Praise for the wonderful power of Zhang Baotong compiled 2019.3.9

A young housewife said to her neighbors, "If Bill could praise me, my life would be much happier." ”

Indeed, few of us recognize how much we need encouragement. Moreover, we ourselves want to enjoy life with constant praise and recognition, otherwise, we will lose the self-confidence we deserve. All of us want to be needed and respected. But if we don't hear his praise, how can we know if we are a useful colleague and friend to others?

People who want to improve their relationships with others need to show their empathy and understanding to others. Keep looking for the sparkle in the person you respect and praise, and tell them about it.

Each of us has a rational impression of ourselves and our self-image. When we feel confident and feel good about our self-image, we maximize our self-performance, and when we feel ashamed of our self-image, we try to cover it up rather than show it. As a result, we become difficult to cope with and get along with. The person who receives praise will be kinder and more harmonious with the people around him, and praise is a polishing agent that keeps one's self-image clean and shiny.

Praise can cause miracles in others and boost their self-esteem. At the same time, it also makes him have a good impression of you and volunteer to cooperate with you. So, there's a piece of advice that says, "The best way to make others happy is to make yourself happy." ”

The role of praise is indeed significant. A new pastor often tells his parishioners how friendly and hospitable they are, making the usually indifferent parishioners warm and friendly.

Honesty is the basis of praise. It will add strength to praise and can help people erase the rifts in their daily contacts. In life, the value of praise is often overlooked, and its effect is far less than in other situations, and this is an important secret of family harmony and happiness, and children especially need praise and appreciation. Be impatient to spot the good aspects of the children and praise them. In this way, you will find that his abilities and attitude will improve significantly. And praise as encouragement is the best way to motivate people to do their best to do something.

The artist's pleasure is to present beauty to others, so anyone who is familiar with praising this art will find that giving praise to others will reap the same benefits as the recipient. There is a saying that reveals such a truth: "Flowers will always leave part of their fragrance in the hands of the giver." ”

There is indeed a great art of how to praise others. A classic example: there is an English countess who is very beautiful and will be the envy and attention of people wherever she goes. Therefore, everywhere I went, the praise followed me like a shadow, and I heard it endlessly. Once, she was riding a horse-drawn carriage to visit a friend, and when she got off the bus at the door, she happened to meet a road sweeper. The man was holding a lighter and was about to light a cigarette. When he saw the Countess get out of the car, he was amazed by her beauty. The Countess's servant was astonished, and asked him what was the matter, and he came to his senses for a while, and said, "Her eyes light my pipe!"

In terms of human nature, we like to criticize others but do not like to listen to others' criticism, and we like to be praised but do not like to praise others. However, praise others will be praised by others. And praise not only allows us to discover what we are grateful for in life, but it also makes us feel that joy in life is everywhere. So, we have to work hard to learn to praise.