How to create an aura that attracts others, translated by Zhang Bao

If you want to be attracted to others, you have to show your charm. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 info And your charisma is manifested in your behavior, including your posture, gait, demeanor, and manners. If you perform just right in these areas, then you will easily be attracted to people you like.

3. What is your body language?

Your facial expressions and body language are indicative of your attitude. Do you make people feel like they're having fun with life? That's actually very important. A good way to make life seem extraordinary and happy is to practice and maintain a brisk smile. Smiling may give you a slight wrinkle in your eyes, but think of the Mona Lisa, or smile a little brighter. The Mona Lisa makes people feel that her life is quite interesting, her heart is still water, but mysterious and lovely. This timeless charm is the embodiment of this wonderful combination. No one wants to be around a bored, irritable, or unfriendly woman. A depressed or angry woman will drive hordes of men away.

Another beautiful body language can be expressed with your hands. Are your hands relaxed or clenched? Nervous hands reveal a closed, stubborn, or unfortunate personality. Rigid women can make men feel crazy. However, if your palms are relaxed and your wrists are calm, this subtle gesture will make you appear at ease. In other words, your calmness and ease will make you attracted to men. Women also like men who are easy and want them to treat them the same way. In fact, everyone's quiet and confident body language attracts the attention of others and gives a sense of peace of mind and warmth.

4. Have your own space

Whether you're walking, standing or sitting, it's crucial that you make yourself comfortable in the space you occupy, whether you're alone or with others. To do this, you don't allow yourself to show any discomfort. For example, with your eyes down or your arms clasped. Instead, it should be "having fun in the moment" and enjoying your current environment. That's what it means for you to have your own space. Suffice it to say, you can stop and smell the roses. The other way: you have to completely relax and become the queen of your own space. Frankly, at any given moment, the area you occupy does belong to you, so use it to the fullest. If you can feel completely relaxed, then you will be more than twenty times more attractive to the person you want.

At first, you may lack confidence in taking up extra space, but it doesn't matter much, you are casual and you will soon feel comfortable and comfortable. Keep your chin up, and most people won't suspect your initial discomfort. In addition to this, when you first start learning about the appeal of this important art, it's only natural that you'll feel a little shy about occupying these spaces. The good news is that over time, you don't even know why you've ever had concerns about having your space. I encourage you to start appreciating any tiny, but enjoyable, details around you. Fresh air, the smell of vanilla in your food, clear and beautiful skies, whether you're surrounded by huddles or empty.

A specific and very useful example of having your own space is when you choose to dine alone. A lot of women don't know how to do it, but what better way to get an admirer that's more fun than if you enjoyed a perfect, comfortable, laid-back lunch. When I was eating with my brother and the rest of my family, when my brother and I were teenagers, I was struck by the sight of a man dining alone, and the calmness of the way it felt like the whole world belonged to him alone. He is a master at occupying space. He doesn't look at his watch, he doesn't read novels. He ate slowly, admiring the wine from his glass, and then sat back in his seat to better appreciate the activities of the guests in the courtyard. He seems very elegant, somehow he is both impressive and fascinating. I have never forgotten the impression this stranger made on me. I just dropped out of high school, but this stranger changed me forever.

Be a little complacent: that is, a woman should dress brightly, wear light makeup, be full of energy, and be calm and confident. Confidence is invisibly taking up your space, but it's a very feminine thing. Men like women to dress up nicely, but not excessively or vulgarly. Yes, calm and confident is a subtle temperament and charm, so it doesn't need to be overdone. Delicate and bright, plain face to the sky, with a mysterious aura, but also the highest state of calm and self-confidence. For example, at a cocktail party, let's say you're sitting somewhere at the party, and you're surrounded by a lot of really interesting people. At this point, you can deliberately dress yourself and spread your skirt from your thighs to your knees, of course, to show him, or adjust the straps of your heels, and then gently spread your fingers from the ankles to the calves to show off your smug look.

5. Show off. Whatever you're doing, look natural and generous. Even if you're actually showing off your skirt or relaxing your heels, you can imagine him staring at you from a corner, his eyebrows raised subconsciously, his curiosity and his desire moving. But don't look too rushed while you're shining, and don't look around to see who's watching you. Be elegant, focused, and even a little complacent. It's an excellent way to attract men. You want to create an expected "sense of presence" that makes him eager to share some of your space.

There's a lot of fun to show off. It takes you to use your imagination and use it. There are a thousand ways to show off yourself, so whenever you get the chance, you should use this momentary attraction to fully express yourself, but remember never to reveal your private parts. Because the man you need is a thinking person, not just a man. You're never going to attract someone who's not good, so you have to do it in a proper and decent way. As a tip, makeup (including any type of makeup) should be done in the bathroom. Wearing lipstick in public isn't sexy, it can look tacky. So, don't think that a cultured man will appreciate you doing this. You will not be attracted to him, on the contrary, he will have a bad impression of you. However, as long as you behave appropriately, you will surely arouse his great interest and desire. At the end of the day, he will remember your demeanor, your demeanor, and your sexiness. Isn't that exactly what you expected?

6. Don't fight unprepared battles.

It's part of self-exaltation, and it's something you have to live by. Where are you likely to meet that man you want to meet before you head out the door. To make a good impression on him, you must first have a good hairstyle, even if it means spending a little more money. A good hairstyle can really make you appear more self-esteem and at the same time make your face more symmetrical. When we have done everything we need to do about our appearance, we will become more confident and the spark within us will bloom almost magically, making us more amiable and approachable.

The second is to dress well, neither too tight, not too loose, not too exposed, not too hidden. In other words, it is beautiful and comfortable, not lukewarm. When you go out, dress as bright and beautiful as possible.

Finally, everything should look bright. Wear bright nail polish on your toes. Maybe it's bright pink, burning orange-red, or bright sky blue. Wear a beautiful bracelet that makes a pleasant sound when you move your hand. And men like to see these small temperaments of women. It's about "living in the world", that is, "how to do it". Once you do that, you'll easily attract those good men. You don't have to work hard or blink your eyelashes to attract him. Instead, all you have to do is create a little mystery to draw him in. To make a long story short, it's not that complicated to know that meeting a man you're happy with, but getting that man's attention requires using our wisdom and means, including our taste for life and femininity. This means creating an "aura of beauty" for yourself. Now you can attract men in this simple and natural way. You don't need to wait until another day to start exploring the charm of your gifts and becoming an outstanding person. Trust me when I say he's already smitten with you. He will turn a blind eye to anything but you, for your charming grace and beauty have taken over his entire vision.

Finally, by the way, when he approaches you, look into his eyes and grin at him. Knowing and feeling happy. (To be continued.) )