"You made a pact with your daughter that she would leave you with a grandson within two years, right?"

Lu Dongye said very directly: "I don't know, do you mean it, as long as you have a grandson, everything else doesn't matter, right?"

Du Daolin's face was expressionless and nodded slightly.

"I know that this is a private matter in your family, and I have no right to interfere. ”

Lu Dongye tried to minimize his offense: "But your daughter is my important collaborator and my friend, for her sake, please allow me to say a few more words." ”

"If you say, I want to hear what you think. ”

Du Daolin seems to be quite enlightened.

Lu Dongye looked at Du Liyuan, and when he saw that she was dark and calm, he said: "You just want to hug your grandson, have you thought about it, what does your future grandson himself think?"

Du Daolin took a sip of water: "Go on." ”

Lu Dongye sighed: "Your daughter doesn't want to get married, you don't want to have a child, you prefer her to give birth, even if this child has flesh and blood affection with your daughter in the future, won't your daughter's heart be conflicted?"

It wasn't born by her own volition, it was forced by her, even if family affection will melt everything, in the dead of night, when your daughter is wronged by someone, she really won't have the slightest resistance to this child?

If you think about it further, when you and Ms. Jiang are both old, the old one can't move, and the old one can no longer control this family, and can only be handed over to your daughter and your son to take care of, then this family is already in charge of your son and daughter.

When the time comes, can you guarantee what the situation of the grandson who was forcibly born will be? Maybe your daughter doesn't want to see him at all, and when she sees him, it will bring back painful memories of being persecuted.

With your daughter's way of doing things, she will definitely treat this child well, but if your daughter is in pain, she may send him out, and stay away from the core of the family, isn't it against the original intention of family affection and happiness?"

After saying this, Lu Dongye temporarily closed his mouth, he wanted to see what Du Daolin meant.

I saw that Du Daolin was expressionless, and he didn't know what he was thinking.

Lu Dongye glanced at Du Liyuan again.

Seeing her head down, she seemed to feel something.

If she didn't refute her own words, it proves that what she thinks is actually similar to what she said.

Taking a deep breath, Lu Dongye continued: "Offensively, when you and Ms. Jiang are both a hundred years old, what will happen to the child who was forced to give birth in the future?

To take it a step further...... The most important thing in a family is harmony, and if you force your daughter to give birth to a child, even if she is willing to gamble and lose, it is against her true emotions.

It's right to be responsible for your family, but is it called being responsible if you are used as a tool to have children? Have you seriously considered your daughter's heart?

Do you know what she really wants, and do you care if she's happy or not?

If you only care about the outcome, is that going to make your daughter complain and hold a grudge against you for the rest of your ......life? Is that it?"

When the words fell, Du Liyuan only felt a sour nose.

Tears poured out uncontrollably.

She has been pampered since she was a child, and she has never been wronged in life and materially.

However, she also grew up under control.

Once upon a time, did anyone really listen to their own heart?

Did someone really ask her what she wanted to do in life?

No!

No one even really cared about her!

As a direct result, Du Liyuan has blocked her heart since she was a child, and she has never walked into anyone in her heart.

However, Lu Dongye's words were like a sharp needle.

The needles pierced the most tender part of her heart.

Forcibly tore open her indifferent shell, and every sentence went straight to the depths of her heart!!

Du Liyuan's heart trembled and couldn't help but burst into tears.

Lu Dongye saw that Du Daolin was not moved, and he couldn't help but let out a long sigh in his heart.

He gritted his teeth and simply threw out his thoughts: "In my opinion, you are not really for the good of this family at all, but just to satisfy your selfish desires!"

As soon as these words came out, Du Daolin's expression suddenly changed: "Young man, are you accusing me?"

Lu Dongye nodded.

That's all he said, and he doesn't plan to hold it back.

When he said, "Yes, in order to satisfy your desire to have another grandson, then it will ruin your daughter and their two generations." ”

Lu Dongye suddenly shook his head helplessly.

simply said all the words in his heart: "With all due respect, the failure of your grandson Du Yuanqing is precisely because your wife does not pay attention to the psychology of the child, and does not care what Du Yuanqing thinks in his heart, and does not ask him why he behaves like this, but blindly satisfies and accommodates him." ”

"In the final analysis, what you and Ms. Jiang have been satisfied with is nothing more than their own selfish desires. ”

Lu Dongye's words were categorical: "I have never really stood in their perspective and considered them for them. ”

"Young man, you really have courage. ”

Du Daolin finally spoke.

It's just that his tone is steady, and he can't tell whether he is angry or happy: "Over the years, you are the first person who dares to argue with me and teach me a lesson." ”

"Offended. ”

Lu Dongye sighed, but his voice was still firm: "Since ancient times, loyalty has been contrary to your ears, which will inevitably cause your displeasure. ”

Du Daolin didn't answer, but said, "Do you have anything else to say?" Let's finish it all." ”

Lu Dongye really can't hold it, this old man's thoughts.

Completely unaware of what he was thinking.

But when it comes to this, he has no way out.

He simply continued: "Then let me say a few more words...... If your daughter gives birth to a grandson for you, if your daughter also loves him, there is really no resistance in your heart...... What still can't be changed is that this child has no father.

The lack of a single-parent family cannot be made up for by material and other means of education, no matter how you educate your child, he will still have illusions about the father he has never met. ”

Speaking of this, Lu Dongye suddenly smiled: "That's the case, I know it very well, it's because I was an abandoned son since I was a child, abandoned by my biological parents, and later thanks to the old principal who picked me up, I had a bite to eat, and I could grow up smoothly."

I've lived for 26 years now, and I don't know how many nights I've been fantasizing about what my real parents were like and why they abandoned me.

More than once I tried to give them excuses, thinking that they were having a hard time, that they actually loved me and cared about me.

But the truth is, they did abandon me, and this is a reality that cannot be changed.

So, I grew up without the love of my parents, and I was withdrawn from a young age, reluctant to communicate with others, and even more reluctant to tell others what I thought in my heart.

Even if the old principal cares about me very much, there is still a piece missing in my heart, how to make up for this piece, I don't know, maybe, even my biological parents, one day find me, I don't want to see them.

I'm more willing to accept what I imagine them to look like.

Until now, I have been told more than once that I am paranoid, that I am rational and do not seem to have human feelings, that I am stubborn and simply do not understand human feelings.

Yes, I realized it, but I had no choice, I had to admit that I was such a person, this was a means for me to protect myself, and it was caused by my lack in my heart.

Just like today, I insisted on coming, and I knew that I would definitely offend you if I said so many things, but I still said that maybe one day in the future, I may regret offending you.

But I really can't stand this kind of irresponsibility that I don't care about the process and don't even think about the consequences!

Admittedly, if you refer to me, when your future grandson grows up, when he never knows who his biological father is, what kind of character will he develop?

Will he really be happy? Will your daughter really be happy?

Is this really what you think you think you are responsible for?"