend you some money in the name of the school, and when you graduate and make money in the future, I will return it to the school, no matter how many years, I promise not to charge a cent of interest, you can rest assured." ”
Sure enough, when he heard Lu Dongye's words, You Xiaohu's face finally showed a smile again.
......
After You Xiaohu left, Lu Dongye took the time to find Chen Muqian.
"I said you, don't tell those children about my part-time job. ”
As soon as Lu Dongye saw Chen Muqian's face, he immediately gave him a lesson: "What if they are full of part-time jobs and make money, and they don't have the heart to continue studying?"
"!"
Chen Muqian was very unconvinced: "Your thing is obviously positive, sunny, and positive energy, okay? Why did it get into your mouth, I said this, it became a bad thing?!"
Lu Dongye said helplessly: "There is a sentence in the Tao Te Ching called 'All things are negative yin and embrace yang', where there is light, there is shadow, that is to say, everything has advantages and disadvantages, there are good sides and bad sides, my thrifty work and study is indeed a good side, but can you guarantee that everyone sees the good side?"
"It's not good!"
Chen Muqian still didn't understand, and blinked and said, "Why can't I see the bad side." ”
"Then you are because you have not been poor. ”
Lu Dongye directly pointed out the key point in one sentence: "But what about the children? As soon as you go out, you will find that there are material temptations everywhere, they are not like you, they have experienced everything since childhood, and whatever you want, as long as you open your mouth, your family will buy it for you."
They're different, they've never experienced it, they want to experience it, and no one buys it for them, so what?
I've experienced this firsthand, and I've seen many of them!
There were many classmates who were with me at that time and went out from the village, and their grades in junior high school were better than mine, but as a result, in order to get what they wanted, they began to spend more energy and make money.
In the end, my grades became worse and worse, and I eventually dropped out of school, there are really many such examples, I clearly understand the psychology of children in the mountains, and I even hope that they had better not know too early, in this world, there are part-time jobs. ”
Chen Muqian was speechless for an instant.
After a moment, the corners of her mouth twitched: "...... Well, I'm sorry, I didn't think of that. ”
"Whew-"
Lu Dongye breathed a sigh of relief, and his tone softened suddenly: "It's okay, it's not too late for you to understand now." ”
Chen Muqian patted her chest, and immediately looked happy: "Fortunately, I only told You Xiaohu, I originally planned to take You Xiaohu as an example in class tomorrow to motivate other children, fortunately!! Fortunately, you contacted me in time!"
Lu Dongye threw a helpless look at her: "What do you want to do in the future, try to discuss it with me in advance, I know you have no bad intentions, you are all for the good of the child." ”
"Okay, no problem. ”
Chen Muqian's head was like a chicken pecking rice.
But the next moment, she suddenly smiled proudly: "Ha! He is worthy of the man that the old lady has taken a fancy to!
“......”
Lu Dongye was speechless for an instant: "Chen Muqian, you are enough...... You can boast about this?"