The secret of a happy marriage is translated by Zhang Bao

A man and his girlfriend are married. The bride wears a gorgeous white wedding dress, and the groom wears a very fashionable dress. All the family, friends and family members came to congratulate the two couples on this wonderful and happy wedding and share the festive joy together. They all said that the two newcomers were a perfect match and sincerely loved each other.

A few months later, the wife said to her husband, "I just read a magazine with a way to make our marriage stronger. "We both put together a list of things that upset and annoyed each other, and then we talked together about how to resolve them." This will make our lives happier. ”

Of course, the husband agreed. So, the couple went to a room and began to wonder what would easily upset and irritate each other. They thought about each question for almost a whole day, and then wrote them down on paper one by one. Then, they were back together.

The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided to solve the problems on the list that upset and irritated each other, one by one.

"I'll start with that," said his wife, "and she opened the list, and there were many entries on it, and it was written neatly on three large sheets of paper. In fact, when she began to remember the little troubles on this list, she noticed that tears were already welling up in her husband's eyes.

"What's wrong?" she asked her husband. "Nothing," said the husband, "you go on." The wife continued to read on, until she read all the contents of the three sheets of paper to her husband. Then, fold the paper and place it on the dining table, pressing the paper under your palms with your hands folded.

"Okay, you can read your content now. Then we can discuss these issues together that make us prone to upset and irritation. She said happily to her husband.

The husband calmly announced, "I didn't write anything on the paper. I think all of your qiē is perfect, and I don't want you to change anything for me. And, you're lovely, wonderful, and I don't want you to change in any way. ”

The wife was so moved by her husband's loyalty, his deep love for her, and his tolerance for her, that she couldn't help but shed tears.

In life, we often feel disappointed, frustrated, and irritated, but let's not dig through old accounts to find them. We have a wonderful world, and our lives are full of beauty, joy, and mutual recognition. Why waste your time digging through old accounts and looking for negative feelings that are disappointing and irritating? When we look at ourselves, why don't we look at those wonderful and joyful things that lie in front of us?