Every family has a difficult scripture to readZhang Baotong2016.11.14

When I celebrated my father-in-law's birthday in the hotel at noon today, my son brought his girlfriend to celebrate. The first time I saw her www.biquge.info I thought her eyelids had just been cut. Because I heard from my son that her eyes have been inflamed recently, I didn't care. When I got home, my wife told me about it, and I immediately became angry. Because we were not satisfied with the girlfriend our son was looking for, and now we are about to get married, and she cut her eyelids again, how can this not annoy us?

In our opinion, eyelid cutting is self-harm, and we feel that eyelid cutting is not a serious thing. I sent a message to scold my son, saying that he didn't care about such a thing, and that he was a fool. Then, however, my wife's sister called to ask about it. I was even more annoyed, and immediately called my son, and while questioning him, I scolded him, saying that they had lost all the people to me. But it's already happening. So I told my wife that their marriage was gone and that they should go on a trip to get married. My wife persuaded me that I was almost ready for the marriage, so I would go about it as usual. I was so angry that I said that everything should be simple, don't toss like that.

As he was talking, his wife's best friend Cui Ling called, and as soon as his wife answered the phone, she went out. After about half an hour, his wife came back and said that Cuiling's brother-in-law Wei Guo went to her house with a kitchen knife and threatened to cut her husband Wei Jun. Her husband's guard picked up a wooden stick to fight him, and now the two are still facing each other in front of the building, and the onlookers are crowded. She wanted me to help her write a petition to sue her brother-in-law for defending the country. I asked what to write. My wife told me that Cuiling's father-in-law had two sons and three daughters. Before his death, my father-in-law told everyone that his family's yard was divided between his two sons, and his daughters had no share. However, the yard has always been lived in by Cuiling's family. Later, the house was demolished, and a set of 80-square-meter buildings was allocated to Cuiling's family, worth about 400,000 yuan. However, his younger brother Weiguo was unwilling, because he felt that the house should have half of his, so he carried a kitchen knife to his brother Weijun twice in three days to talk to his brother Weijun, asking his brother to give him at least 100,000 yuan. However, Cui Ling and her husband are both laid-off workers, her husband still has remnants, her son works for a private boss, and he only earns more than 2,000 a month, and he has just married a rural girl, and it is a difficult time. Seeing that Wei Guo was carrying a kitchen knife to find trouble, they gave Wei Guo 10,000 yuan. However, Wei Guo is too little, so he has to ask for 100,000. But Cuiling can't take out 100,000. For this reason, Wei Guo also threatened his mother and asked her to speak. Because what my father said when he was dying, my mother also knew. But her mother has been living with Cuiling, and she doesn't want to offend both sides, so she always refuses to speak. Therefore, Cui Ling wanted me to help her write a complaint against Wei Guo for threatening their house with a knife and smashing things in the house.

As soon as I heard this, I asked Cui Ling's father-in-law if he had a written will before he died. The wife said no, but only verbally. I told my wife, don't let Cui Ling write a complaint and a complaint. A lawsuit must have been lost by her, the house left by her father was originally divided for the two sons, but their family was monopolized, this lawsuit went to the court, the court will definitely ask for evidence, and they have no evidence, the court will definitely add two to five, one and a half, and, if the three daughters are more awake, they also propose to share the property, and then add her mother-in-law to it, the court may divide the house into six parts, and at that time, Cui Ling will not have time to cry. I told my wife that it would be best for her to find a lawyer who knew how to consult.

While playing in the afternoon, a guy asked my son when he was doing something. I was angry, so I told me what was worrying. He told me that it was nothing, that young people love beauty, and it is nothing to cut off their eyelids. So, he told me about his family's troubles. His daughter, who used to work for a private employer, married a man who worked as a volunteer in the government department. However, after having a child, the daughter was fired by the private boss, and the son-in-law earned too little as a volunteer, only 1,800 yuan a month, and had no house, so he lived in their house all day long, eating them, spending them, and making them annoyed to death, but there was no way. So, they forced their daughter to go out and find work. The daughter has now found a job, but she has lost the child to them. His wife, who was already in poor health and had no time to take care of herself, now has to watch the children for them all day long, and often prevents him from coming out to play. He said that he urged his son-in-law to move out and live in another place every day, but his son-in-law refused to leave.

After playing for a while, I remembered to call Wang Yufang and asked her to bring someone over to help clean my son's wedding room. Because I often go to the mountains of Shangluo, I have stayed at her house a few times. She is now working as a cleaner in Xi'an. As soon as the phone rang in, I asked her where she was. She said she had returned to her hometown. I asked her how her hometown was okay. She told me she didn't want to live. As he spoke, he began to cry. I asked her what was going on. She said her eldest son was going to drive her crazy. Her eldest son is twenty-seven or eighteen years old, and in the countryside, almost all children of this age are going to kindergarten. However, her son still refuses to find a partner, and asks her to buy him a car all day long. If you don't buy it, you will resolutely not look for a partner. He told his son a few objects through others, but his son didn't even see him, saying that if he didn't buy the car, he wouldn't find a partner for the rest of his life. However, she and her husband have just built a two-story building for their eldest son and younger son, so how can they have the money to buy a car for their eldest son? However, the eldest son forced her to take out a loan to buy a car. Therefore, she washed her face with tears almost every day for her son's affairs in the past few days when she came home. I persuaded her not to stay at home if she couldn't do it, and she just couldn't see it and not be upset. She listened to me and said that she would go back to Xi'an early tomorrow morning.

After the call, another golfer came over, and since I hadn't seen him for a long time, I had to play a few rounds with him. However, he waved his hand again and again, saying that he did not dare to fight. I asked why I didn't dare to fight. He told me that he had a bad heart lately and was afraid to do strenuous activities. I was taken aback when I saw his face, he was pale, listless, and sweating. For people who love to play and often play ball, it is very uncomfortable to watch others play but dare not play themselves. And he's more than ten years younger than me. For those who love to play, playing is an important part of the day. My family still lives on the seventh floor of the community, and my wife has been trying to move to the high-rise for two years because it is too hard to go upstairs, but there is no table and no friends there, so I can't play every day, so I have been refusing to leave here. We have a couple of former golfers who have moved to a new house where there are no tables, so they almost don't play anymore. Playing ball is not only a workout, but also a great pleasure. If you don't play for a day, you feel like you're delaying one of the most important tasks of the day. So, I really feel sorry for this sick golfer.

After playing ball, I came down from the complex building, and as soon as I went out, I happened to meet a colleague who used to be in middle school. This colleague is not like me who spends all his time at work, writing and playing, and neglects his children's education. He has always been very concerned about the education of his children, and he kept taking his children to learn English and mathematics when the children were very young, and also learned to swim and piano. Therefore, other people's children are more promising, enter prestigious universities, find a good job, and marry a good daughter-in-law. The daughter-in-law is not only a civil servant, but also the family is in business, so she has so much money that she doesn't have to worry about spending. Therefore, after chatting for a while, I said in an envious tone, although you have not achieved anything in your life, you have raised your children well. When he heard this, he also sighed, saying that his son and daughter-in-law had been married for four or five years, and they still have no children. I said I could go to the hospital and get it checked. But he shook his head like a drum, and said that he had been to the hospital several times, but when they asked his son, he would not tell them whose question it was.

When I got home, I took a nap and then turned on my computer to watch the news. One of them is called "Yu Xu's parents rushed to Tianjin: insisted on sleeping in their daughter's bed and didn't sleep all night". Yu Xu is a female pilot of the Air Force Bayi Flight Demonstration Team and the first female J-10 pilot in China. She was piloting a performance plane during training when she had an accident and crashed into the southwest of Dayangpu Village, Chenjiapu, Tangshan. The pilot in the front cabin parachuted successfully, and the female pilot Yu Xu in the rear cabin parachuted and hit the wingman ailerons during ejection, resulting in a failure to parachute and unfortunately died.

When I saw this news, my heart sank. We are all parents, and how does it feel to be parents when our baby daughter who has been raised for many years suddenly dies? We often feel upset and annoyed about our children's unsatisfactory feelings, but how sad and sad it should be when other people's children are gone! In contrast, we feel that we are still much luckier. So, I remembered what Ge You's mother once said: What is happiness? There are no patients in the hospital, and there are no relatives in the prison cell. That's the case, if life is unsatisfactory, nine times out of ten. Which family does not have troubles and unpleasant things? Which family does not have difficult scriptures?

Every family is composed of people from several families, and there are differences in living habits and personalities, which will inevitably produce various contradictions, and it is always justified to say that the public is justified, the mother-in-law is reasonable, and the little daughter-in-law is also justified hiding behind the door. It's just that when we look at other people's families, we see the good side. The contradictions and unhappiness in the family are known only to one's own family. If we hadn't listened to them, it would have been difficult for us to know that other people's homes also had a difficult scripture to read.

Yes, each family's circumstances and circumstances are different, and the troubles and outcomes will be different. The poor have the sorrows of the poor, the rich have the troubles of the rich, the beauties have the anxieties of the beauties, the ugly have the sighs of the ugly, the children have the sorrows of the children, the old have the sorrows of the old, the king has the long-term worries of the king, and the beggars have the near-term sorrows of the beggars. There is no perfect reality, and there is no perfect ending from beginning to end. The pursuit of perfection is people's mentality and dream, but the sky is cloudy and sunny, and it is the normal state of life for people to have good fortune and misfortune. We all want to live better than others, but we are powerless, and the sky is not beautiful, but we feel inferior to ourselves, and we sigh with hope. In this way, not only does every family have a difficult scripture, but in fact, everyone will have a difficult scripture.

People have no foresight, but they must have near-term worries. Joy, anger and sorrow are the essence of life. Anger and sorrow make us feel better about likes and pleasures, and likes and joys make our troubles and sorrows deeper. Whether people live happier or not does not depend on whether they are rich or poor, beautiful or ugly, but on our state of mind. As long as we adjust our mentality, we will have more happiness and joy, and we will have less worries and sorrows. In this way, our own scripture and the sutra at home will be much easier to read.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. But if the family can recite the scriptures well, there will be a comfortable world. If every family recites the scriptures well, the whole family will be harmonious and happy, and there will be few troubles. (To be continued.) )