Chapter 866: Three Views Must Be Correct

"That's okay, you give me a beat, just beat my calves, I really don't understand, why do you girls like shopping so much, and you don't get tired after four or five hours of shopping. "It's a little hard to understand the creature of the girl when you wake up.

Sometimes girls look very weak and can't even unscrew a bottle cap, but once they get to the mall, they feel better, their legs don't hurt, their waist is sore, and they are full of energy.

This only has something to do with gender, and it doesn't seem to have anything to do with age, or at home or abroad.

"The nature of a girl is to go shopping, like beautiful clothes, good-looking shoes, of course I am full of energy when I encounter something I am interested in, and I will not feel tired, but to be honest, now that I am back, I also feel a little pain in my legs and a little sore waist. Su Min pinched her legs with Su Xing, "Brother, are you very good at school, and many people worship you?"

"So-so, not everyone knows me, after all, everyone has their own lives, it is impossible to focus on me, only people in specific areas, or who have special needs in this area, will know about me. Su Xing said, "And fame is not the bigger the better, although it will be more convenient to do some other things after having fame, but fame is also a kind of constraint, fame is destined to do many things can not be done with your hands, and the slightest mistake will be shattered." ”

A good person does 100 good things, but once he does something wrong, he will immediately be pointed out by a thousand people, saying that he has revealed his true nature and has been pretending to be good before, but a bad person has done 100 bad things, as long as he has done a good deed, he can become a Buddha on the ground, and he will be praised by others, saying that he has a pure nature.

Many things are not white or black, but few people look at things and just comment on things alone, most of them see a thatched pit, and say that the whole world is a thatched pit.

If you have fame and are noticed by most people, you are destined not to be able to do what you like, and you can't help yourself, and you will obey the public's ideas and do what the public asks you to do.

It can be said that people who pay attention to reputation will be swayed by reputation in this life, and it is difficult to be a simple self, just a puppet.

"Then are you the richest man in the school, there should be no one in your school who is richer than you, right?" asked Su Min.

"How is it possible, there must be people who are richer than me, Peking University has been open for so many years, one class after another of students, there are many outstanding ones, and now some bigwigs have opened film and television companies, some have opened energy companies, and some have done other businesses, with assets of more than 10 billion, more than 100 billion, but at my age, there are relatively few people who can have so much wealth from me. Su Xing shook his head, "And you think that people who are rich will shout and say how rich they are? ”

The Hurun Rich List, as well as some other rich lists, only counts the wealth of the rich who are willing to be counted, and there are some hidden rich people who do not disclose the family's wealth at all.

The reason why he is willing to expose his wealth and is not worried about being known by the public is because he wants to use this wealth list to enhance the image of the company and increase the influence of the company.

Take the real estate company as an example, if a real estate developer is not famous, whether it is a resident or a partner, the real estate developer will be suspicious, and it is inevitable that there will be a situation when cooperating, and it is possible to terminate the cooperation in the end, but if it enters the wealth list, it will give people a strong hint that the company is very good, which is very helpful to its own brand.

"Brother, how is the relationship between you and Sister Xiaojun, has you always been very stable, won't you quarrel?"

"I won't quarrel, I met her when I was in high school, so far, the two of us have never quarreled, never blushed, sometimes when there is a dispute, we will calmly discuss, analyze and analyze, and see who makes sense. Su Xing nodded, he and Tong Wangjun have known each other for so long, and indeed they haven't quarreled once, and the two of them get along very happily.

When I was young, I was often attracted by the flirting couples on TV when I watched TV, and I felt that it was not bad to find a girl who often quarreled with me, which was very romantic, but in fact, when I had a girlfriend, I would find that flirting and scolding sometimes rose to the point of quarreling, and romance was naturally impossible to talk about.

If it sounds good, it is flirting, and if it is ugly, it is actually a dispute and a quarrel.

Ordinary people really can't stand this kind of life, they just watch it on TV.

This thing is like a daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law is always good for others, and her own daughter-in-law is not good.

It's really lucky to be able to find someone who is on par with you, who won't quarrel over a trivial matter, and who is arguing with you.

"I envy you so much, but shouldn't you let Sister Xiaojun go?Why did you two have to discuss it when there was a dispute?"

"Look at what's going on, if it's something inconsequential, it's casual, listen to me and listen to her, it's not much different, if it involves three views, and there are issues of principle, you must analyze it, put the advantages and disadvantages, the pros and cons of things on the table, and finally choose the best way for the two parties to solve this matter. Su Xing said.

"Let's take a simple example, let's say that if you talk about the road, should you follow the rules, stop at a red light and go at a green light, or should you be flexible, if it is a red light, but there is no car nearby, can you run the red light directly?"

"I think if there are no cars nearby, you should be able to go straight to the red light, right?" Su Min said.

"I don't think so, I think even if it's a red light, there is no car nearby, you should stop, wait until the green light and then pass, delay a minute or two will not have much impact on yourself, but if you run a red light, even if there is no danger, but this kind of behavior is a violation of the rules, just like people, sometimes there is no big problem if you do something untrustworthy, but once you do it once, there may be a second time, the number of dishonesty is more, and there will always be a day when you will suffer the consequences and pay for your actions. ”

"Sister Xiaojun wouldn't do such a thing, she definitely wouldn't wear a red light. Su Min said.

"I'm just giving you an example of how sometimes you shouldn't just focus on men and women, but you should still do things with principles. Su Xing said, "Just like you, don't be unreasonable when you talk about your boyfriend in the future, your purpose in talking about your boyfriend should not be for your boyfriend to take care of you, but for two people to work together for a better life, and you must have a correct view." ”

Reborn My 1999

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