Chapter 57: Inability to Communicate
"I said Teacher Si, you also came from when you were a child, this child is only six or seven years old, it is normal to be naughty, and the more naughty a boy is, the smarter he is, don't you understand this as a teacher?" Wang Yiming's grandmother took Wang Yiming's hand, pressed his head in her arms, patted his back, and complained with a full face, "Isn't it just pulling other people's braids and tearing up a few homework books, all of which are trivial things, and it is worth your fuss to talk to my son." ”
Si Qi smiled slightly and said: "It is normal for children to be naughty, this is also the nature of children, but there is always a degree to everything, dragging other children's braids alive, pushing people down the stairs while people are unprepared, pouring hot water on other children's bodies, these are far beyond the scope of naughtiness, although it has not caused major harm yet, but we can't always correct the child's behavior after something big, don't you say?"
"There are so many teachers in your kindergarten, how much can happen, and we paid the tuition, of course the accident is a problem in the kindergarten, why should it be pushed on my Xiaobao?" Wang Yiming's grandmother was anxious, "My Xiaobao has just turned seven years old, and he is usually very well-behaved, and he has always been very obedient at home, why did it become like this when he arrived in your kindergarten, how did you teach the children?"
"Grandma Wang Yiming, can't you say that?" Wang Jing couldn't help but interject anymore, "The kindergarten is charging tuition, but that's just tuition, the cost of learning knowledge, we are just teachers, not nannies, we are only responsible for teaching them knowledge, as for the truth of being a human being, parents need to lead by example, no matter how good we teach, your parents blindly connive and cover up, so what's the use?"
She couldn't help but push away Si Qi's hand that wanted to stop her, and continued: "Let's talk about Wang Yiming, we told him that the way to pour hot water on other children is wrong, if the water is too hot, it will burn other children, but you tell him that you don't need to listen to our nonsense, a little hot water is not a big deal, just change your clothes, what does the child know, of course he listens to you, if parents are like you, how should our teachers teach?"
"It's hot water, but it's all hot water for your children, and it's not boiling water, how can you burn other children?" Grandma Wang Yiming's eyes widened, and the more she spoke, the more angry she became.
"Whether it's hot water or boiling water, it's just not right. Wang Jing was also angry, she had endured Wang Yiming's grandmother for a long time, "He is only seven years old like this, if you don't tell him that this practice is wrong now, when he grows up and has the ability to have access to boiling water, he will not think that there is anything wrong with pouring boiling water on others, you are conniving at him to go further and further down the wrong road." ”
Grandma Wang Yiming was also angry, "I said Mr. Wang, are you cursing my little treasure? He is still a child, he is only seven years old, he knows what is right and wrong, isn't it just to put hot water on other children's pants, I can't pay for pants, I pay ten, anyway, my son is capable, and if you pay it, it's not a matter of money, and we pay for tuition, can't we afford to pay a few pairs of pants?"
"Yes, he is still a child, he doesn't know right and wrong, but we adults know right and wrong, you always understand, right?" Wang Jing also gritted his teeth, suppressed his anger, and said: "To educate children, parents and teachers have to cooperate, you blindly oppose what we teach, then what else does he send to the kindergarten to do, you can take it home and teach it yourself! He is now in the middle of the toddler has seriously affected the children of other families, who is not the heart and soul of the parents at home, which child does not have the favor of grandparents." ”
"Teacher Wang, you little girl, why do you speak so ugly, I want to be able to teach, who still spends money to send Xiaobao to your school?" Wang Yiming's grandmother's eyes were on fire and her saliva was spraying: "You can't teach children well, do you still want to rely on our parents?" Anyway, my Xiaobao will never pour water on others at home, he is like this in kindergarten, you must be poor in teaching, why blame my Xiaobao, he is still a child. ”
"......" Wang Jing covered her chest, looked at the sky and took a long breath, took three deep breaths in a reluctant, and then looked at Si Qi speechlessly, and smiled bitterly: "He is still a child, he is still a child, this is the sentence I hate to hear the most in this world, sure enough, there is a bear parent behind every bear child, Sister Qi, I can't help it, this is completely impossible to communicate, can't communicate." ”
"Grandma Wang Yiming, don't be angry yet. Si Qi hurriedly pulled Wang Jing, who was about to be angry, pulled away, thought about it, and said: "Although Mr. Wang said it directly, there is still a reason, six or seven years old is the best time for children to develop good habits, as the saying goes, three years old is big, six years old is old, some things are right and wrong This time is best to let children understand, in fact, Wang Yiming is still very smart, and his learning ability and hands-on ability are also very strong..."
"Of course, my little Poco is smart. Wang Yiming's grandmother saw someone praising her grandson, her face suddenly turned cloudy to clear, and she said happily: "When he was two years old, he would memorize ancient poems and multiplication tables, and my old man said that he would be the life of the champion general in the future, and you can't treat my grandson badly, if you let me know that someone is bullying him, my old woman will never want to." ”
Si Qi smiled bitterly, and said busily: "It is precisely because he has been very smart since he was a child, and we all want him to go further and better in the future, so now it is more important to let him understand the reason, don't you say?"
Grandma Wang Yiming pursed her lips and said: "Teacher Si, you are the best teacher in the kindergarten, I am not afraid to tell you, originally I wanted my son to send Xiaobao to Fenglin Kindergarten, you know, the kindergarten has to pay tens of thousands of tuition fees for one semester alone, and the teachers are many and responsible, many of them are brand university graduates, unlike public kindergartens like you, the academic qualifications are ordinary, but my son insisted that you are good here, so I had to send Xiaobao to you here to study." ”
Wang Jing immediately rolled her eyes again, a tuition fee of tens of thousands, of course, you can invite a lot of teachers, requiring a high degree of diploma, they have three melons and two dates a month, and three teachers have to bring dozens of students, which is not good at all in grade?
I only heard Wang Yiming's grandmother continue: "I don't care how you teach him the truth, but my Xiaobao is very obedient, even if he accidentally tears the clothes of other children's children or something, we just pay for it, it's not as complicated and terrible as you say, don't scare me, my son is brought up like this, you see, he is not the top capable and capable now, holding the national iron rice bowl, and he doesn't have to worry about it for the rest of his life." ”
Si Qi just sighed helplessly, touched Wang Yiming's head, and said, "Yiming, you go home with grandma first!
Wang Yiming immediately grabbed his grandmother's hand and dragged her out of the office.
"Sister Qi, Wang Yiming's grandmother can't communicate at all!" Wang Jing said a little frantically: "I think she has to make an accident before she can admit her family's problems." ”
Si Qi was also helpless: "What she said just now is very right, if something really happens, our kindergarten is also responsible, and we have to bear a lot of responsibility." ”
Wang Jing looked at her watch while cleaning up the table, and said, "Wang Yiming's father said that he estimated that he would arrive at kindergarten at half past seven, and I didn't have classes at night, do you want me to wait for you to join me?"
"No need, you go back first!" Si Qi poured a glass of water and held it in his hand: "Xiaojun is going to take a painting class, just after class at seven o'clock, it's okay to have him with me, you better go back to accompany your dog quickly!"
Wang Jing grinned: "Then I'll go first, and I'll bring you and Xiaojun the fried buns downstairs to my house tomorrow morning." ”
"Okay, then you arrive early, I'll make some porridge at home. Si Qi was not polite, sat back at the desk with a teacup, and took out a book to pass the time.
Wang Jing carried her bag and went out, just colliding with Xie Min, who rushed in from outside.
"Hey, are you being chased by a ghost?" Wang Jing sighed with his head in his hands.
Xie Min leaned in and quickly kissed her on the head, blinked and threw a wink: "Baby, I'm sorry, I'm 100,000 anxious to wait for Sister Qi to help." After speaking, she immediately put on a crying face, hummed and pounced on Si Qi's table, and kept pounding the table with both hands, "Sister Qi, Sister Qi, help, help, I can't live anymore, can you bear to see my hair almost bald?"
Si Qi didn't take his eyes off the page, and said with a faint smile: "Except for the dance class, I can help you with everything." ”
"God, earth, it's the dance class that wants my life!" Xie Min cried with a good singing and songwriting performance, "Last time, the plot dance won the grand prize, so that the principal and parents were like chickens, and they really ran to sign up for major dance competitions, next year's children's dance competition will be in May in the first half of the year, and now we have been notified to participate in the competition, can this make me swollen?"
Si Qi glanced at her with a smile, "You should go to the principal, what's the use of looking for me?"
"The dance is for you, the music is written, and the children participating in the competition are all trained by you, what's the use of looking for the principal?" Xie Min cried with a sad face, "The principal said, if I mess up this matter, I can directly write a resignation report and go home to continue to be everyone's girlfriend." ”
"How good it is to be the eldest lady, I wait for a good thing that ordinary people can't dream of. Si Qi smiled and blinked: "Besides, with your ability and conditions, you don't need my help at all, instead of crying here, it is better to hurry up and discuss the preparations for the competition with Teacher Zhou and Teacher Meng, they have all worked in the kindergarten for many years, have participated in various competitions, have rich experience, and there will be no problems with them in charge." ”