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Chapter 1111 on the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

Mengyu didn't dare to expect her mother-in-law to be good to her, knowing that although she had soft ears, she was also soft-hearted and would not be so bad.

Gu Dongxing sighed: "Isn't there still Min Xing at home? If she really doesn't get along with you, let her follow Min Xing in the future, and we can just give her money to raise dragons every month." ”

Mengyu looked up suddenly: He actually had such an idea?

"You're not afraid of being told that you're unfilial?"

Gu Dongxing shook his head: "I am a member of the army, and I am destined to be loyal and filial piety. Usually I rarely go home, and it is impossible to guard her to live.

Although it is said that many men marry wives in order to have someone to take care of their parents, I think that men owe the kindness of their parents, but women do not owe the kindness of their parents, and women are willing to do their filial piety for men, that is because they have love for men, and she is willing to use their love for men on the body of men's parents, therefore, women should be filial to their parents for men, which should not be regarded as the same, and men should be grateful to women for this.

Because, a woman does not owe a man's parents, she owes more to the kindness of her own parents!

Just like the two of us, you don't owe my mother, on the contrary, my mother owes you a favor.

All along, it's also my mom who is looking for trouble, and you've been tolerating my mom. I can't wronged you to put up with my mother without limits. Therefore, I can only say that if you get along, you will live together, and if you can't get along, you will live separately.

If my mother doesn't have any other children, I'll ask someone to take care of her, but my mother still has Minxing, and naturally, she is responsible for taking care of her mother. And I can only take care of her when I come back, and usually, I have to pay for her. ”

Mengyu looked at Gu Dongxing, but she didn't expect him to be able to think about her like this.

Moreover, his ideas are quite ahead of their time.

At this time, the word filial piety is a mountain that presses on the daughters-in-law's heads, which makes the daughters-in-law breathless.

Some people say that a woman does not have her own home in her life, her home when she was a child is her mother's home, and her home when she grows up and marries is her mother-in-law's family, that is, she does not have her own home.

Therefore, if a woman takes care of her parents, she will be scolded for only caring about her mother's family and ignoring her mother-in-law's family.

But in fact, who can say justice to a woman? A woman has been raised by her parents since she was a child, but her mother-in-law has never raised her for a day.

After a woman gets married, she asks her to honor the man's parents, but she can't honor the parents who raised her, how cruel is it to a woman?

But in fact, a man's parents are just a relationship formed because of a man, and in real terms, what kind of kindness do a man's parents have for her? What she really should repay is the nurturing grace of her own parents.

Some people may say that the man's family gives the woman's family a certain dowry, doesn't it mean that the man's family buys the daughter-in-law back?

But in fact, the man's family gives the bride price, and the woman's family gives the dowry, these are the support of the elders for the younger generation to form a family.

Of course, some women accept the bride price and do not give the dowry, and some men confiscate the dowry of the daughter-in-law when the woman marries into the family, but this is not the mainstream. What's more, the man gives the bride price, and the woman not only returns it all, but also has to pay a lot of dowry.

Because of this, giving birth to a daughter will be scolded for losing money!

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a problem for the ages, in fact, the most fundamental reason is that the daughter-in-law does not owe her mother-in-law's kindness, but the society requires the daughter-in-law to be filial to her mother-in-law, and does not recognize the daughter-in-law to be filial to her parents!

Once the daughter-in-law is inconsiderate to her mother-in-law and takes care of her parents, she will be condemned, and the man will hate it, and even her children will hate her mother's filial piety to her parents, thinking that it is just a foreign family.

But you have forgotten that the so-called foreign family is the home of your wife (mother) who raised you since childhood!

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