Chapter 440: Educator
When Lu Dongye led Jiang Boran out.
found that only Chen Muqian was standing alone in the same place, and Zhuo Meiqian disappeared again.
Chen Muqian took the initiative to catch up.
glanced at Jiang Boran, who bowed his head and wiped his tears, and whispered to Lu Dongye: "She just left and returned to the dormitory, I watched her walk into the dormitory building, don't worry." ”
Lu Dongye nodded lightly: "Let her be quiet alone, I will also send Jiang Boran back, it's really hard for you." ”
Chen Muqian shrugged her shoulders, she was not in the mood to joke at this moment, so she forced a smile and said: "It's not hard work, it's just that I haven't eaten enough, you send him back, I'll continue to eat." ”
Lu Dongye smiled at her and nodded, and then led Jiang Boran towards the dormitory building.
Chen Muqian turned around and looked at the big and small backs and gradually walked away.
In my heart, there is a sad romance.
She suddenly took a deep breath hard, and her eyes narrowed slightly: "In more than ten years, our children should be so old......, right? Hee-hee!"
I don't know if she thought of something happy, but she suddenly laughed happily.
With his arms hooked behind his back, he twisted his upper body a little shyly.
Then he reluctantly withdrew his gaze, turned around, and jumped back into the cafeteria.
As soon as she re-entered the cafeteria, Chen Muqian found that everyone seemed very silent.
Although everyone was quietly continuing to eat, there was no conversation, and everyone was silently eating the rice in their own bowls, which was completely different from the lively atmosphere in the past.
"Hey, it seems that everyone has something to gain!"
Sighing softly, Chen Muqian quietly returned to her seat.
“…… Don't cry. ”
Not far away, Duan Gongqing's voice suddenly came, which instantly attracted Chen Muqian's attention.
When she looked up, she found that Lin Fengxian was crawling on the table, burying his head in his arms, and trembling faintly.
Duan Gongqing, who was next to him, comforted Lin Fengxian while eating: "Minister Lin, can you stop crying! I can't eat the dinner table because you shake it!"
Seeing that, Lin Fengxian suddenly raised his head.
The big man snorted and cried: "Hey! Can you have a little empathy! Such a touching thing, what's wrong with me crying!"
With that, he lay down again and began to whimper.
This conversation couldn't help but attract the attention of everyone in the cafeteria.
Seeing Duan Gongqing's helpless appearance, he could only hold his job and quickly change to the table next to him.
Chen Muqian burst out laughing.
Followed by...... Li Xiaoyu also laughed.
Everyone else couldn't help but laugh.
For a while, everyone saw the smiling faces of the people around them.
In the cafeteria, a little more joyful atmosphere was finally restored.
……
Lu Dongye took Jiang Boran back to his room.
I saw that the room was empty, and the screen was still paused with the game I was playing at that time, and nothing had changed.
After this meal, I am afraid that only the hearts of the people will change.
"Be quiet by yourself. ”
Lu Dongye said to Jiang Boran.
Jiang Boran was also very conscious and walked into the house silently.
Lu Dongye saw him sitting on the bed, so he closed the door for him.
Then, he went to the next room.
The room next to it is Zhuo Meiqian's dormitory.
Long before coming, Lu Dongye prepared two rooms for the mother and son.
It's just that in addition to sleeping, Zhuo Meiqian has been staying with her son for the rest of the time.
When Lu Dongye came over, he saw that the door was empty, and Zhuo Meiqian was alone, sitting quietly on the edge of the bed, thinking quietly.
knocked on the door twice, and Zhuo Meiqian inside did not react at all.
Lu Dongye sighed, and simply pushed the door and walked in.
I saw that Zhuo Meiqian's house couldn't be more simple.
She left the softest sheets and bedding to Jiang Boran, and on her own bed, there was only a few thin mattresses sent by the school.
Other than that, there was only an electric kettle to boil water.
And also...... The fast-food cup she kept clutching in her hand.
Lu Dongye quietly walked to the side of the bed and sat down quietly beside her.
"Principal Lu, you're here. ”
Zhuo Meiqian was a little embarrassed and said hello to Lu Dongye.
His eyes were a little afraid to look at Lu Dongye: "I'm really sorry to let you see the joke, I, I'm so useless." ”
Lu Dongye looked at the skinny, haggard face beside him, with a deep sense of apology.
I suddenly felt a sense of sadness.
This housewife, who is obviously not very good at talking, always seems to say "I'm sorry" to herself, right?
A very timid woman, after losing the blessing of her husband, how did she live these three years?
In the past three years, how many people has she said to and how many words of sorry have she said?
Lu Dongye didn't know, and he didn't want to think about it further.
"Don't apologize to me, you didn't do anything wrong. ”
Lu Dongye said softly: "Actually, you have done your best, I can feel it...... I'm afraid that if you hold on for a while, you really won't be able to hold on. ”
Zhuo Meiqian's face was full of panic, and she shook her head a little worriedly: "No, I will definitely be able to support it!" For Bo Ran, I will definitely be able to hold on, I am, I am just too useless, making my son feel ashamed!"
Lu Dongye felt that his eyes were a little hot.
The treasure that was once pampered in the palm of her husband's hand will one day, will she become so humble?
He saw that Zhuo Meiqian was nervously rubbing her hands, and her hands were full of tiredness.
couldn't help it, Lu Dongye grabbed her restless hands.
In an instant, you could feel the coldness in Zhuo Meiqian's hands and the nervous trembling.
"Ms. Zhuo, don't think so, the child is just at the age of rebellion, which will inevitably break your heart. ”
Lu Dongye comforted in a low voice: "He will still grow, he will continue to grow up, one day, he will understand your hard work." ”
Zhuo Mei Qiandou's big tears crackled down: "I just realized that I had been wrong all along, if it wasn't for Bo Ran himself to say it, I wouldn't know! I don't know what he thinks! Because he never told me, I don't know what he wants, and I don't know what I give him is what he doesn't want!"
This strong mother, who has been supporting herself alone for three whole years, finally shows her fragile side.
She was petite, as thin as a gust of wind that could blow it down.
But her strength, at this moment, deeply moved Lu Dongye.
"I can understand your feelings, and I know that educating children is a long and difficult road. ”
At this moment, Lu Dongye only hopes that he can warm the mother's heart a little: "It is not a generation, the vision is inevitably different, we educators are to discover the difference, and then blend it together, we hope that the two generations can get along harmoniously, understand each other's minds, and then pass on knowledge to the new generation, teach them to be a man, teach them to grow, teach them the ability to survive, this is what we educators should do." ”
Speaking of this, Lu Dongye took a slight breath: "As long as it is a problem in education, we educators are willing to pay, Ms. Zhuo, in the future, you will always stay with your son, now that I have discovered his problem, I am also confident that I can educate him into a talent." ”
“…… Thank you, thank you, President Lu, for being willing to take us in. ”
Zhuo Meiqian looked a little better, she withdrew her hand and wiped the tears from her face.
A little embarrassed smiled: "I'm really sorry, I'm a failed mother, and I can only rely on an educator like Principal Lu to bother educating my son." ”
Lu Dongye smiled: "You are not a failed mother, you are just an ordinary mother among all living beings." ”
Zhuo Meiqian suddenly wondered: "...... Why?"
"I'm afraid that in this world, every family is more or less suffering from the pain of educating their children, and unlike them, you are very unfortunate to lose your husband. ”
Lu Dongye's eyes flashed: "If your husband is still here, how can you fall to this point." ”
“…… Principal Lu is right. ”
Zhuo Meiqian is really much better, and even her smile has a little more strength.
After she laughed, she suddenly said with some curiosity: "Principal Lu, can I ask you, in your heart, what is a failed mother?"
Lu Dongye was silent.
He thought for a moment and said a concluding sentence: "In general, it is the kind of person who has not fulfilled his mother's responsibilities." ”
"So what is it that has not fulfilled its responsibilities as a mother?"
"For example, I didn't manage my children well and put the responsibility on the society. ”
"To be specific?"
"Like, your son likes to play games, and some mothers will resent games and complain that there shouldn't be games, and it's the games that destroy her children. ”
"Isn't that right...... Games are innocent, and without this game, there will be other games, and even if there are no games, is there nothing else, will the child be addicted? If the child is addicted to the same and resentful, then ......."
"Yes, they are just making excuses for their own incompetence...... There is no shame in educating a child badly, but it is her fault to attribute the responsibility for her own failure to a third party. ”
"Hey, educating children is really a big issue in life!"
"Yes, but in the final analysis, as long as you are willing to take responsibility and are willing to give up some other things in order to educate your children to understand your children, this is a qualified parent, such as Ms. Zhuo, you are willing to be a housewife, this is a huge contribution. ”
“…… I'm embarrassed by what you said, Principal Lu. ”
"No, no, actually, you are great. ”
“…… Huh, huh?"
"Yes, the most hateful thing in this world is to take care of children, and the 'raising' in this is the meaning of nurturing, and it also represents education...... You may not know that in this world, there are really countless parents who just give birth to children and ignore their children's growth. ”
“…… Really, really?"
"There are a lot of them! I am one of the most typical of them, because I am an abandoned orphan. ”
"Ah...... I'm so sorry, I didn't mean to expose ......."
"It doesn't matter, so I have always hoped that the children of the world can be correctly guided and educated, and because of this, I have always believed that the housewives of the world and the mothers who worry about the work of their children are great. ”
"You're such a natural educator. ”
"No, I just fell too much in the first half of my life. ”
……
On this day, Lu Dongye chatted with Zhuo Meiqian for a long, long time.