"I haven't seen you for ten years, may you see you as soon as you first met"

[Interpretation: He Yongqi]

"I haven't seen you for ten years, may you see you as soon as you first met":

This person must be in deep thought, he is thinking about someone......

Nine times out of ten, he, the person he misses, is a woman.

This man and that girl have known each other for more than ten years! And this girl is his first love!

What is the image of a girl?—— gentle and generous!

Judging from the sentence structure, it belongs to modern poetry, and the time is not too long, probably after the late Qing Dynasty. Personally, I estimate that it should come from a certain period of time after the Republic of China.

The image of this girl should be like this: "Little jasper, gentle and generous, delicate, not beautiful." ”

She is the kind of light beauty (intellectual beauty), which further determines the origin of the time period, which is probably the time period of the Republic of China.

There is a question: why can't this girl be with him?

This is a doubt, this man, to the girl, should be unrequited love. I know, but I can't talk about falling in love! The girl rejected him! Perhaps, he... I have never expressed my love to a girl......

Here, it is pointed out that the man and the girl are ordinary friends! They are not lovers. The man is unrequited......

"May you see it as you first saw it!" what does that mean?

This is even more certain that "men are unrequited love". He and the girl are just a very ordinary relationship! Just acquaintance, meeting. Maybe it's a colleague, not a classmate. There is a big age gap between men and girls! Men are much bigger than girls. Almost, about ten years apart.

"I haven't seen you for ten years, may you see it for the first time!" This man, what does he like about girls??—— the answer is pure! That is: the girl's delicate and simple attracts men, which makes him obsessed with girls.

They even said that "they are not friends", they are not classmates, they are not colleagues, they are passers-by......! The girl doesn't even know about the guy.

"I haven't seen you for ten years, may you see you as soon as you first met!" here reflects "flashing, love! Men are unrequited love". This man, for the girl, is obsessed. Yes, yes. The girl was so impressed with him!—but... The girl, now married, is also married. As for the man??—— only left missing!

He knew that it was impossible! Everyone should have a ......

Man, he can't let go of this love! Although it's unrequited love, he can't let go of it......

The girl probably didn't know about the man, they met in the water, and the girl didn't remember him. The two can only say that they know each other, but they don't know each other......

"I haven't seen you for ten years, may you see you for the first time!" "Lovesickness and love, as I have said earlier, the man is "unrequited love...", and the following answer is "first meeting".

"I haven't seen you for ten years, may you see you as soon as you first met!" Actually, here, not necessarily, refers to "love"; more, just memories......

"I haven't seen you for ten years, may you see it as you first saw it"! This "seeing" has two meanings: one is to see each other (longing), and the other is to reproduce ??—— "expectation".

See? Look at how humorous my explanation is! Here you go, it's not ordinary.

Front. The expression is "missing...", which has already been said. For example, "not seen for ten years" here means "missing". The latter "may you see it as you first saw it" refers to ?—— "reappearance" - anticipation!

Now, let's talk about "reproduction". It is a kind of contemplative nostalgia, which expresses the following: I hope to go back to the past!

This also points to another problem,—— the man's original choice was "wrong".

That is to say: the man made the wrong choice at the beginning, he refused, the girl's love!

If you look at it this way, then the unrequited love is not a man!

The girl likes the man, but the man doesn't feel for her. This no feeling means that the man didn't feel for her at that time. But what happened when the girl got married...... The boy's marriage broke down? At this time, he missed the beauty of the girl.

At first, the man had no feelings for the girl, but after a broken marriage, he suddenly realized——Oh! She's actually beautiful! Why didn't I notice it at the beginning?——

Therefore, the man said, "I haven't seen you for ten years, may you see you as soon as you first met..."

What does that mean? It says: Ten years have passed, may you flash as you did at the beginning.

This is once again confirmed, the man and the girl only "met by chance", and returned to the past......

This is back to the words of Mulan, "If life is only as first seen, what is the autumn wind, sadness... Painting fan".

"I haven't seen you for ten years, may you see you as you first met" has another meaning, it is cold, saying: We haven't seen you for a long time, let's let it go! I hope you will go away......

Okay, let's stay in this mood!

Someone asked, "Lao Tzu's thought, or Confucius's thought", which is better in modern times?

I said: Of course, Lao Tzu's thought is more suitable for modern society. Lao Tzu's thought attaches importance to the "individual," and he attaches importance to individual freedom! Respect for life is the core proposition of Lao Tzu's thought.

The United States uses "Lao Tzu's ideology to govern the country"; Lao Tzu advocates people's freedom and free space! Only free people can be creative.

Why do top scientists want to study in Europe and the United States? It must be that their academic thinking is more open and free. This is conducive to the common development of different fields.

Different disciplines can compete within a free space. In this way, a direction has been pointed out to the whole country and society, that is, forward!

The competition mechanism of survival of the fittest has avoided stagnation! In fact, stopping is tantamount to retrogression.

Many people say that "freedom" is the law of the jungle, and isn't it a kind of laziness to abandon the law of the jungle?

It's good to be comfortable, you have food and drink, and you don't have to work hard and study. This will lead to one result: the distance between you and the world will be widening and growing.

In the end, the Qing Empire was awakened by the sound of a cannon. At this time, I realized that I was backward. It was too late, the times did not give it, a respite.

Lao Tzu's thought is that he admires nature and protects human nature! That is to say, every human being is free, and his thoughts are not restricted, and this stimulates "individual creative talent."

Confucius's thinking is too stubborn! It is also too conservative, and if he keeps this small family, Confucius will be content.

Confucius didn't like competition, he emphasized "obedience"! As long as you are obedient, you will be a good student.

It's very strange! Confucius only demanded that his students be obedient, but he did whatever he wanted, and only allowed the state officials to set fires, and not to allow people to light lamps. What kind of mindset is this???

Confucius, forever, will stand on the same level as the common people. He wants to be a "teacher", only he teaches students, and there is no student teaching teacher. Otherwise, heaven will not tolerate it, and it will be a great rebellion.

Here, we can see the difference between Lao Tzu and Confucius's thoughts.

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Author: He Yongqi