"Huh? ”

The old headmaster was as calm as he remembered.

It seems that in this world, there is nothing that can stump him.

Lu Dongye sat cross-legged on the ground and looked up at the old principal: "That's it, You Xiaohu told me just now that his father didn't want him to continue studying, but he still wanted to read, I thought, should I respect his parents' ideas, or should I meet You Xiaohu's needs?"

Although, it is true that reading is the only way out for poor children.

But the problem is that some parents don't want their children to have a good future.

They only hope that they can tie their children to their side, so that they can have someone to take care of in their old age.

Because many children who have a good life, in the end, they are only left with verbal concern for their parents.

They are either busy with work or because they have started a family.

In short, none of them can be by their parents' side in their old age.

These are all pretty good.

What's more, desperately forwarded on the Internet, all kinds of touching family stories, and even words to express how touched they were.

But he dislikes his parents for being dirty and old.

Filial piety on the Internet, this kind of ironic label, is actually quite a lot in reality.

Sometimes, Lu Dongye is also thinking about whether he should respect the children's ideas, or whether he should consider it from the perspective of their parents.

To put it mildly, if in the future, You Xiaohu may have a bright future and study abroad...... And so on.

He will be bound to be cut off from his family's life, then.

And most of what the elderly need in their later years is not how rich the economy is.

They need companionship and they need real love to take care of.

Those who ask a nanny to take care of the elderly are abused by the nanny;

Sent to a nursing home, but being treated violently, almost every year.

I am afraid that the only people who really want to send the elderly to the end are their own children.

"Winter Night, tell me first, how did you answer You Xiaohu?"

The old headmaster spoke.

Lu Dongye said without hesitation: "I told him, let him study with peace of mind, and I will convince his father." ”

That's all he could say at the time.

After all, you can't let a little child go through the sad time until his father returns, right?

True thoughts, many times, cannot be said at once, and the feelings of the other person must be considered.

As for that task...... Lu Dongye actually didn't care in his heart.

If you can do it, you can do it, and if you can't do it, it's nothing.

He cares more about the growth of the children and whether the children's families are harmonious.

If he ignores You Xiaohu's father's thoughts, he forcibly satisfies You Xiaohu and lets him continue to go to school.

That is a kind of separation for his original family.

As an educator, you must not take the initiative to destroy other people's families.

That's the bottom line!

Secondly, it is to educate and counsel the students under him and impart knowledge to them.

"Well, you're steady, I'm relieved. ”

The old principal first praised Lu Dongye, and then suddenly sighed: "...... You Xiaohu, his situation is a bit complicated. ”

"Oh, what's going on?"

Lu Dongye asked carefully: "I know that he doesn't seem to have a mother, right? In fact, I also considered that if his father picked him up again, his grandmother would really become alone." ”

In fact, Lu Dongye really thought about it a lot.

You Xiaohu is now attending Nanling Primary School.

Every day when he goes home, he can also share the housework for his elderly grandmother, and chat with the elderly to relieve boredom.

But if he went to the town to live in school and go to junior high school, then his grandmother would be left alone.

And if he agrees with his father and takes him away, Lu Dongye will definitely try his best to let them take the old man away and take care of him.

But if Lu Dongye ignored You Xiaohu's father's feelings and blindly satisfied You Xiaohu's idea of studying.

You Xiaohu, who had no mother, didn't he also lose his father?

Therefore, Lu Dongye came to consult the old principal.

Because he couldn't think of a perfect solution.

I always feel that if I take care of this end, I can't take care of that end, and there is always something difficult to satisfy.

"That's right, when You Xiaohu entered school at that time, you should have been in high school at that time, right? ”

The old headmaster pondered and said, "His father...... It's the most slamming bad guy I've ever seen, and I've never seen a guy like him who takes slamming the door to the extreme. ”

“...... Knocking on the door?"

Lu Dongye really didn't expect it.

Before he took over the school, You Xiaohu had already gone to school here, and he was not in charge of going to school, so he didn't know the specific situation.

After taking over the school, I only learned about each child's situation from the file.

I only have a general impression in my mind.

At this time, when he heard the old principal say this, he couldn't help but be interested.

"You Xiaohu, me, that's how you go......"

The old principal's aged eyes revealed a trace of recollection: "Back then, when you were still in junior high school, You Xiaohu had just been born, and the child was bleeding heavily in the hospital. ”

"Scolded?"

Lu Dongye really didn't understand: "Why is he still scolded when he bleeds heavily?"

The old principal snorted suddenly, showing a rare hostility: "Because of the child's father, it took too much money to save her." ”

Lu Dongye was silent for a moment.

In many places, there are still not a few men who use women as reproductive tools.

They don't care if a woman lives or dies.

As long as the children can be born, it can serve the purpose of passing on the family to their ancestors, it is enough.

This is simply the greatest sorrow.

Later, the child's mother picked up a life, and the child's father desperately squeezed her, asking her to earn back the money for hospitalization, and didn't give her food, thinking that she ate too much. ”

The old principal sighed: "At that time, she often secretly came to the school to steal food, I only knew what happened to her, hey, but, the school's economic situation at that time was not well-off, and later, she was starved to death, as a result, when she was buried, the child's father still didn't want to spend money, so he buried it casually in the back mountain." ”

"It's not really related to slamming the door, right? Isn't this a typical scum?"

Lu Dongye didn't expect that You Xiaohu's father would be this kind of person, and he couldn't help but be a little angry.

But after being angry, he could only sigh: "I understand that in that era, the status of women was really low, but there were still a few people who really didn't regard their wives as people, right?"

The old headmaster nodded and continued, "Scum, yes, this word is accurate...... His slamming of the door is also reflected in his treatment of his old mother, not to mention the tight clothing and food, he will come back to grab her old mother's subsistence money. ”

"This is simply the best scum!"

Lu Dongye suddenly said categorically: "Then it seems that he must not be allowed to take You Xiaohu away." ”

The old principal nodded: "He has never taken care of the child, You Xiaohu has always been brought up by his grandmother, and now he sees that the child has grown up and has the strength to help him work, so he thinks about taking the child away." ”

As soon as he heard this, Lu Dongye's attitude couldn't help but become more firm: "Then you can't let him take You Xiaohu away!!"