Chapter 366: Is the First Marriage Important?

"That's a must, son, you have to have your own character, come on!" Vanilla encouraged Xiaoqiang and watched her little son walk out of the kitchen with a majestic spirit.

"You teach your children one by one, is that good?" Yi Zichen looked at his little daughter-in-law, cheering up, how could she look like a mother of several children?

"I don't like to listen to what you say, this is not to teach children a set, this is to interact with children, do you understand? Children don't understand, in the process of growing up, they will be distracted by whatever you say, you don't need to raise your voice, put aside that shouting, prove that you are a mother, a father, you can treat them as friends, tell him what to do? So that children will not only believe you, but also feel that they have a sense of existence, you learn a little! Be careful that the children will be good to me in the future, and they will stay away from you, see what you do?"

Vanilla can't stand the adults shouting and screaming with the children, proving that they are parents, they have the right to say children, when she thinks of such a picture, her brain is buzzing, her educational philosophy is different from others, she wants to treat her children as her good friends, and she wants to change the children's bad problems in the interaction, so that they can grow up happily.

"I mean you can't do it, your mouth is closed one by one, and it will all be under your control in the future, I don't care, I'll use all my energy on you, do you think this will work?"

"Do you know why all children like to be good with their mothers and not with their fathers? The reason is the same as what you think now, you don't care to communicate with your children, but you push everything to the other half, so how can the children rest assured that they are good to you? The children are not cats and puppies, you don't care, you wait for them to be with you, okay?" Vanilla thought that her heart was quite big, but she didn't expect the man in front of her to have a bigger heart, which really made her speechless.

"What should I do after that? Can you teach me to do it? I'm a big man, what do I know? I can't use up all my thoughts on you in a day, how can I still think about the children? Anyway, my daughter-in-law is omnipotent, and she will worry about everything. Yi Zichen teased the vanilla with a hippie smile at close range.

"Take your big face away! Why is your face so big? You are not ashamed to panic when you say this? Why are you embarrassed to let me take care of all the five children in Canada? How busy I am this day, I will take care of the girls and the boys, and this little boy should not be taken care of by his mother, and after a long time, he has no manly spirit at all, and he has become like a girl, so what will it look like? It's not that you don't want to work hard, it's just that when you get off work, you put your focus on your children, work hard when you work, and live seriously after work without delay. ”

"The environment we are in is different, I am in charge of a village, the management is more complicated, more chaotic, so I don't distinguish between time, place and occasion, I have always been in a working state, but you are different, you have a place to work, there is also a point to get off work, so you have to make reasonable arrangements. "Vanilla is reasonable, and they are all on the bright side, so that her men can understand it.

"Stop my daughter-in-law, can you say the same thing, I do the same? You muttered a lot of words, so that I can adapt to it? The teacher has taught me since I was a child that I can't use two minds, so when I grow so big, I won't be distracted, you teach me slowly, learn slowly, anyway, there is time. The man said, his hand on her hand dishonestly, touching back and forth.

"Get up, let's cook, I'm hungry for a long time, and I can't hear my stomach crying. Vanilla said and blushed like an apple, this big man moved his hands and feet at every turn, making them not like a husband and wife, but like a couple, which was particularly uncomfortable.

Yi Zichen couldn't help but tease her little daughter-in-law when she saw it, so she simply stopped teasing her, "Tonight I made your favorite kidney bean stewed pot, stewed in a dry pot, do it well, I'm studying." ”

"I don't pick, just eat it, I can eat a ready-made meal when I come back, I'm already very content, and it's also a meal cooked by Yi Ju himself, this face is really big!" Vanilla said and chewed a cucumber in the basin, her stomach was already screaming, she was busy this day, and she didn't eat a serious meal, and now it's hard to get fat.

"By the way, Xiaoyang's marriage has been decided, have you packed up all the things? Have you all done it? You didn't ask if you need your help? Good brothers are talking all day long, people have good things to do when they get married, don't look at it and don't help. Vanilla calmed down before she thought about something else.

"It's almost the same, I asked, isn't it the main thing that they don't get on the sedan car first and then make up the ticket? It's a little anxious, a little hasty, this kid is really ha, he doesn't talk much on weekdays, this gnaws hard, no one can do it?" Yi Zichen is willing to bow down in this regard, the object of that place, although the time of the place is not long, but it has not been settled, and he doesn't even dare to hold his hand, how can it be like now, there is not a few years of time difference, it is like this, Fengzi got married, there are really two times.

"Don't say that, say that word from your mouth, make it look like Xiaoyang is not serious, like this rhythm, everyone will slowly adapt to it in the future, it's not a big deal now, you wait, you have to try marriage in the future." Vanilla said as she looked at the man.

"What is a trial marriage? I haven't heard of it! Tell me about it, it makes me itch and be curious. Yi Zichen suddenly became interested, he really wanted to know what a trial marriage was.

"You don't know what the trial marriage is? Then the trial marriage is not to get married first, try to get married, live well, get married when it is suitable, if it is not good, it is not suitable to pat the ass and leave, and the road will go to one side, and no one will delay anyone? Isn't this good?" Vanilla said casually what she understood.

"You can tell me this, what kind of messy play, what you say is irresponsible for marriage, then it is called improper, do you know? If it is not suitable, then look for it again, and when you go to someone else's home, what kind of person will it be? If you are pregnant, when the time comes, buy one and get one free?" Yi Zichen very disagrees with Vanilla saying this, such a thing cannot happen in the future, then the society will not be chaotic.

"Antique, there's nothing wrong with using it on you, it's no more suitable, but what about getting divorced and getting married after the end? Isn't that a normal thing? If you like someone, you have to be physically and mentally calm? That person is good! I'll make an analogy, you listen. ”