The marriage that exists in name only (the fifth strange marriage) Zhang Baotong 2016.5.3

In order to generate income, our school once held a childcare class for students who could not go home for lunch at noon, and was stopped by the inspection team of the district health bureau and the education bureau because the hygiene and facilities of the school canteen were not up to standard. As a result, the school asked the canteen in the opposite home city to deliver meals to the students. The young woman who delivered food to the students was also from Shanyang, named Wang Ying, twenty-six or seventeen years old, tall, white, very delicate and beautiful, and well-dressed. However, she was uneducated and didn't know a word. She ran away from home half a year ago and ran out of her hometown in Shanyang. Because of illiterate, no relatives, came to Xi'an after staying in the station square for an afternoon, later, a middle-aged man took the initiative to talk to her, knowing that she ran out of home, he led her to the hotel to arrange accommodation, the next morning, and led her to a friend in the home city, to help her arrange work in the big restaurant in the home city.

Because she brings meals to our students every day, we are familiar with it. She told me why she ran out of the house. Her marriage is marked by the tragedy of abandonment. She said that when she was 16 years old, she went to the county seat to buy things, and because she was beautiful, she was met by the son of a county-level leader named Cui Can in the county. At that time, Cui Can was only 18 years old and was preparing to take the college entrance examination. However, Cui Can does not like to study, but likes to eat, drink and hang out. After seeing her, they led her to play together for three days, so they often had sex together. This actually laid a big hidden danger for her later body and life.

Cui Can often skips school and takes her to stay or go shopping. The relationship between the two of them was maintained until Cui Chan graduated from high school and joined the work. Originally, Wang Ying was counting on Cui Can to marry her. However, Cui Can's parents have chosen a girl for him to work in a bank. Soon they were married. At this time, Wang Ying had no hope. But she was taken by Lei Ming, who drove a taxi in the county, and the two got married after a passionate relationship. A few years before they got married, the two lived very harmoniously and had a son. Her husband drives to the county every day to run a car, and she has to cook the meal before her husband goes out every day, and then change the clothes for her husband to go out, and then she takes care of the housework at home, cooks the meal, and waits for her husband to come back to eat.

However, Wang Ying's biggest regret in this life is that she never went to school, and she can't even write her own name, because their family lives in the mountains, it is inconvenient to go to school, and her parents are busy in the field all day long, thinking that the girl will marry sooner or later, so let her stay at home and cook. Over time, she was delayed from going to school. Illiterate people not only have inconvenient lives, but also have a strong sense of inferiority. After getting married, she wanted to be good to her husband and her family with double her hospitality.

Of course, her husband can feel her virtuous and gentle, so he is also very kind to her. However, in the year or two when the child reaches the age of four or five, the husband has less and less time to come home, and he goes out earlier and earlier. She was a little weird, but she didn't go unnoticed. One day, someone told her that her husband had a woman outside, and he had rented a house in the county, and the girl had a baby. She was taken aback, and let the man take him to the county seat. Because the village where she lives is next to the road, only seven or eight kilometers away from the county seat, it is very convenient to take a car.

The man took her to a small two-story building on the back street of the county seat, pointed to a room and said that this was the house that her husband rented. She knocked on the door and went into the house, and saw a beautiful girl, who was about seventeen or eighteen years old, holding a little girl in her arms, who was more than a year old and could walk. When she entered the house, she asked if this was Lei Ming's house? The girl didn't know that she was Lei Ming's wife, so she said yes, and asked her if there was anything wrong with her.

So, she went home and called her sister-in-law together and came to the county seat to find her husband. They stood on the street and waited all afternoon, until late in the evening when they saw the old man come with a taxi, park the car downstairs, and go upstairs. So, she and her sister-in-law went into her husband's rental house. Now, the husband's outsourcing of raising women has all been exposed. That night, the in-laws called her husband home, scolded her husband angrily, and asked him to break off from the girl immediately and not have any more contact. The husband went back to negotiate with the girl. At first, the girl disagreed, and later offered to give her 100,000 yuan in compensation. What is the concept of 100,000 yuan for an ordinary peasant family? Of course, they refused to agree, and their family did not have 100,000 yuan. However, the girl insisted on disagreeing. If the girl didn't have that child, things might be much easier, but with that child, things are very troublesome. And a lot of people came to the girl's family and threatened their family. In the end, in order to settle the matter, the husband borrowed 100,000 yuan from the bank and gave it to the woman's family.

This incident made Wang Ying very annoyed, feeling that she was doing her best for her husband and her husband's family, but her husband was raising women outside, not only did she not earn much money in the past few years, but she lost 100,000 yuan to others at once. The more she thought about it, the more angry she became, and in a fit of rage, she ran away from home. At that time, her monthly salary was 400 yuan, she was in charge of food and housing, and she was not very tired from work. After working like this for less than a year, she suddenly found out that she was sick, and returned to her hometown county hospital for a check-up, and she had uterine fibroids and had to undergo surgery. The cost of the operation is 40,000 yuan. In order to block the air, she didn't let her husband come to see her, and she didn't want her husband to pay for her medical treatment, and her husband was busy earning money to repay the bank loan. So, this burden fell on the elder brother. Originally, my brother and sister-in-law were doing a small clothing business in the county, and their lives were going well. However, in order to treat her, her brother transferred the shop. Because my brother is just such a sister as her. Because as soon as the store was transferred, my brother had to go back to the mountains to farm. Therefore, the sister-in-law divorced her brother.

After the operation, Wang Ying lived at her aunt's house for a long time, because her aunt was a nurse in the hospital and lived in the county seat. However, because of a bad mood, Wang Ying did not recover well, and later the condition relapsed, and another operation was performed, which cost more than 20,000 yuan. Her illness ruined her family and her brother's family. In particular, my brother was killed the worst, because after the divorce, he didn't want to go home to farm, so he went to Chang'an County to be a son-in-law for others.

Wang Ying recuperated at home for two or three years, and then came out to work again. At that time, she asked me to help her find a job. I knew that her body could no longer do heavy work, so I helped her find some lighter work, but because she couldn't read, she couldn't do it. Later, I found her a job picking vegetables in the cafeteria, and before she could do it for two days, her mother died, and her father fell ill again. She had to go home and take care of her father. Originally, I thought she couldn't come out again. However, last year, she called me out of the blue, saying that she had come to Xi'an with her son and was working together in a hotel next to Tangcheng Hospital. She told me that she had been living in her husband's house all these years, but her husband lived outside and rarely went home, and he didn't live with her when he came home, and the two of them were like enemies. But she knew that her husband was actually still living with the original girl, but she didn't divorce her, for fear that the divorce would cause her a mental blow and make her life unsettled. And the in-laws did not agree to their divorce, because her son was already old, and they were counting on the boy to inherit the family business. And the girl on her husband's side gave birth to a girl, and it is impossible to inherit the family business for their family.

Because she has no education and poor health, the innkeeper only hired her alone, and more than 20 rooms are all cleaned up and managed by her, she often can't eat on time, has no rest time, and can't get off work normally, so she feels that the work is very hard and tiring. She also had a stomach ache for a while, a cold for a while, and a cough for a while because she was not in good health, but there was no way. Fortunately, her son is eighteen years old, and working with her makes her feel less lonely.