"One of the things I would like to say is to concretize the question and find the answer......"

After listening to Ning Yan quietly, Tan Yuqiu groaned and spoke.

Tan Yuqiu alone never interrupted Ning Yan's chatter, and he is a suitable audience that many people can't reach.

But what Ning Yan knew was ......

Tan Yuqiu is far more than that, otherwise he wouldn't have to say anything to ask for advice.

She is able to look at things from an objective point of view.

The word excellent is not exclusive to people with high social status, wealth and power.

Some people's excellence is only limited to the distribution of existing resources in society, and has not reached the corresponding level of 'respect' at the level of money......

Within the scope of Ning Yan's existing cognition, Tan Yuqiu is undoubtedly excellent.

At least what Ning Yan knows is that through his own efforts, Tan Yuqiu has a half-loan house on the edge of the Fifth Ring Road in the capital at the age of thirty, a good scooter, a job with an annual salary, and his own life.

There is no external factor that affects the love of life.

Tan Yuqiu put down the wine glass in his hand: "It's a pity that it is related to education, and such a profound question, even if it is concretized, the answer I give will be relatively one-sided." ”

Saying that, Tan Yuqiu looked at Ning Yan and made a helpless expression.

Ning Yan smiled: "I understand, in fact, I just want to hear your opinion before I go home." ”

"With my grandfather's character, if the reason was simple, he wouldn't be so pretentious. ”

Tan Yuqiu showed a sudden look: "What you are more puzzled about is why your grandfather will ignore your education and not let your mother interfere?"

Ning Yanyou gave Tan Yuqiu a detailed description of the matter.

So, what you want to hear is not a standard answer, but to want to know a different opinion, to look for ...... The truth?"

Seeing Ning Yan nodding, Tan Yuqiu relaxed a lot.

"In that case, I can say a few more words. ”

Tan Yuqiu added apologetically: "Because I never know what the living conditions of the rich level are like, I am afraid that what I say casually will affect your judgment and have far-reaching consequences." ”

"At the same time, the problem of education is already very ......"

Ning Yan smiled and said, "That's why I'm looking for you, because it's hard for me to imagine that you deliberately brought people into the ditch." ”

Tan Yuqiu just smiled and said in a deep voice.

"I didn't go to a very good university, and the elite school is very different from the ordinary university, and it may change in essence. ”

"My own experience is that most of the people in that period were relatively young and rebellious, and after entering the university, they were circled within a certain range and domesticated through certain means......"

Tan Yuqiu gave some examples.

Ning Yan listened attentively.

After Tan Yuqiu finished speaking, Ning Yan frowned and said: "I can't understand, because I am rich enough, I don't need to understand in-depth academic knowledge, business operation skills are not important, and I don't need to be kept in captivity, so I was allowed to wander around?"

"I'm just going to say my personal opinion, and I can't really help you analyze the problem. Tan Yuqiu replied.

"Moreover, I never thought that you would have such a terrible family background......"

When I heard Ning Yan talk about it before, Tan Yuqiu almost made up a big drama in his brain.

With unimaginable wealth, he was exiled to the people and suddenly taken back.

None of the results were ......

"Actually, you don't need to be too entangled, there is a saying that there is wine today and drunk today. ”

As he spoke, Tan Yuqiu raised his wine glass.

Ning Yan was suddenly stunned: "Thank you." ”

"If you come to Pengcheng earlier, this week will probably be more interesting, but there is no hurry, there is time. ”

Tan Yuqiu was silent for a moment, and then said, "If you don't mind, listen to me tell you a story?"

Ning Yan nodded hurriedly.

Tan Yuqiu sorted out his language and said after a while.

"I have an uncle friend who has a successful career, is gentle and considerate, and is currently single......"

“...... I have had two wives, the first one was met in online dating, at that time they thought it was necessary for each other, and then it was an ordinary story, getting married, having a successful career, everything was logical......"

When he said this, Tan Yuqiu paused, picked up his cocktail glass and took a sip.

Ning Yan didn't interject, he knew that the story Tan Yuqiu was going to tell hadn't finished yet.

“...... The next step was the divorce, and the two parties have so far insisted that their relationship is still there, but because the family has no children to maintain, it is difficult to continue to maintain......"

“...... Yes, it's the kind of cliché story that you often hear, the woman was found to be infertile and took the initiative to divorce ......"

“...... After that, the man quickly married another girl and had a child, but after the woman confirmed that she was pregnant, she disappeared and has not divorced until now......"

“...... However, this uncle has known this girl for a long time, and has had a relationship for a long time, and ...... in the first marriage"

“...... Uncle can't forget his ex-wife and his current wife and children on the one hand, but he has developed a third relationship of cohabitation and union, and the woman is younger than you......"

“...... About a month ago, this uncle talked to me, he still feels very lonely, he is still not satisfied with the current little girl, and he has no plans to get married, and he also told this little girl about his situation......"

“...... The uncle told me that he had never been at peace, and that no matter what period it was, he would never have less than three girls in a relationship at the same time......"

“...... Uncle wants to hear my analysis, what's wrong with him, why can't he find the right person, unfortunately, I don't know ......"

After Tan Yuqiu finished speaking, he fell silent.

Ning Yan was also silent, and he didn't answer quickly.

He was thinking about the example that Tan Yuqiu said.

Just two days ago, he saw a passage on the Internet -

Now this society is getting better and better, everyone is very sensible, boys are very sensible, as soon as they have money, they want to take care of a few more girls, girls are also very sensible, knowing that boys don't have money and don't stay with this boy, so as not to make him hard......

can also be continued, the more sensible thing about boys is that when they have no money, they know not to take care of other girls......

"I kind of understand the story. Ning Yan opened his mouth and said, "Maybe the family has arranged so much for me, just to let me learn to be prudent and sensible first?"

Tan Yuqiu didn't nod or shake his head, but said, "I'm just telling a story casually." ”

Ning Yan lowered his head, a few tea leaves floating on the water surface of the teacup, and then laughed.

The story Tan Yuqiu told is actually very simple, everyone will find many, many excuses for themselves to convince themselves.

Or it's unreasonable when love happens.

It's nothing more than thinking about it and standing up.

Combined with the previous question, I think of Tan Yuqiu suddenly telling this story.

Ning Yan smiled and said, "Thank you, thank you really, no one will come to tell me this." ”

What most people will say is, what are you afraid of when you have money, if you don't do this or that, are you considered a man?

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Broken bowls.