Chapter 910: The Matthew Effect of Poor Children and Rich Children (Medium)
The Matthew Effect of Poor Children and Rich ChildrenZhang Baotong 2018.8.31
Because his father was the director of the department, Chen Gang was assigned to the engineering technology department of the agency as a clerk after entering the engineering department. Li Aixia was originally in love with Tie Dan, but when she saw that Tie Dan suddenly lost her job, she immediately stopped paying attention to him and began to fall in love with Chen. Soon, the two got married. Li Aixia worked in the engineering team, and after getting married, she was transferred to the UNRWA hospital as a nurse.
Soon, the Agency wanted to recommend young people to study at the Bureau's Railway Engineering School, and Chen Gang was recommended to go to school. The school originally belonged to the nature of secondary school, and was upgraded to a junior college. Therefore, as soon as Chen finished his studies, he became a college student, which is one of the few technical professionals in the Agency.
At this time, he was assigned to the engineering team as a deputy captain, and he was regarded as the youngest deputy section-level cadre. Two years later, he was promoted to captain. Within a few years, the engineering department was renamed the engineering company, and the engineering team was renamed the engineering branch, and Chen Gang became the manager and commander of the engineering branch, and was a well-known deputy director-level leader of the engineering branch. At that time, Chen Gang was less than forty years old. And Li Aixia also touched Chen Gang's light, went to Taiyuan Railway Health School to study for two years, and came back to become the head nurse of the hospital. Not only did they live in the 130-square-meter three-bedroom, two-living room, two-bathroom director's building in the center of Hefei, the provincial capital, but their children also entered the best local middle school.
Because he can't come up with the money to contract, Tie Dan has been working for others all these years, and the salary is pitiful, not to mention, and he always looks at other people's faces, so life is very difficult. After breaking up with Li Aixia, he felt uncomfortable for a long time, and for a long time, he was disheartened and didn't want to get married. However, in order to live, you must get married. Because the Agency's girl had high eyes, he had to find a local girl with a mediocre appearance.
The girl also had a regular job, but the unit also closed down. Tie Dan doesn't like this girl very much, but this girl has been chasing Tie Dan. Tie Dan's mother also thinks that her son is twenty-seven or eighteen, and it is time to get married and start a family, although the family is poor, and the good ones can't be found, so it's okay to find one, so she urged Tie Dan to get married. Tie Dan stubbornly agreed to this family business. However, the girl's family is from Hunan, and her parents are very greedy for money, so they ask Tie Dan's family for things two times in three days, which makes Tie Dan very annoyed, but they still find a way to satisfy them. Originally, Tiedan's family was poor, but let the girl's family toss and toss the past, and spent one or two thousand yuan before getting married. But at that time, Tie Dan repaired cars for others, got up early and worked hard for a month to earn only 30 yuan.
When the wedding was about to be held, the woman's family asked for a bride price of 600 yuan. Tie Dan became irritable when he heard this, and immediately proposed that the marriage would not be concluded. So, the marriage of the two was left there. Later, because her daughter cried with her parents for three days and two days, and her daughter was older, she couldn't find a better man than Tiedan, so her parents saw that they couldn't help it, so they let their daughter marry Tiedan.
Because both of them are in a state of being laid off, they can only rely on working for one day if they have work today, and one day off if they don't work tomorrow. One can imagine how torturous it must have been. My mother was also a little old at this time. I can't go out to work for a long time, and my body has been too involved in the past, and I have fallen into a body of problems, rheumatoid arthritis, back pain, leg pain, and wrist pain. Because the family is poor, the daughter-in-law and the mother are incompatible with each other, and they quarrel when they meet. The daughter-in-law thought that her mother was too poor and did not leave them any property, and she was sick at both ends in three days, for fear that her mother-in-law would stick to them. The mother-in-law felt that her daughter-in-law was very stingy, and she only thought that she had failed to support them, and she never considered how she raised her son and helped them start a family.
For more than a decade, they, like their mother, had been living in an Agency's bungalow. In fact, the Agency's bungalows were almost demolished and six storeys were built. Almost all of the Agency's households have also moved to the new buildings. Only three or four bungalows remained in the corners, left for those who could not afford to buy a building. Because they and their mother had no money, they couldn't afford to buy a house, and they were still living in their old bungalows. Because the child is not good at studying, he leaves school after junior high school, and he can't find a job, so he mixes with his classmates all day long, and he doesn't see anything promising at all.
However, the polarization between Tie Dan and Chen Gang does not end there, because the Matthew effect of the rich getting richer and the poor getting poorer continues to play out.
Because you are in a state of being laid off, no one in the unit will take care of you, so no one will come to ask you about your health status, and no one will organize your annual physical examination, and they are busy with their livelihood all day long, how can they have time to think about their health and health. Before the age of forty, Tiedan's wife had breast cancer, which was found relatively late and was in the middle and advanced stages when she was admitted to the hospital. This kind of serious illness engineering company hospital can't be seen at all, so you can only live in the county central hospital. In order to save people, Tie Dan can be said to have borrowed money from all his acquaintances. Fortunately, Tie Dan has a good relationship, and finally borrowed forty or fifty thousand yuan to save his wife from death.
My wife's life was saved, but one ** was cut off, and her body was injured, and she couldn't do heavy work. Therefore, I can no longer go out to work. At this time, Tie Dan's body also had a problem. Because I have been in a bad mood, I always use wine to drown my sorrows, and a lump grows in my liver. This frightened the Tie Dan couple and Tie Dan's mother. After repeated examinations, it was finally diagnosed as a benign tumor. This was a relief for the whole family. But the doctor told him not to smoke or drink anymore, not to get angry, not to overwork. Tie Dan has long lost confidence in life, if it weren't for his wife, children and mother, he really wouldn't want to live.
The most worrying thing for him is his son. My son is 22 years old, because there are no businesses in the local small county, it is difficult to find a job, and I have not found a suitable job until now, so I mix with a group of fox friends all day long, either playing cards and gambling, or buying Mark Six lottery. Moreover, when the son is older, he is not very obedient, as long as Tie Dan trains him, the two will quarrel. He thinks his son is not good at studying, and his son thinks he is incapable and can't find him a job.
Tie Dan really has no ability, and he is ashamed of this. Among the classmates who work in the engineering company, there are also some people whose children do not study well and are not admitted to high school, but they can spend 40,000 or 50,000 yuan to find acquaintances to send their children to the Railway Engineering and Technology Institute to attend a secondary school or junior college, and then find someone to arrange the children in which engineering team after graduation, and the children's work will be solved.
Actually, he can do the same, if the child can get a diploma after two or three years of mixing in the railway engineering and technical college. As long as he went to Chen Gang and said something casually, Chen Gang couldn't help but think of a way for him. However, because the family is poor, they cannot afford to send their children to school. Not to mention taking forty or fifty thousand yuan to send to school for children, it is how the days have passed over the years, so that Tie Dan can't even think about it, and he can't help but cry when he thinks about it. Because both husband and wife are in a state of laid-off, especially after they reach middle age, their physique will decline significantly, and they will be unable to do those physical jobs. Therefore, no one wants to work anywhere. There was no way, so the couple set up a stall together to make breakfast, but it was very hard to make breakfast, and they had to get up at three or four o'clock in the morning and go to bed at eleven or twelve o'clock in the evening. Because there are a lot of laid-off people in the county, there are many people who set up stalls to buy snacks, and there are not many people who come to the stalls for breakfast, so after a few years of hard work, I haven't earned many years. Soon, my wife was diagnosed with breast cancer, so I stopped early. Therefore, not to mention asking Tie Dan to spend tens of thousands of yuan to let his children go to school, even the 50,000 yuan building of the Engineering Corporation, Tie Dan can't afford it. So, seeing that the child is so old, has no job, and is fooling around in society all day long, what kind of results can be achieved? In a few years, when the son will reach the age of marriage, what should he do at that time? He can't even think about this, and he can't sleep at night when he thinks about it.
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