"I'll go!" Yang Meng looked around with wide eyes: "The dignified 'focus' boss lives in such a place?"

He is exaggerating to say this, Zhang Qiang's house is not as bad as he said, at least the location is good, in an old community in the city. More than 80 square meters of two bedrooms and one living room. But after all, it is an old house of more than 20 square meters. Not quite in line with Zhang Qiang's economic strength.

Zhang Qiang took out the drink he had just bought and threw a bottle to Yang Meng: "The bun has meat, not on the folds! It's good for me to live in this place alone." ”

Yang Meng took the drink, took a sip and pouted, "Come on, you, then what are you doing with money? You go to pick up Gao Pei and Ah Le in a while, and I won't go!"

Zhang Qiang looked at Yang Meng puzzled and asked, "Why do I think you seem to be hiding?"

Yang Meng did not deny it: "That's right." I'm so annoyed that I don't want it. I didn't dare to go back and see the kids. ”

"Go back and see the child?" asked Zhang Qiang, puzzled.

Yang Mengle said: "I'm a father now! The children are more than two years old!"

"Congratulations, congratulations, I'm going to prepare a big gift!" Zhang Qiang said.

Yang Meng nodded and said seriously: "Nonsense, otherwise what am I telling you all this?

Zhang Qiang was stunned for a moment, and then laughed.

Yang Meng said: "Let me tell you, my child has not left my side for more than two years, and it annoys me every day! ”

"Then go home and have a look!" Zhang Qiang said.

Yang Meng shook his head: "There are all kinds of messy things at home, and people are too lazy to go back." ”

Zhang Qiang smiled: "It's not like that if you don't go back like this! You've been outside for so many years, your family will definitely be worried if you don't go back, right? You have children here and are still so willful?"

Yang Meng sighed and said: "It's okay if you don't mention this, in fact, I always thought that I was still a child, and I ended up being a father so inexplicably, I am not mentally prepared for this!"

"What kind of psychological preparation do you need? What kind of preparations do you have to make when you become a father? If you come, you will be at ease! When you come, treat her well, and you can't let him come to the world in vain. Zhang Qiang said: "During this time, I have been thinking about a lot of things in it, and now the 'focus' business is gone, and I am also in my forties, and I am ready to start a family and change careers!"

Yang Meng smiled: "I'm sorry, Brother Qiang, it seems that your business will continue." ”

"What do you mean?" Zhang Qiang didn't understand.

Yang Meng scratched his head: "It's not just as simple as fishing you out, including the people who robbed your business, I let me clean it up." Although I dare not say it so absolutely, at least there is a ninety percent chance that it will be returned to you. ”

"What the hell have you done? I'll go, I know you have the ability, but do you know who they are?" Zhang Qiang's eyes widened.

Yang Meng sighed and said: "Do you believe me when I said I didn't do anything? I wanted to have a good time when I came back, but it turned out to be good, and all kinds of people provoked me." I don't like to bully people, but I don't like to be bullied even more!"

Zhang Qiang smiled: "Everyone is like this, but how many people can really do it?"

Yang Meng stretched and put the drink aside: "Don't waste time with you, you're right, it's not a way to waste time here, I'll go home to see the children!"

Zhang Qiang was stunned: "Are you leaving?"

"What are you doing if you don't leave?

It's a tragedy for the old man to stay in such a house!" Yang Meng said: "I'll buy a mobile phone, it's still the original number." Let's call you! You take a shower and get ready to pick up Ah Le and Gao Pei. Yang Meng got up after speaking: "Don't think I'm just here to get you, I'm asking for a big gift for my son!"

"Hahaha, I know!"

Yang Meng went to buy a mobile phone, but he didn't insert the card, and the mobile phone was stuck in Zete.

He rode Xiao Peng's motorcycle home: Anyway, Xiao Peng's family is now at his home. I don't know how their family affairs are handled.

But when Yang Meng returned home, the first thing he greeted was the 'parent doubles': 'Why don't you stay up all night when you have children?'

"Do you have this home in your eyes?"

"What the hell are you fooling around with? People of this age still go to nightclubs?"

Yang Meng really felt that one head was three big, you said that it was enough to start saying two words, and as soon as the conversation box of these two people opened, they began to chatter endlessly, for a whole hour! Yang Meng's ears were full of the voice of his parents 'Balabala Balabala', which was called a magic sound around the ears and lingering sounds.

Yang Meng is about to collapse, it's just enough to scold like this when she was a child, why is she still scolded at such an old age? No wonder children have to leave their parents to live after they get married, it really makes people collapse if they continue like this.

In fact, the 'right' thing is an unavoidable thing in all families in the Han Kingdom, and almost everyone has encountered this situation in the environment in which they grew up: in the name of love, under the slogan of being good for you, they constantly ridicule, suppress, deny, and criticize you. To put it bluntly, it is a means for parents to control their children.

In the Han Kingdom, as long as it is related to parents and children, some people must say: These parents love their children!

Parents abuse their children? That's called 'improper education,' which means loving the child。。。。。。

In fact, a lot of the time it's just to vent. In the Han Kingdom, if you want to experience what it is like to be an emperor, it is very simple. As long as you have a child, you can do whatever you want. The moral opinion and cultural inheritance in the society also say: What parents do is to love you, this is not nonsense.

To put it bluntly, this is the embodiment of the desire to control.

Oh, having a child can give you complete control over another life? Telling a child to be 'obedient' and 'filial', such a so-called excellent character, to put it bluntly, is just to mentally control the child in the name of love.

In the notorious PUA school, there is a way to teach boys how to make the other person feel inferior by suppressing girls, so as to be trained and tamed. What are you looking at, "Beidu college students encounter PUA man committing suicide", "Wuhan University female doctor of law was PUA" and other news, you will find that the common point of these news is that those men control girls in this way of making girls feel inferior. And this is exactly the same as the most common 'other people's children' in Han families. The Han style of educating children is always denying and attacking children, telling children where they are bad and where they are not good enough. They won't tell you what to do, they just set an ultimate goal and put it there: if you do it, you're a good boy, and if you can't, you're rubbish!

It is said that Han people have an inferiority complex when they go out, and now there are licking dogs everywhere.

Growing up in such an environment, how can a child not have low self-esteem?

I still remember when I was a child, every time my mother saw a children's performance on TV, she would be full of envy and say: "Look at how talented other people's children are, they are on TV at such a young age." ”

At that time, Yang Meng's head was big when she heard this, and she said: "Mom, you are willing to spend money to pay me for interest classes, and I can do it if I go to school!"

Then my mother didn't say anything to say, and then she didn't say 'someone else's child', but used a more unique trick.

The best thing is to make children feel guilty.

Well, that's how girls are dealt with in the notorious PUA school. When people make mistakes, they use emotions to blame each other, and then let the other party be wronged, self-blame, afraid, guilty, and so on.

Why do Han people like moral kidnapping? Because they have grown up in various environments where they have been kidnapped by morality!

"Without you, your father and I would have divorced a long time ago, and it would be impossible to endure it until now。。。。。。 ”

"Who is Mom and Dad working so hard for? Not for you?"

"Don't you study hard and be worthy of your parents' work of getting up early and staying up late every day?"

"Mom and Dad don't have a good job and can't create such a good environment for you, but everything is for you now!

"I'm reluctant to eat and wear, just to make you promising, look at you?"

"Forget it, I don't think I have raised you, and when I get old, I don't have to expect you to raise you, I will go to the nursing home by myself。。。。。。 ”

These words make adults feel full of guilt when they listen to them! Not to mention children who have not yet grown up? Behind every sentence is a stronger denial and accusation against the other party!

This way of using the other person's guilt to make the other person see their love will only add shadows and shackles to the child!

And there is a cruel law in this world, that is, the more injured people are, the easier it is to be the target of the abuser, that is, the Han people say, 'Misfortune is not a single thing, and there is no better than happiness'!

Pay attention to the news, most of the victims of those school bullying incidents are those children who have been hurt in the original family, and there are many children from single-parent families who are left behind in families. Their character after being hurt makes them a target for harm by bullies.

What's even more terrifying is that although every child hates this kind of life, when they grow up and become parents, it is natural that they will become the person they once hated the most.

Of course, this is not to say that children should not be educated. Children's growth and parents' education are very important, after all, the parents' life experience is of great help to Yang Meng's life, if you really don't care about growing up according to Yang Meng's own ideas, then what is Yang Meng's dream when she was a child?

Can that really work?

But now that he is a three-person person, he still has to scold and scold like this? Yang Meng really can't accept it.

"Zete, go to the city and buy a house!Let's go back to the city and live!" Yang Meng said.

When my mother heard this, she said angrily, "What do you mean?

Yang Meng shook his head: "I really miss my three years on the island now. Dandan, my good son, let's go!"

After saying that, he hugged his son and walked out directly!

"This bastard boy!" the old mother was furious, looked at Long Xixiang beside her and asked, "Xixiang, look at this stinky boy!

As a result, Long Xixiang nodded: "Auntie, uncle, you are really wrong about this!"

"Ahh