After going home for dinner in the evening, Lin Aiwei, who was still a little puzzled after washing up and entering the bed, sent a WeChat message to Lincoln and said: Lincoln, today I met a friend named Gao Lengfeng, he has a serious problem in his heart, I want to help him ask, how to solve the problem in his heart, you have been busy with school recently, when are you free.

The other side was silent for a while before replying: If it is your very good friend, you can bring him to see me, I can give more discounts.

Lin Aiwei thought that it was so cheap, so she replied: "This friend is not bad, but his family is poor, so don't think about the money, leave it to me to practice." ”

The other side immediately replied with a sweaty embarrassed face, Lin Aiwei laughed, and replied: You forgot, I didn't settle accounts with you last time, if it weren't for the fact that you have been busy very hard recently, your little trick would have been exposed to you a long time ago, so why don't you kneel on the ground and beg for mercy!

The other side replied with a sad face, and replied: Teacher Lin, you forgot, tomorrow you should go to your class for psychological counseling, and go to my office after class!

Lin Aiwei then remembered, she felt that she had nothing to do, she deliberately accosted him, she hid in the quilt and was embarrassed for a while, and replied: Who said I forgot, deliberately test you, okay, think about how to make amends for me tomorrow tonight, kneel down, Xiaolinzi!

Kitchen knives and bombs were thrown from the opposite side, and Lin Aiwei had a good dream with a smile!

In the afternoon of the second day, in the first class, I wandered to Lin Aiwei's class 3 (4) for psychological counseling class, Lin Aiwei was already waiting in the classroom, moved a stool and sat at the back.

I wore a casual jacket today, wore gold-rimmed glasses, and greeted the children very gently and casually: "Children, we have started class, everyone knows that my class is different from other teachers, I come to chat with everyone as a friend, so there is no need to stand up and sit down in class, let's get straight to the point, today's topic is how to rebuild psychological well-being in psychological adversity." "I wrote the title on the blackboard.

The children were curious and began to whisper, but Lin Aiwei sat in the back and didn't feel too much mess.

"First of all, I want to talk about what psychological adversity is, when the space, time, place, people, and events around a person are all rejuvenating the mental activities of the parties, giving the parties negative psychological emotions, and reversing the normal thinking ability, action ability and speech ability of the parties, the phenomenon of psychological adversity is too complicated, and the children may not understand, so I will not say more, give a simple example. I saw that the children were in a fog, so I quickly stopped, walked to the middle of the class, and said to a tall kid shaking his head: "Tao Weiyang, is your nickname Little Hammer?" ”

As soon as Tao Weiyang heard that I was calling him, he hurriedly stood up straight and said in a loud voice: "Yes, Mr. Dalin, I am called Little Hammer." ”

I sold it and said, "Do you like this nickname?"

"Teacher Dalin, I like this name very much, I am now the leader of our class hoe and the weak squad. ”

I nodded and smiled at him, "That's good, but would you still be happy if I called you that?"

Tao Weiyang was in a daze, and a shrill voice spread throughout the classroom: "Tao ~ Wei ~ Yang, small ~ hammer ~ son." ”

The classroom burst into laughter, and the children laughed and said, "Oh, that's how the little hammer works!"

"Yes, yes, the whole class is colliding with the eunuch with this nickname, hahaha. ”

"Wei Yang, Yang Wei, Little Hammer, Eunuch, hahaha, it's too funny than a coincidence. ”

Lin Aiwei also smiled, but shut up instantly!

All the children laughed loudly, but Tao Weiyang's face turned red and white, and he looked at Lin Aiwei fiercely, feeling that the volcano was about to erupt.

Lin Aiwei was embarrassed to apologize, and felt that something was wrong, so she immediately glared at me.

I smiled lightly, gently held Tao Weiyang's shoulder and said to him: "Tao Weiyang, don't be angry first, the teacher promises that they won't be able to laugh for a while." ”

Then he said to all the children, " Students be quiet first, this example is obvious, this is psychological adversity, when the surrounding space events and characters are besieging you, laughing at you, rebelling against your heart, what should you do, what should you think, first of all, Tao Weiyang classmate In this case, your subconscious must be angry, resisting and venting, but, that is useless, you follow the psychological adversity is equivalent to screwing a bottle cap to death, squeezing this space deep in your heart, even if you can suppress it this time, but next time, there are many, many more next times, the surrounding environment does not know your heart, they will come to grab the wound in your heart all the time, to provoke it, tear it apart before it heals, and you, there will always be times when you can't suppress it, and such a joke can often cause irreparable consequences and often change a person's life. ”

The whole classroom was quiet, and although most were only eight or nine years old, it was undeniable that they also had a beating heart!

I paced back to the podium, took a sip of the water I had with me, and continued: " talked about the causes and consequences of psychological adversity, now I want to talk about how to rebuild psychological adversity in psychological adversity, Tao Weiyang, or take you as an example, when you encounter such psychological adversity, the first thing you have to do is self-reflection, why self-reflection, because you are usually the most favorite in the class to tease others, swear words and fights that experience is quite rich, you hurt others at the same time, has been hostile to the whole collective, so when your soul has a wound, everyone wants to step on this wound in time, even if some of them are unconscious, but the herd psychology of human beings will make them involuntarily attack the weak, at that moment, Kenben is not wrong, some only have the expansion and venting of the dark side of their hearts, and as for the consequences, no one will care. And Tao Weiyang, you usually develop the habit of arrogance and aggressiveness, that is just a shell of self-establishment of prestige and self-protection, you should break it in time and recognize your own nature, and your nature is that you can't control your mistakes, but you will regret and suffer when you make mistakes, and you will regret and suffer when you see the weak, this is the definition of people's original goodness, everyone is born kind and equal, and if you do something against your heart, you will be condemned by your own heart. ”

Seeing Lin Aiwei's eyes glaring at me with fire, I coughed lightly to relieve the embarrassment, and continued: "So Tao Weiyang, you need to change your way of thinking to rebuild your psychological well-being, and the first step is self-reflection, self-reflection on the harm caused to others, and use the harm to others to calm the damage of your own psychological adversity, simply put, the damage cancels each other, I often hurt you, you hurt me once, it's very fair, as the so-called, come out and mix, sooner or later you will have to pay it back." The classroom laughed, and the oppressive silence just now was swept away.

"When a person usually reflects on himself, his heart will be strong, firm, and tolerant, and when he encounters psychological adversity, he will use new thoughts to unhook the bottle cap, and the siege and ridicule of others will turn into gas and volatilize down the bottle mouth very smoothly, and in the next step, you will follow your heart and stop doing things that trick others and hurt others, because you know, life is so difficult, why hurt each other. And at this point, you should have new psychological skills, criticize the psychological ability of others in your heart, and when others besiege and coax the weak, even if you are powerless to stop them, you will criticize them in your heart, criticize them for their ignorance and emptiness in their hearts, their spiritual humility and insignificance, and their cunning and cowardice in character, so this lesson is not for Tao Weiyang alone, but for all students, to be a person who conforms to his heart, recognizes his true nature, and is a person with a strong, firm and tolerant heart, so that no matter what adversity, you will naturally find a reasonable solution, of course, you can't find it, just write me a secret of the heartMr. Obayashi can definitely help you. ”

There was a round of applause, then a chorus of boos, and there was a lot of joy.

Only Lin Aiwei was excited and moved in her eyes, but she was sad in her heart!

I walked back to the podium, took a sip of water, looked at the time, and said, "There are still ten minutes, everyone starts asking me questions, Tao Weiyang, you are the protagonist of today, you will ask first." ”

Tao Weiyang sighed, his face was red, and he was timidity and shyness that he had never felt before, looking at the close attention around him, his eyes rolled, and his heart said slowly: "Teacher Dalin, I feel stimulated by thunder and lightning from head to foot today, and then from the sole of my foot to the top of my head, I feel that I am scorched on the outside and tender on the inside, I am afraid that I am about to soar, teacher, what do you say I should do." ”

There was another burst of laughter in the classroom, and I couldn't help but purse the curvature of my lips and said, "Tao Weiyang, your question is very good, I see that your bones are amazing, and your aura is extraordinary, so I went down to the mortal world to help you get through the second vein of Rendu, and you can already cultivate peerless divine skills, such as the Divine Palm." ”

There was a sea of joy in the classroom, and I said with a bad smile: "All students must remember in the future that when encountering conflicts and confrontations, those who can be solved with humor must not use other methods, humor can not only relieve self-embarrassment, but also teach ignorance and ignorance, which is really worthy of being a necessary medicine for class learning and walking at home!"

The classroom began to be lively, and in the last few minutes, the children were enthusiastic to ask questions, and I patiently answered them one by one, and the only figure I secretly paid attention to, rarely interacted with each other during the whole class, just stared at the other figure silently.

After class, the children happily digested today's half-understanding, and I was escorted by Lin Aiwei into the psychological counseling office that few people go to.