Chapter 227: Pretty Woman
Beautiful woman Zhang Dingtong 2016.9.14
A woman is an inseparable companion for a man. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. biquge。 info can work in the fields during the day, sleep in his arms at night, give birth to children for men, and take care of household chores. Therefore, marrying a daughter-in-law has become the most important event in a man's life. Modern civilization has abolished polygamy, making it possible for a man to marry only one woman. And the normal ratio of male to female children is about the same as just one woman for every man. Originally, everyone could get a woman without fighting or grabbing. But in fact, this is not the case, because women are different in beauty and ugliness, so that both men and women have been facing difficulties in choosing a mate. Many young men and women have been looking for years and have not been able to do so.
The main reason for this situation is that there are too few beautiful women. You can think about it, although there are many women, but only 12 out of 10 can be called beautiful, and more than 10 people compete for one or two beautiful women, how can this not be a difficult thing? However, there is no way, men just like beautiful women, whether it is a hero who is sad to pass the beauty level, or Yan Ruyu in the book. It's all about beautiful women. It's no wonder that men are fascinated when they see a beautiful woman, and their hormones rise sharply. It's as if men live for beautiful women.
In fact, whether a woman is beautiful or not is beautiful, it should be said that each has its own advantages and disadvantages. If you want to feel decent in front of others, show off, and find a beautiful woman will naturally feel more beautiful, but if you want to live a more realistic life, maybe it is more appropriate to find a woman who is not beautiful. Because women who are not beautiful are more able to bear hardships and stand hard work, and they can truly love you more. We often find that the original matches of the generals are almost not very beautiful. That's because the general was still very young when he married his wife, and he was still an ordinary officer and soldier at a remote outpost. And beautiful women will not be willing to follow them to that kind of place to endure hardship, nor will they be willing to be lonely and alone in an empty house. And this kind of thing is something that only women who are not beautiful do. Whether in our literature or in real life, we often have very different images of beautiful women and unbeautiful women who are alone in an empty room. That is, women who are not beautiful are hard-working, hard-working, and those beautiful women are red apricots out of the wall, and scandals are constant.
As everyone knows, a beautiful woman herself is a delicate flower, with a kind of arrogant and lonely temperament. It's like you're not a flower grower, and you really can't wait for her. I watched a movie a few days ago, about a famous Greek pirate who took a lifetime of adventures, obtained countless treasures and possessions, became a famous tycoon, and lived an imperial life. In his palace, every day is spent drinking, singing and dancing, and women can be said to be hugging each other and full of friends. However, he didn't have any interest in them, and he just played with them every day. One day, however, he saw a beautiful woman. Although the woman was very poor, she wandered with her father, but she was extremely beautiful and noble. He felt that he had fallen into an evil spirit, and he could not extricate himself, so he asked someone to propose to the woman. But the beautiful woman didn't take a fancy to him at all, because after all, he was just a local tyrant born from a pirate. In order to please a woman, he asks her to make any conditions, and he will go to meet her. The woman pointed to the swamp outside the window and said that the swamp made me feel very uncomfortable. At any cost, the local tyrant dug a canal in the swamp and diverted the water from the swamp.
So, the woman married him. He was so happy. In order to make a woman happy, he is willing to do anything for a woman. Women liked to play the piano, so he installed a large piano in the palace. Let the woman sit at the piano and play the piano every day, and send the only teacher who can read and write by her side to read the music score for her. However, beautiful women still feel unhappy playing the piano every day. He cautiously questioned her and cared for her. But no matter what he did for her, she was still unhappy. One day, his daughter asked him to pay attention to the teacher who was reading the sheet music for a woman. As a result, he found out that the teacher was cheating on his wife and caught him red-handed.
When he slammed the door open and entered the house, he saw the teacher and his wife in bed. The teacher pleaded that it was all his fault and asked him to spare the woman. He let the teacher go, and wanted to give his wife power. However, he saw that his wife was so noble and beautiful, calm, and did not have the slightest panic or panic in the face of his collision. His heart was so weak that he knelt down and begged his wife, asking her what he could do to make her happy. But his wife did not answer him, and then followed the teacher away and flew away.
It hit him hard, and after some heartache, he finally went to the brothel, and begged the fat female companion with whom he had been friends in the past to return to him. Although this fat female companion was not pretty, and even very old and ugly, she was always by his side no matter what disaster he encountered.
Women are typical emotional creatures and are easily seduced by men. In particular, beautiful women, whether in the workplace, entertainment venues or private places, are much more likely to be harassed and seduced than ordinary women. Moreover, a woman's ability to resist temptation is also quite weak. Not to mention major events such as promotion and promotion, even the evaluation and joining the party can make many women bow down and throw themselves into their arms. A colleague of mine in the past who used to work with his wife was a train conductor, and he often openly told us in the office that his wife was his own at home, and he didn't know whose wife belonged when he left the house. I can tell another story about a woman's ability to resist temptation. Men A tell Men B how their wives are chaste and clean, and no man can make his wife cross the line and cheat. But man B didn't believe it. So, the two made a bet. On the same day, man A told his wife that he was going out for three days and asked her to close the door at night. In the evening, Man B came and knocked on the door. The woman asked him what he was doing. Man B said he missed her very much. But the woman said no. At this time, Man B threw a gold ingot from the window. Then, keep knocking on the door. The woman picked up the gold ingot, and her heart couldn't help but move. However, she still said no, afraid that it would be bad for her husband to know. So, Man B threw in another gold ingot. The woman picked up the second gold ingot, and the defense line in her heart had collapsed. However, she still wanted to do something cowardly. Because this kind of thing can't always make a woman promise too happily. However, before the woman could be frightened, Man B had already thrown the third gold ingot in. So, the woman didn't even hesitate, and just opened the door.
As a man, of course, I know that it is difficult for a beautiful woman to be clean, and I also know that a beautiful woman is self-pampering and selfish. But men still have a soft spot for beautiful women, and they are attracted to them, even flocking to them. Could it be that the men's eyes are in the trousers?
I don't know if other animals also have a "beauty complex". But the beauty complex of human beings has a history of thousands or even tens of thousands of years. When you see a beautiful woman, your eyes shine, when you see a beautiful woman, you can't walk, and when you see a beautiful woman, you can't sleep. This has become almost a common psychological and physiological reaction among men. Because there are so many places for a man to imagine and feel good about beautiful women. Whether ancient or modern, Chinese and foreign, or film and television literature, commercial advertisements, beautiful women are overwhelming, beckoning to us, smiling at us, secretly sending autumn waves to us, leaving us with beautiful imaginations and impressions, inducing us to love, love and yearn. Therefore, even if we walk down the street and face a large number of unbeautiful women, we can turn a blind eye and turn a blind eye, but our eyes are only fixed on those beautiful women.
However, feelings are often deceptive. Men's eyes are often confused by beauty, so that they can't distinguish between truth and falsehood, and can't distinguish between real gold and scrap copper. As everyone knows, the most valuable thing about a woman is her sincerity and dedication, the kind of willingness to pay and the courage to take responsibility. And these valuables are often manifested in women who are not beautiful. But it's easy for men to lose sight of a woman's inner beauty because of her beauty. A woman's inner beauty is the most precious and abundant place for a woman. If men don't recognize this, then men can only be regarded as unlucky and unlucky.
Finding a beautiful woman also comes at a price. A beautiful woman is selfish and selfish, she will put herself above you and need you to have more love and care for her, but she can ignore your earnestness and needs. She needs more time to dress up and you need more time to take care of the house. She will see caring for herself more than caring for others, and you will learn to listen and obey her wishes. Because she regards her beauty as the most important asset, and knows that you value her beauty, not her virtue.
A golfer I know very well has suffered all his life because he found a wife who was a little beautiful when he was young. He has been retired for a few years now, but his wife still insists on letting him go out to find work. After work, I have to cook for my wife, because my wife still can't cook. Although my wife retired ten years ago, she spends her days chatting and playing games in front of the computer. How would you feel if you found a woman like that?
If you find such a woman, you should be tired of suffering and love. Because it is not her virtue that convinces you of a beautiful woman, but her beauty. Especially after marriage, a beautiful face will slowly become ugly because of a bad temperament, and an unbeautiful face will become extremely cute because of a good temperament. The lifespan of a beautiful woman is so short.
The Afghan writer Ulfat explained in "Life": "It is the same water from the same stream, but some people hold it in golden cups, and some people drink it in clay cups." Those who had neither a cup of gold nor a cup of earth had to drink it with water in their hands. There is no difference in the water, the difference is in the vessel that holds the water. The difference between a monarch and a beggar is in the "vessels". Only the thirstiest know the sweetness of water best, and for the thirsty travelers who come from the desert, water is the most precious thing to them. ”
To men, women are like cups from which men drink water. Because of the different statuses, the cups you use are of course different. You have to ask the monarch to take a clay cup to drink, and it is possible that he would rather not drink water than use the earthen cup. And to let us drink from a golden cup, we may feel that this is too extravagant to be at a loss. The prince marrying Cinderella can be a beautiful story for the ages. But to let a beautiful princess marry a poor boy will inevitably ruin the scenery. It makes people feel like a flower is stuck in cow dung.
Not only are cups high and low, but people are also high and low. Some people are rich, some people are poor, some people are noble, some people are low. Material wealth and spiritual outlook are a kind of criterion for dividing people. When people have not yet reached the level of food and clothing, material wealth will be particularly important, but after people have no worries about food and clothing, spiritual outlook will become even more important. The same is true of a woman's beauty, if the beauty of the appearance is not full and rich of the inner beauty, her beauty will be very thin and monotonous, and it will be very short and short-lived. As a man, you should pay more attention to a woman's virtue and conduct, rather than just her appearance and appearance.
A good woman is our mentor and friend, and a shallow and selfish beautiful woman will only make us her slaves.