Chapter 398: In-laws

Back in the community, Ding Min looked at the two adjacent villas, his eyes widened.

Although I have seen the environment and facilities inside the villa in the video a few times before, it is a different feeling from watching it with my own eyes like this close.

Although he was already mentally prepared, he still turned his head to look at Ning Zhiyuan in disbelief.

Ding Min was serious and asked again: "You just said that these two villas are yours?"

Ning Zhiyuan nodded with a smile and reiterated: "When I just made money, I thought about having a property of my own in Jiangning. Later, I made a lot of money, and I thought about taking you all to Jiangning to live. It just so happened that the villa next door hadn't been sold yet, so I bought it. ”

After a slight pause, Ning Zhiyuan joked: "In the future, if I have a little trouble with Yan Yan or something, you can come over to protect your daughter-in-law by pushing the door." If you want to clean up my dad, he will definitely let you play and won't resist. Why, because he would be afraid of being heard by us, and he would feel ashamed. If you think about it, do you think I'm prescient?"

No matter what the reason, it can't change Ning Zhiyuan's willingness to be filial to his parents. It's just that this kind of thing is said to be a little funny.

It's normal for a mother-in-law to protect her daughter-in-law. The husband was abused by his wife, and he was worried that his son and daughter-in-law would hear about it, so he could only grit his teeth and hold on, and this reason was also absolute.

Ms. Ding rolled her eyes, her emotions eased slightly, she grabbed her niece's arm, and ordered, "You have a lot of reasons, why are you standing stupidly?

Ning Zhiyuan smiled slightly, raised his hand and said, "Two beautiful ladies, please inside." ”

Ding Ruishuang "giggled" and said, "Cousin, you are still so funny as before." ”

chatting all the way, the brother and sister have eliminated the estrangement of not being in touch for a long time, Ding Ruishuang let go of the worries in her heart, and talked more.

Ning Zhiyuan said seriously: "Isn't what I said wrong? The big beauty brought the little beauty to the cold house, and I naturally had to receive it beyond the specifications." ”

"I'm not a beauty. Ding Ruishuang replied a little shyly, looked at the banyan tree in the yard, and said in surprise: "Hey, there is actually a swing, I know, it must be prepared by you for your future sister-in-law." ”

Ning Zhiyuan explained with a smile: "You are so smart, then think about it, what is the character of the girl who likes to swing, are you very good to get along with?"

Ding Ruishuang thought about it carefully, and quickly understood Ning Zhiyuan's intentions, squinted his eyes, and smiled sweetly: "Thank you, cousin, I know, I must get along well with my sister-in-law." ”

You don't need to say too much, sometimes you can reason with your ears up, so it's better to leave room for the other party to think independently.

Because no matter how old you are, there will always be a rebellious mentality.

Only when you have figured it out yourself will it be easier to accept the opinions of others.

As for the contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, sister-in-law, etc., Ning Zhiyuan felt that these kind and lovely women around him would definitely not have these problems.

After looking at the two villas in turn, I returned to the living room on Ning Zhiyuan's side.

Ding Min took the white water, took a sip, and replied: "With such a luxurious villa, you bought two of them at once, and spent a lot of money, right?"

Ning Zhiyuan smiled: "At the time, I still felt a little painful, but now, it can only be said to be a drop in the bucket." The fundamental purpose of making money is to enjoy life, I have this ability now, and I am still young, if I don't enjoy this process, after a long time, I will lose the motivation to make money. ”

The reasonable explanation is very good to block Ding Min's mouth. Although she didn't agree with it, she had already acquiesced to this statement in her heart.

The question of what people live for, how can people who have lived for such an age not understand?

Ding Min hesitated slightly, raised his head, looked into his son's eyes, and said, "I only hope that you will think about everything before doing it." Also, not everything can be made. Sometimes, even if you lose money, don't learn badly. ”

Ning Zhiyuan nodded, did not refute, and honestly agreed: "Well, I will listen to you." ”

As soon as the words changed, Ning Zhiyuan continued: "Speaking of the house, Xiaoshuang is also so old, it is not suitable to live here. Mom, how about you live next door with Xiaoshuang?"

Ding Min didn't refuse, looked at Ding Ruishuang, and asked, "Xiaoshuang, what do you think?"

Cousin Ruishuang blinked her eyes and said happily: "My cousin's house is so good, as long as I am given a cabin, I will be very satisfied." ”

Ning Zhiyuan said with a smile: "How big a house do you want, you can make your own money and buy it yourself in the future, now you have to listen to me." You've just seen what's going on over there, and when you come back, you can choose a room for yourself, and then I'll take you to buy some groceries or something tomorrow. ”

"Thank you, cousin. Ding Ruishuang was a little eager to try, and also wanted to give their mother and son space to talk alone, so she said hesitantly: "Cousin, can I go over and have a look now?"

Ning Zhiyuan waved his hand and said, "Brother Jiang is your own home, don't ask me about such a trivial matter." ”

Seeing his niece happily go out, Ding Min asked with relief: "Do you know where you are now, and what satisfies me the most?"

Ning Zhiyuan asked puzzledly, "What?"

Ding Min explained: "It's this family affection! No matter how much money you have or how big your career is, you don't forget that your second uncle was kind to you when he was alive." Xiaoshuang lost her father early, and you have to help her in the future. ”

Ning Zhiyuan tilted his head and replied, "As long as Xiaoshuang is in need, I will help her arrange everything." ”

Ding Min glanced at him and said, "You know that there is more than Xiaoshuang in the people I said. ”

What he is thinking about is the whole family, whether it is surnamed Ning or Ding, as long as it is a close blood relative, Ding Min wants his son to take it.

Family, the name of the WeChat group is called Blind Date and Love Family, I am developed, but I don't care about the life or death of others, isn't that too cold-blooded.

Ning Zhiyuan frowned and said, "People have two thoughts in their hearts! Mom, sometimes blood relations are really useless. Don't think I'm cold-blooded, even if I want to help, I only help the people I should help. ”

Ding Min was a little unhappy: "They are all the same relatives, who do you help and who don't help?"

Ning Zhiyuan thought for a while and said, "Ning Xiuxiu's mother and son, do you think you should help?" According to your statement, you can't write two Ning in one stroke, and they live so close, it stands to reason that they are in need, and I should help." But if you think about how their mother and son ruined our family's reputation in the neighborhood, should I help them?

Confucius said to repay grievances with directness and repay virtue with virtue. I know who is good to me, and who is bad to me, I know better. Do you think it's really good for someone to punch me, but you let me use my morality and upbringing to influence him?"

Ning Zhiyuan, as an adult with full confidence, is just reasonable, Ding Min wants to convince him, and the difficulty is not half a star.

There is not only Ning Xiuxiu on the list who doesn't want to help, even if he is as close as an uncle, Ning Zhiyuan doesn't want to have anything to do with him anymore.

Although he could understand his mother's thoughts in his heart, Ning Zhiyuan didn't want to change anything because of that deep-seated disgust.

If you have to wronged yourself in everything to fulfill others, then what is the meaning of being a human being?

Just set yourself on fire and go as a virgin.

It doesn't matter if you don't dare to light the fire, a ticket to fly to Paris, properly arranged.

The raging fire burns my body, what joy is there in life, and what is there in fear of death, isn't it?

Ding Min didn't insist too much, after all, his son is older and has his own ideas. If you feel bad, you can guide it slowly. But it is no longer appropriate to scold at every turn, as before.

Why do you say that it is not easy to be a parent? It is not only the grace of nurturing, but also the role of a life coach.

Isn't it true that parents are the best teachers for their children?

Whether a person has a future or not, the family environment is very important, and the role played by the guardian is even more important.

For example, Liang Qichao, the nine children born to Liang Qichao, one is better than the other.

There are three academicians in one family, and all nine sons are talented, and the description is the Liang family.

To be honest, it's not how good the Liang family's genes are, nor is it a super Yasai person, it's the reason for the tutor and the environment.

It's easy to pretend to be a grandchild, but it's hard to be a parent.

While Ning Zhiyuan is growing, Ding Min is also changing his inherent way of thinking and communicating in a more gentle way.

Ding Min did not insist on his own opinions, feeling that some things could not be rushed, which caused his son's rebellious psychology.

As soon as the words changed, Ding Min said: "You just talked about Ning Xiuxiu, I met her yesterday. But she was a little strange yesterday, she walked face to face with me, and when she saw that it was me, she actually lowered her head and turned back, which was really strange. ”

Ning Zhiyuan was slightly stunned, and then smiled: "It's not surprising, her proud son, in addition to the top two in the university rankings, what else is stronger than me? She has lost her previous arrogance, and naturally she is afraid that you will take what she said before and give her back." ”

Ding Min pursed his lips and replied, "Do you think I am her? I'm not as short-sighted as she is." However, it was surprising to me that she changed so quickly. ”

Ning Zhiyuan smiled and did not pick up.

Meeting Shen Jialin at Tongji University that day was the beginning of the transformation. No matter how far ahead you are, as long as you are overtaken halfway through, and the gap between you will widen. Then, this hammer will crush all the pride in the hearts of their mother and son.

Ding Min paused for a moment and said quietly: "My mother is so good at being a person, sometimes she has to be so angry that she can't suppress the fire, it's good not to touch, save trouble." ”

Ning Zhiyuan patted his mother's shoulder and said, "Okay, Mom, don't think about it so much." You, let's think about meeting for a while. ”

Ding Min sneered: "What's the matter, I'm worried that I'll embarrass you?"

Ning Zhiyuan said helplessly: "What's the matter! By the way, I almost forgot to say that only Yan Yan and her mother will arrive at dinner at night." ”

Ding Min asked curiously, "Your girlfriend's family is also headed by her mother, right?"

Ning Zhiyuan said with a smile: "Your status at home is almost exactly the same, you should be able to talk together." ”

They are all heroines of women, supporters of women's rights, and common topics are definitely indispensable.

Even if there is nothing to talk about, you can also discuss whether the feather duster is throbbing horizontally or vertically.

Seeing that the time was almost up, the three of them went to the hotel, but they didn't expect Liang Ying and Lan Yan to come earlier, and they were already waiting for them in the private room.

Only Liang Ying and Lan Yan were there, and the moment the door opened, Ding Min saw Lan Yan at a glance, and said in his heart what a beautiful girl!

Such a good girl, cheaper for my pig, congratulations.

The well-dressed blue face, with a little light makeup, looks particularly delicate.

The eyebrows like a crescent moon, the round eyes like pearls, and the cherry lips like dripping cherries under the delicate nose. The face is as white as condensed cream, crystal like jade, and the delicate skin without the slightest blemish is like frost and snow.

The long hair that I usually combed up is also draped over my shoulders today. She wears a red trench coat on the outside and a milky woolen sweater on the inside.

Seeing her future mother-in-law, Lan Yan was a little nervous, and grabbed her clothes with her little hands. was reminded by his mother with a touch of his toes, and then he reacted, showed a warm smile, and got up to say hello: "Hello Auntie, I'm Lan Yan, this is my mother Liang Ying, welcome you and Xiaoshuang to come to Jiangning to play." ”

Ding Min, who came to his senses, stepped forward with a smile, took Lan Yan's hands, looked up and down, and said: "What a lovely girl, our stinky boy, being able to find such a good girl as you is really a blessing that he has cultivated for several lifetimes." ”

In a word, the foundation was laid.

After introducing each other, it was much easier for everyone to talk about the day.

When Ding Min saw Lan Yan, he knew that she was the kind of girl who was well-behaved and sensible. Such a girl is a daughter-in-law, but it has to save a lot of worry. Although he will not object to his son falling in love with any girl, he has a daughter-in-law who meets his heart, and Ding Min is still very beautiful in his heart.

Moreover, if it seems too one-sided just to look at Lan Yan, then if you look at Lan Yan's mother again, it will be eight or nine to ten.

Liang Ying's words and bearing look unusual. The attitude is enthusiastic, and the words spoken have depth and connotation. Such a mother must not be wrong with the daughter who teaches her.

When two young people fall in love, many parents will focus on the quality of each other's parents.

If it is the kind of strong or unreasonable in-laws, they would rather break up the young couple than agree to the marriage.

While Ding Min is satisfied, his own performance is also excellent.

It doesn't matter if the level of education is not high, as long as you can speak, you can also be affirmed.

Ding Min and Liang Ying chatted casually, and their polite words seemed very close.

Liang Ying values Ning Zhiyuan, as long as Ding Min is not an evil mother-in-law, Liang Ying will not have any opinions. Now it seems that Ding Min is not only a very good person, but also a cheerful person. Yan Yan has such a mother-in-law, and she should not suffer any grievances when she marries.

Lan Yan was very nervous at first, worried that he would not do well here, and that he would not do well there, for fear of leaving a bad impression on Ding Min.

Fortunately, through communication, Lan Yan saw full of love in Ding Min's eyes, so he was relieved.

Ah Yuan really didn't lie to me, Auntie is really good.

Hehe, I can finally rest assured.