It's never too late to changeZhang Baotong 2019.4.25

In fact, you've always been unhappy with your life or an aspect of your life, and you're tempted to make a change. But you've been hesitating: Can I still be in time? For example, you want to be a writer, but you've been running around for life in the past, you haven't gone to college, and you don't have time to write quietly. Now that you have some time, you can dive in and concentrate on writing. That's a change.

There is no time limit for changing your life, as long as you want to change and put it into action, that is the beginning of change. Age is not the criterion and limit that changes your life, on the contrary, the older we get, the more we need to change. Change is a must for us to stay fresh and innovative, and it is the root cause of keeping us away from clichés and conformisms. It allows us to stay young and have young dreams.

When we are young, we will easily change and try different things, because the pressure of the situation and the self-improvement require us to make changes, so we can grow and progress in continuous change. However, as we get older, our lifestyle will be relatively fixed, our living conditions will be better, and our motivation and physique will slowly decline. So, we may be looking for more stability and comfort. At the same time, starting a family and having a family will make us less daring and adventurous than we used to be. Therefore, it is easy for us to be satisfied with the status quo and not to seek progress.

However, we are all people with dreams, and we all want them to come true. While we have achieved some achievements and achievements, our dreams have not been realized. To realize these dreams, it is necessary to overcome many difficulties and make great efforts. Maybe in the past, because of life and livelihood, we didn't have time to take care of our dreams. However, now we may have the time and conditions to work hard and strive for the realization of our dreams.

Dreams are the yearning and hope of our life, and the meaning of our life in this world. We know our gifts and intelligence, our own interests and pursuits. We see that some people don't start singing until they are 60 years old, they don't start learning piano until they are 70 years old, and they don't start learning to draw until they are 80 years old.

One of our team members is young, and his mentality is already old. His style of play is very old-fashioned, and he still stays on the left push and right attack. I've asked him to change his style of play many times, and he will play in an arc circle or a straight shot. However, he felt that as long as his basic skills were good, he could still defeat others.

Even though his fundamentals are good and his winning rate is relatively high, I don't usually send him on the court. Because his style of play is in the middle of the rules and lacks lethality. Later, when he was comparing, he got worse and worse, and then he realized that his playing style was too backward, so he began to practice pulling the arc circle and hitting the straight and horizontal. He practiced very seriously and hard, and in only half a year, his overall playing style and technical level have made great progress.

The realm and requirements of our dreams may be high, or they may not be high. For example, if we want to be writers, the dream can be very high or not. As long as you can publish your work on a literary website, you are considered a writer. However, there are thousands of such writers. But if you want to become a famous writer, it's so hard, it's too hard.

In fact, even if we can't become a famous writer, it's good to be an amateur writer. We don't have to write to earn money to support our families, we can just make it our joy and hobby, as long as it brings us joy and fulfillment. We are all ordinary people, and we don't have that kind of extraordinary talent and superior conditions to become famous and make a lot of money. As long as we can constantly change ourselves, surpass ourselves, and make life more meaningful, it is a kind of happiness and beauty.

So, we must recognize that it is never too late to start changing. It can change our lives.